What does it mean to be "fun" and how important is this attribute in the dating world?

Formal123 · 2017-04-25T23:12:15+00:00

Put it this way... if a random person came up to you and was boring would you want to stay and talk with them?? It's the same with girls. You also have to be congruent to how you are feeling in that moment though, don't force the fun either.

appypollylogiess · 2017-04-25T23:12:50+00:00

I ask because I'm not fun or interesting like I used to be. And I don't think I can ever change. So I guess I'll die a virgin.

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-04-26T06:44:59+00:00

what is it about boring girls you hate the most? then don't do that kinda stuff yourself

Porno_Penguin · 2017-04-26T10:57:30+00:00

Here's an actual answer.

Being fun is being able to provide positive "thrills", even minor ones. Along with happy emotions and excitement, you want to keep their emotions changing. Bits of surprise, excitement, intrigue, and other emotions speckled in at different times. It's this abnormal fluctuation that helps create a sense of fun instead of just another happy moment.

It is quite important in the dating world. No one wants to spend too much time around anyone boring. But not like you have to be fun all the time either, just enough that you are associated with it in their eyes.

Hope that helps. :)

Title	What does it mean to be "fun" and how important is this attribute in the dating world?
Author	appypollylogiess
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	April 25, 2017 11:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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