What do people do on a date?

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-11-06T09:05:27+00:00

Man, I feel genuinely sorry that you're getting such unhelpful responses here. It seems that every response in this thread thus far came from some random pleb - those are not users of r/seduction and there is little value in their advice, I'm afraid.

I just started writing down my own "battleplan" for the first date, but I just realised that, one, it's a bit long when written down in detail, and two, it contains a lot of elements that are conguent with my weird personality, but might not make sense when you do it, so, scratch that.

The most important bits are this:

meet at night for drinks
touch the woman, high five her if she says or does something you like, make sure your legs are touching a bit when you are sitting down, and sit next to each other, not opposite each other (unless you can still have your legs touching when you're sitting opposite), start with small moves and escalate etc.

As Savoy wrote in "Magic Bullets": Increasing physical intimacy should be a natural and gradual escalation, not a sudden change of gears accompanied by a big awkward moment where you “make your move”.
don’t ask her about her personal information in the first fifteen minutes of the date, keep it light, and don't talk too much - instead, get her talking, listen and hold eye contact
afterwards you can ask her questions and turn it sexual, I suggest googling "question game", I use a variation of that
if you want to take the girl home, you can simply ask: "so, my place or your place?" or "do you want to go home with me?", and then shut up and be prepared that she might laugh - but relax, she's not laughing at you, but, for example, at the boldness of what you just said, and she might be down, so hold your frame.

manonpoint_com · 2019-11-06T17:34:49+00:00

First dates are about 3 main things: rapport, attraction, and comfort. You want a rapport, i.e. communication. You want to build attraction, and you want her to be comfortable. The best ways to do this, in my opinion, are simple ones, like drinks at a bar that isn't too loud but not dead quiet, or at the bar of a restaurant with a good bar scene. I'm writing a first date 101 series of articles, more will be coming soon, but you can check out the first 2 which cover the basic principles and some dates ideas to avoid: https://manonpoint.com/first-date-101-its-all-about-rac/ and https://manonpoint.com/first-date-101-6-first-dates-to-avoid/

sinbad2011 · 2019-11-07T01:03:31+00:00

Everything? You asking 4 Too much.lol

Some things to focus on dates

focus on having fun yourself. if something is fun for you, its likely fun for her too. don't focus too much on what to do.
Be curious about her. Very curious. in fact start being curious about eveyrone, not just girls.
ask follow up questions. investigate further. Most ppl ask...what do u do? she answers nurse. they dont ask follow up questions which will lead to interesting convos. What made you go 2 nursing. did you wanna do that when u were a kid? what were u like when you was a kiddo? cute kid? ugly kid? improvise from there dog.
dont make the kiss a big deal.
hold hands if u want.
play some games. mix in boring and fun things. arm wrestle. thumb war. I got a video on how to touch girls. 11 ways.

Corporal_Peacock · 2019-11-06T05:54:14+00:00

They pretend to be interested in the hopes and aspirations of the other person, until they fuck.

iplayhockey420 · 2019-11-06T05:59:02+00:00

Usually talk about interests and find similarities. Crack jokes and be flirty here and there. If she responds well, go further with your flirts and it's smooth sailing from there.

WillStaySilent · 2019-11-06T05:55:00+00:00

Fuck

Title	What do people do on a date?
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