The girls I want to date don't want to date me. I approached multiple girls I like and they rejected me. Then I approached women I had no interest in or my interest in them was very low, and they accepted me and put some effort into our conversation.

Then I message girls on social media. The majority of them don't respond, block me, remove me, unfollow me. The ones I don't have the hots for respond to my messages and the ones I have the hots for are very rude, disrespectful, mean, and toxic to me.

What's going on, please explain?

I've been able to get girls numbers in the past. I've been able to date attractive girls in the past.

Is it because they think I'm ugly?

Is it because they think I'm [you can fill in the blanks here]?

Information about me:

  • i dress decently well. how do i know? i got compliments from attractive girls saying "I'm handsome, I'm hot, I'm a dirty boy"
  • i'm 6'1" for height and weigh 156 lbs, I'm slim fit
  • i'm decently good looking. how do i know? well i've been on some dates with attractive girls, not that attractive though

How I approach women?

  • "Hey what's your name? What program are you in? Why did you chose that program?"
  • Strong eye contact, back up straight
  • Playful vibe
  • "Hey I'd love to talk to you some more, please let me know when your free to hang out?" and then I say "What's your number/snapchat?"