what am i doing wrong?

Top_Client9752 · 2022-08-28T11:20:26+00:00

Sounds like you need to build confidence and assertiveness. (Sounds easy, right? Too bad it’s hard work, but it pays off in all aspects of life). I’m in the process of uploading a series of “how to” articles on this here.

I’ve worked with a bunch of men who all went from chasing to being chased, and the transformation was all down to building authentic character traits that women find attractive, and orienting their lifestyles to come in contact with the type of women they find attractive.

OLD works for some, but meeting people IRL through activities or communities where you can get at least a glimpse of their character before investing in building a relationship tends to have better odds of LTR success.

Stay strong!

zapadz · 2022-08-28T17:57:30+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jf_FhuvpwEc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m46V1oZ_wJM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRzdqh4sYPQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--B5hwpqPuY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzKZeaCa9lc

pinkpingp0ng · 2022-08-29T20:43:13+00:00

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theKnightWatchman44 · 2022-08-28T11:02:08+00:00

OLD is trash. I can get girls IRL quite easily that would swipe left in 0.1s.

Women on OLD have way higher standards than their actual value.

whale_sports · 2022-08-28T10:30:22+00:00

Difficult to say. How many matches are you getting, what's in your bio compared to how you're coming across to them.

The things about you in your "bio", may not necessarily correspond to the messages you're sending out.

You're just going to have to go more in detail about "how these women lose interest in you.."

One rule....if youre "high up" on their attractiveness towards you....youd have to screw up ROYALLY for them to lose attraction so quickly.

Maybe (according to them), you're more of a "ehhh...okay...let's see what he's like". In that sense, you wouldn't have to do much of anything for them to lose interest.

Being able to go online, and just KNOW you'll be able to hookup with someone is amazing...its the vibe you give off.

All of that has to correlate, though. You still have time to learn.

Seems, to me, you could be coming across as a bit needy, though...

texaspete3 · 2022-08-28T14:58:54+00:00

If you continue to do the same things you have done in the past, expect to get the same results.

You have pointed out some of your tendencies, it is up to you to address them.

pmtrix86 · 2022-08-28T22:30:56+00:00

Most likely you aren't doing nothing wrong, honestly. Girls these days they have all the power on seduction, they have hundreds of options mostly coming from social media and dating apps, so for them it's easy to just jump into validation and not really stick longer with one guy.

Title	what am i doing wrong?
Author	pinkpingp0ng
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	August 28, 2022 9:47 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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