What are the essentials for being successful with girls?

Sheroclan · 2017-11-02T05:04:05+00:00

So everything kind of stacks, but if I had to put everything into an order...

Gym
Clothes
Confidence (this should be first, but the first 2 stack into this)
Experiences

I'll elaborate a little bit.

You should be going to the gym regardless. It's healthy, keeps your body in shape and the tip of that is it attracts more girls. It also helps fill your clothes, making them look better.

You should also have a sense of fashion. I have worn some ridiculous fucking shit this past year, and I was super aware of how it looked (I can post a picture if you'd like to see lmao). But you wear what you want with confidence and it kind of changes how it looks, if that makes any sense.

Confidence is honestly the biggest thing out of the list. Having clothes that look good on you, and looking good without clothes is a pretty big ego boost. That ego boost reflects OUTWARDS and girls enjoy a dude that's confident. I didn't say full of himself, I just said confidence. Me and the girl I've been going out with have a running joke that my ego is huge and any compliment she gives just inflates it even more. With that said, she doesn't stop with the compliments. It's not that I have some huge cocky ego, it's just that we both know what she thinks (read: negative) really doesn't matter to me as I'm pretty self-content.

Experiences are just the icing on the already delicious cake that should be you. I moved halfway across the world and have gone on adventures while I've been away. This makes me interesting. This makes me different than other guys. I think this is bullshit to an extent, but my girlfriend now and the past 2-3 girls I've hooked up with have all said they like me for my personality. It's bullshit because that doesn't get you anywhere on it's own, as you have to be physically attractive to a certain extent, but it does make a big difference in the longer run. The past girls I've hooked up with still message me from time to time and those "doors" are still open perse (I'm not a cheating scumbag, and I'm really into my girl, so while those doors are open I won't be touching them until I'm single). My experiences have given me the ability to tell stories and do things that most people will never get the opportunity to do.

Also get some hobbies

TheXXL · 2017-11-02T09:31:58+00:00

What would you say are the most important things in order to be really good with girls

Approaching them > everything else. Fuck this "you need to go the gym" bullshit... This stems from guys with low confidence. Even though it helps, it has less of an effect than people say.

Title	What are the essentials for being successful with girls?
Author	TehGibbZz
Upvotes	3
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Date	November 2, 2017 1:40 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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