What did I do wrong here?

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-17T16:25:08+00:00

You technically did nothing wrong. But don't expect to see a 100% response rate on sexual hail mary's. Some coaches out there are all about fast escalation, but you always have to quickly move from set to set until it works. It's like a quick way of filtering until you get what you want. If you want to play it safer next time, try a low pressure conversation starter, something to reel her in before you jump to the escalation. Otherwise, move on and blast some messages out there.

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MysticalQuack · 2016-08-17T16:48:42+00:00

I hate instagram or any social media.

Girls would never respond to me and would eventually end up calling me a fuck boy.

Just don't use it.

chadbrochillout · 2016-08-17T21:29:01+00:00

Came on too strong. The odds of a direct sexual approach like that working are pretty low, unless you're out of her league, and even still.. Better to just say you have really cute pics, or you look great in such and such photo. And ask her questions related to any interesting photos( vacation, Halloween..)

Whywouldyoudodis · 2016-08-17T16:24:59+00:00

Internet problems.

cold_asspillow · 2016-08-17T20:34:08+00:00

Don't be ugly and don't be lame while attempting to be funny.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-08-17T22:24:00+00:00

So a girl messaged me on snapchat that I didnt know and thought she was hot.

Where did you meet this girl? In real life or online?

How exactly did you come into contact with her and how do you expect us to get a read on this without this information? :P

Then I asked for her IG.

Why? Because you wanted pics to look at?

After seeing her IG and seeing how hot she was, I responded back on snapchat with "Damn, seeing your IG gives me bad thoughts ;)"

Rookie mistake.

I know it seems exciting for you to take the risk of sharing this sort of thing with a girl. But it's too personal, especially if you've never known her before this.

But she didnt respond. What did I do wrong? I was trying to be playful sexual.

You put the cart before the horse. Too much, too fast, and verbal instead of physical actions.

tallguyjp · 2016-08-18T06:58:56+00:00

She just wanted attention. Ego boosting.

Treat hot girls like fat girls. They are nothing special until they benefit you in some way

raimondi1337 · 2016-08-18T15:24:10+00:00

Hot chicks get that constantly, you're just another Chad now, but unless you're one hell of a Chad, she doesn't care.

The old school neg style pickup works better on extremely attractive chicks. When they're used to compliments all day every day, throwing them a "2/10 elbows too pointy"/"that gap in your teeth is so cute" breaks them out of their pedestal frame a little bit and may make them seek validation from you.

Do that to an average girl and she'll probably just get sad tho.

thecompanymangone · 2016-08-17T17:57:06+00:00

She was seeking attention. You gave her what she wanted. She left. You do realize that 99% of the guys she messaged gave the same equivalent response to "you're hot". What makes your response so unique that she would respond to you? She now hopes that you follow her on Instagram with the hope of one day talking to "YOUR GODDESS". This is how "hot" women build up their social media following. Simple answer: You got used because you allowed yourself to be used. Lesson: Don't get used. This may sound harsh, but you must start understanding how and why "hot" women use social media.

Title	What did I do wrong here?
Author	Gaurav_Shinde
Upvotes	11
Comments	13
Date	August 17, 2016 3:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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