Was this a mistake?

2022-01-22T20:44:35+00:00

Tripp advice is the WORST IMO. He made an infield video with him approaching women in Chicago and… let’s just say it’s a bit uncomfortable to watch to say the least. He’s nothing but a scam artist. So no offense but Tripp definitely isn’t the best person to take advice from.

I follow AG Hayden, Honest Signalz and Austen Summers. They’re all amazing.

dogu189 · 2022-01-22T20:29:40+00:00

I don't see this as being needy or anything like that. People are unpredictable like this sometimes, she might have her personal issues she needs to take care of or she is doing it to get validation or she might have met somebody else or anything could have happened. You can't think about every possibility that you might have done something wrong. Real question is do you think you have played your cards wrong? If yes, learn from it, if not, move on.

The-Bull89 · 2022-01-22T21:37:55+00:00

In my experience if there's zero interaction between the day you setup the date and the day of the date there's a very strong chance she's gonna flake.

I like to keep up a bit of small talk each day just to maintain the attraction. Send her messages an hour or so apart keep it lighthearted and add a bit of humor. This shows that your interested and your making time for her even though you appear busy.

This is good way to test her interest levels as well, you know from her replies if she's gonna commit to the date or not. Always have a backup plan in mind incqse of a flake, could be with another girl or a friend/family. Nothing more annoying than making spqce on your schedule for someone only for them to cancel on short notice and your stuck doing nothing.

Alex_O7 · 2022-01-22T21:15:54+00:00

Imho not texting at all a girl is the cringiest thing a man could do while interacting with a woman. It is like you don't know how to do a thing and so you completely avoid that? That's bs.

Anyway it is not everything lost if I was you I will let pass some days and if she didn't text you anything you can text her back casually (if you really want her, I still suggest to move on).

RockStarAngel · 2022-01-22T19:36:47+00:00

What happened during that conversation you had with her?

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-01-22T22:27:16+00:00

Try not to text or call too much before meeting (or before sex, i’ve heard - and agree with), but women flake all the time for any reason.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-22T19:52:45+00:00

So you set a date and then blew up her phone like a needy pathetic loser and you wonder why she never called you back?

dasanman69 · 2022-01-22T20:17:23+00:00

She texted and you responded, elaborate on what you mean by that. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong by you current version of events. Are you leaving anything out?

Mmm91for · 2022-01-22T22:42:30+00:00

When you get a girls number wait at least two days before you message to set up the date. And message or call one day before the set day to confirm.

You kept messaging and kept calling her which was highly unattractive. You should’ve called/ texted once. If she replied okay your lit, if she didn’t then kick rocks you don’t need her anyways. She obviously saw your messages and missed calls. Keep this in mind next time.

If she does message you now you can try to set another one up but you should flake on her a day before the date.

2022-01-22T23:16:08+00:00

Don't be needy.

byteseed · 2022-01-23T09:22:40+00:00

Texting for logistics only is a good general advice. But it should not come from manipulation standpoint. Text as much as you want, but have boundaries. For example, I hate texting in general, so I call to have a date. And I do not text when I am working.

Indeed, for woman you just met, number one priority is to have a date and get you know each other, check if you really like her, which is not doable through text.

Regarding your interaction: You done very well.

Probably she is not really interested. With cold approach, attraction vanishes rapidly. I prefer to have instant dates, when you connect with each other. It gives much better base for a future. There is also a possibility that something is happening in her life, so just let it go for a while and see what happens. Some girls like to use guys for validation, not having a makeup is lame excuse and a red flag. Ask yourself if it was Jonnie Depp calling, will she go?

If she ignores you deliberately (which is common problem) stop any contact! She disrespected you by not responding, it means she doesn’t want you. Problems with communication in the beginning will guarantee problems with communication in the future. And you do not want people who do not want you, let her go.

Flakes are normal part of the game, keep approaching.

JawaSmasher · 2022-01-23T11:04:16+00:00

I recommend reading "3% man" from coach Corey Wayne it's free also his videos are good. When you find someone who's just as attracted and into you, you'll become spoiled in the way you view a relationship. Ya won't be setting down for anything less than what you're worth.

United_Virus7901 · 2022-01-23T16:20:51+00:00

Lol why you call so much to confirm makes it seem like your scared of loosing her even though you haven’t went out or even fucked

Aggressive_Library33 · 2022-07-08T04:33:06+00:00

You have to be very careful with Tripp Advice because he's teaching men total control over women and this is what abusive relationships are. Unless, you are trying to be that type of person steer clear of this information.

Title	Was this a mistake?
Author	Mysterious_Tour_8106
Upvotes	23
Comments	26
Date	January 22, 2022 7:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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