How to Start Improving My SMV

__Kevin__ · 2020-03-05T02:25:52+00:00

So, first, I want to congratulate you on acknowledging that the problem is you. So many self “incel” types lash out at women and want to blame them for their own shortcomings. You’ve done the first step, which is to realize that you need to change and evolve and grow as a man in order to earn women into your life.

I need some information before I can start to help you more effectively. What are your hobbies? Do you do any sports? What are your strengths as a man? What are your weaknesses? What do you spend the majority of your time doing? Are you living in a city, or the country?

I can give you effective, specific advice on how to go about turning your life around, but I need more details.

svartfal · 2020-03-05T06:11:46+00:00

I’m proud of you Man. You’ve taken the first step on an amazing journey. It started when you decided you were done with being a 1, and you acknowledge you are the only person that can do it.

Just as an aside, I wasted an evening reading some incel boards, it made me almost suicidal and I love my life. Can’t imagine what it does to men already feeling low. Don’t go there. You become like the people you hang out with, not just real life people but also online communities, books you read and movies you watch. Choose them carefully. It makes a bigger different than most people know.

You live in a world of unprecedented free information. Listen to podcasts while you are brushing your teeth or commuting( for you, I’d start with Tom Bilyeu and Jordan Peterson). Pay attention to your health and grooming. And if your free time is spent playing video games and watching porn, scale that back by 90% and spend all your newfound time getting buff, getting out into the real world, and pushing your comfort zone.

The best thing about starting at rock bottom is everything you do is an improvement.

Also, if your friends and coworkers try to pull you back into mediocrity, you’re on the right track.

Please DM if you have specific questions.

xStradlin · 2020-03-05T01:48:23+00:00

Start working out and improving yourself in every aspect. Read books, watch youtube videos on self improvement, eat healthy, sleep well, go to school if you have the means and join an organization. If you are comfortable, get out of your comfort zone. Remember, improving your SMV isn't something that just happens overnight. It's an incremental buildup that only you can improve.

matrixblackpill · 2020-03-06T06:12:51+00:00

For starters, although I agree with another commenter that I’m glad you’re pointing out things you can improve on, I see a lot of lack of confidence right now. You NEED to fix that in order to become good with women, you’re exhibiting the opposite of that right now. Second, I can help you with any perceived lack of looks, are you short or bald by any chance? Because I can assist you with both of those (don’t worry, no surgery or hair transplant)

excentrik-art · 2020-03-05T14:43:53+00:00

Start with very little things.

The thing that is holding you back is your comfort zone, look it up.

Find something that requires little of your courage to do, and do it every day.

Keep building up the momentum and add more courageous things to do.

Make this your habbit.

???

Profit

usedtimecapsule · 2020-03-05T15:44:47+00:00

Start working out
If you live in a city start approaching women
Reap the benefits of a fit body.

Title	How to Start Improving My SMV
Author	Altvr
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	March 5, 2020 1:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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