And had a great time. Saw a black guy in white face (ain't even mad), watched a couple trannies rap onstage, and saw and talked to all kinds of women I otherwise never would have.

I went to support a friend's coworker, so I had a reason to be there and no reason not to enjoy myself. Obviously, based on my appearance, I didn't fit in. But I didn't give a fuck, and I wasn't gonna try and be someone I wasn't by dressing in darker colors or something. And no one else gave a fuck either.... Which brings me to the reason I'm posting this morning..

I always see posts on here about "being comfortable." I hear a lot of people I know talk about it too - "how do I get myself to feel comfortable approaching random girls?" Or the big one "how do I make HER comfortable?"

And the answer is simple. You just have to lead by example.

Whenever talking to a girl, opening her or sustaining conversation, you should be projecting IM COMFORTABLE AND SO SHOULD YOU BE

just project that and be your self and the girls will be following YOU around. Trust me, you'll see. It works like a charm.

Even for a surfer in a goth bar. Have a great Saturday night everyone.