what DO you talk about?!

DefinitelynotCam · 2014-09-28T10:52:36+00:00

Talk about adventures you plan on having. Travel is a good example. If you don't have any planned, get on it!

It opens up a lot of avenues you can talk about, like places they have visited, things they've done, sweet places to get a mean pho soup, etc

After that you can plan your own adventure with them. Maybe something small like checking out a vegan restaurant or taking a walk to find that awesome spot with the amazing view she knows (k close baby).

recyclablebantha · 2014-09-28T14:41:01+00:00

....there isnt a clear guide that says what a guy should be talking about after opening a girl.

It's not about what to talk about. How could you possibly know that, with so many different girls in the world? You couldn't.

You have to LISTEN to the girl in front of you and she'll give you all the material you need. Ask a basic question, almost anything. Then listen and dig deeper into that subject, using her answers to lead you along the way. Talk and discuss, with an eye towards getting at her emotions and motivations in whatever the topic is.

onetothehouse · 2014-09-28T23:40:40+00:00

This is where having an interesting life, doing cool hobbies, being passionate, and having good buddies comes into play.

Between current adventures, life ambitions, crazy stories of your own and second-hand ones, interesting stories involving your hobbies - you should have no issue keeping the conversation going.

Damn_ImGood · 2014-09-28T14:13:43+00:00

It really doesn't matter. People say it all the time because IT IS SO TRUE. Talk bullshit but be comfortable about it.

The way I do it: Talk bullshit but focus on how this girl is talking, where she's looking, her body language and then the words.

You bullshit until you hit an interesting point in the convo and go from there.

alex0919 · 2014-09-29T00:56:53+00:00

If I knew what to talk about, it'd feel rehearsed, and awkward.

Conversation's an art, it's a means to connect with people, and create amazing emotions where the girl wants to get intimate.

There are some brackets of conversation I work to use:

Rapport
Repartee

You need the rapport to help her feel like you know her very well, and to feel connected to you. You need the repartee to communicate you aren't a supplicating little bitch, and girls aren't some kind of goddess to you; e.g.

Repartee (M & Y are girls, A is me; this was a set of two beautiful European girls, mid-twenties. M is target.)

A: Why don't you two take off your sunglasses? I want to see your eyes
Y: No, I am hung over from last night
M: No, I have pink eye (laugh at each other)
A: I think you're lying to me
M: No, I do!
A: You're disappointing me (I touched her earlier in the conversation for something, I can't remember), so if I did this (touched near my eye), you just gave me pink eye!
M: Yeah, I did! Don't worry it goes away by itself! (she laughs with me this time, as I smile and show a little bit of my teeth)

Rapport (M is girl, A is me; this was a tall, blonde girl that was a BB player, mad cute)

A: So what did you do there in Texas?
M: I was in the hood teaching kids
A: Were there any guys -lean back acting like I'm driving a car- and bumping music?
M: Haha, no :)
A: It really is humbling to be down there, most people don't know how well they have it, it's crazy
M: Yeah, you're so right...
A: It's crazy though that those kids are really motivated to get out of there, they're often the best dreamers
M: Yeah, they really are...
A: So what's your schedule look like?
M: I work all week, 20h, trying to make it full time, but I'm free all day Friday
A: -grab her hands- How about we grab a drink and I get to know you? :)
M: ...Okay! -writes number down-

Title	what DO you talk about?!
Author	puaSquid97
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	September 28, 2014 10:16 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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