What are the different "Sticking Points" in game? and their fix?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-19T14:37:48+00:00

Trying to prove your worth to the girl
Worrying about what other people think (negative judgments, being embarrassed in public,…)
Focusing on logic, facts and rationality, rather than on emotions and subjectivity.
Trying to read a girls mind about how she thinks of you.
Comparing yourself to others.
Behaving like a friend, and not like a lover.
Trying too hard to get her attention.
Oneitis and scarcity mindset (the obsession some guys have with an specific woman that just doesn’t seems to be that interested in them)
Unwillingness to treat a girl as their equal, rather than as a celebrity they need to impress.
Obsession with getting a girlfriend and locking her down in a commitment way too soon

Woujo · 2021-12-19T14:46:54+00:00

If you are fat and ugly you need to hit the gym.

But also you need to not think about yourself at all when interacting with women. You cannot spend a single second thinking about whether you are hot enough for her, good enough, etc. You can just focus on having fun in the moment. That's it.

norwegiandoggo · 2021-12-19T21:00:22+00:00

Those are not sticking points. Sticking points is when you try to hit on a girl, and you have a flaw in your game that prevents you from succeeding with women. And by your "game" i mean your social skills as it relates to hitting on women and getting what you want romantically or sexually.

Being fat.. that's a health problem. A sticking point would be something like "every time I try to kiss a girl she turns her cheek. What am I doing wrong?" - that something you're doing wrong is your sticking point.

A sticking point is a sticking point usually because you're stuck and don't know the solution. The issue and solutions isn't obvious to you. Hence, you're stuck. Hence the name sticking.

If you're fat, the solution is simple and you can move forwards to solving it easily. This is not the case with a sticking point. A sticking point makes you feel stuck at a certain point in the dating process. Often failing at the same point with different women over and over again and not understanding why.

iambabyshark · 2021-12-20T09:15:23+00:00

In terms of strictly game (in no particular order):

Approach anxiety, your first approach will be your hardest, but it gets easier every time
Knowing your value and how to present it
Knowing how to respond when someone points out something you're insecure about (basically prepare a response in advance)
Being able to hold a conversation that keeps people interested
Overcoming your "default" body language. Avoiding things such as leaning in when you speak, crossing your arms, fidgeting, talking too fast/quietly, staring at the ground when you walk, etc

Title	What are the different "Sticking Points" in game? and their fix?
Author	Agusmarvel96
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	December 19, 2021 2:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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