What Can We Post About?

GeeseCTM · 2020-03-25T15:55:44+00:00

I can't speak for this group, sometimes I'm confused by things that they delete, and other times I agree.

There's been a couple of posts of mine that got deleted or whatever for reasons that I thought were ridiculous, what am I going to do?

But other times I've seen the moderators remove posts from completely ridiculous sources of guys who are trying to act like to have a lot of experience, are talking complete nonsense, and if you go back and read their history what they're preaching is definitely not what they're practicing.

Posts like: Don't be a pussy! Grab your balls and just go talk to women! and then the guy goes on and on about being a tough guy and how other guys are pussies, and you just got to go meet women by grabbing your balls and talking to women, you don't need all that game bro!

And then you go and look at the guys history, and 3 days ago he's asking people how to get phone numbers, or how he can't seem to get dates.

So that makes sense.

But that a couple of days ago I posted a post when I was a little bit drunk, and everybody's at home, nobody's doing anything, and I figured I would do an impromptu AMA and have a fun discussion with people about dating, especially like hey man let's be men, yeah we can't meet in person, but let's have a few beers and shoot s*** about dating and talk shop, and I got a message from the moderator saying that he deleted that post, because I haven't been vented or something like that.

But then I've seen AMAs in this group from coaches who have been "vented" who are absolutely terrible and who's messes I've already had to clean up after multiple times. (RSD coaches, Ex-Coaches, Others who scammed guys out of money then those guys come to be and start actually getting laid/women in their lives).

So at that point, I guess I don't understand the qualifications a coach has to have to be vented in this group.

And then, I guess, because there's so many scam artists coaches out there, that even mentioning you're a coach is frowned upon as if I'm trying to sell something, not that, hey just like any industry on Earth, maybe the experts are the people that you could learn from, kind of like if I was going to be a surgeon, I would probably go to surgical experts on how to learn how to be a surgeon and wouldn't frown on people who were fantastic surgical instructors.

I will tell you what a lot of it boils down to, and not just moderators but in general, in this industry there are a lot of people who are envious and jealous and angry that other people are having success.

This can work in two ways, and the first way, is that if someone is doing better than them, or they think that someone is doing better than them, then they are likely to Target that individual and try and bring them down a notch or two. Tall Poppy Syndrome.

In other cases, they overcompensate for their own lack of ability by trying to pick on people that they deem less successful than they are. Then they can float their ego and think to themselves, "at least I'm not in the same boat as that loser." When really they are.

However, let's be real. These groups are also filled with guys posting the same things over and over again, and a lot of times they're just general and not helpful.

"There's this one girl I like..."

"What do I text this girl..."

"Just be yourself! Mark Manson says you don't need game. Just grab your balls and go talk to women."

Like posts that are absolutely useless, and are completely off the mark of what a guy is going to need to succeed.

The standards fell apart after masf was eliminated.

Example I JUST saw..

https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/fos6ax/how_do_i_win_her_over_with_all_this_competition/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

The short answer is, stop worrying about the one girl, that one special girl, and go out and learn a skill set so that you can attract more girls.

It's not about going after that one special girl, (oneitis) it's about learning a skill set, becoming charismatic, and gaining the ability to attract an abundance of women overall.

quinnmcd · 2020-03-25T17:16:06+00:00

We are still updating the sidebar so I can see why you can be confused. r/seduction is really meant for intermediate to advanced questions. When questions are too board most of the time the questions have already been asked or there's no context/details. Many questions that are removed usually are beginner questions. I usually link beginner questions to Beginner Material I believe this answers roughly 85% of the most frequently asked questions. We encourage users to search their questions before asking.

If we can’t post in relation to our current life situations, how are we supposed to receive answers to questions unique to us?

This is what r/askseddit is for. Beginner questions and questions about specific situations go there.

If you feel like any of your posts are removed, but didn't deserve it please message the mod team and we'll clear up the reason why. If you are still confused please check out Posting Guidelines

Title	What Can We Post About?
Author	Altvr
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	March 25, 2020 3:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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