what do i do about not being enough?

FractalGuise · 2022-07-10T20:02:49+00:00

Learn to eat pussy bro. You think lesbians are dissatisfied in their sex life because they get no dick?? Most girls don’t even get of from vaginal penetration. There are multiple ways to please a girl.

cobraCL · 2022-07-10T20:28:29+00:00

Might be TMI but large "hung" penises generally do not make sex better for women. Porn tends to create a negative idea of what a normal penis is, and all the scripted big dick worship and fake moaning don't help either. An ex was larger than average and frankly I often grit my teeth in pain and wished it was over. On top of that, rawness and inflammation made me susceptible to UTIs which sucked. I couldn't really give great head either because I had to stop from jaw pain halfway through.

Please also keep in mind that also contrary to porn, most women (70% if I'm not mistaken), do not come from vaginal penetration only. Clitoral stimulation is what gives us the most pleasure, as there are actually few nerve endings in the vagina past the entrance. The G spot is essentially an internal continuation of nerves from the internal part of the clit.

I never orgasmed with my 'large' ex, but managed to do so with 2 fingers on my petite girl hands. Angle, pressure and speed matter way more than size. Mental arousal also drastically affects women's pleasure and rounded sexual experience.

I genuinely hope this makes you feel a bit better. It's a difficult situation, but your penis likely won't be the cause of your relationship troubles. Those punishing feelings of inadequacy will bleed through your behaviour as a partner, and will rob you of confidence and willingness to play and explore in the bedroom. Try tackle your negative self talk, and appreciate yourself as attractive. Makes a world of difference.

may-begin-now · 2022-07-10T21:00:32+00:00

Use your eyes to read her body language in response to your touch.

Use your ears to listen for what she likes and dislikes .

Use your voice to speak soft words of passion in her ear.

Use your fingers to excite her skin with your touch.

Use your tongue to make her squirm and climb the wall.

Make her greatest pleasure your favorite goal.

cangero0 · 2022-07-11T02:02:17+00:00

What everyone said, and also check out r/gettingbigger

fanofblackcurrant90 · 2022-07-11T09:36:28+00:00

How small is it? Generally guys will exaggerate about their size being overly small when it's usually fine

Title	what do i do about not being enough?
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Date	July 10, 2022 7:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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