I feel the winning element in game, and my largest sticking point, is just having a good, strong, positive vibe that you can give to the set. I've seen my successful wings do this all the time, they just lock in to that vibe and never break it.

Unless it's the rare moment I'm in state, I'm more often in a more sullen/not-at-home-in-my-environment look—so I attempt to force a smile when I approach, but of course this is usually picked up by the girl.

All that said, I feel all the great PUAs who talk about this inner game have already done lots of approaches and gained a lot of experience, so I'm starting to feel that a good vibe can only happen at the price of doing months and months of practice. Is this true? Or is there anyway to practice *just* getting this vibe? I'm willing to let go of all other technical aspects of game just to learn it.