What does this mean?

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-06-06T08:10:23+00:00

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Playful_Dot_537 · 2025-06-05T23:27:43+00:00

She is telling you to stop texting her so much.

Just wait a week or so and then hit her up again.

But keep talking to other women. This one is likely not going anywhere. Just chalk it up to experience.

Jazzlike_Milk4686 · 2025-06-05T23:44:40+00:00

She says dont give to much attention and Il be so attracted to you

jokerthebull · 2025-06-06T01:12:38+00:00

Youd know more of her personality. Maybe shes just giving you a warning of her bad habit? Also if you asked her out on a date get the next weekend shes available and leave it at that. Understand her schedule and work around it. I had a bumble date who didnt get off til 9 pm. Id call her around 10ish while she was cooking to engage with her.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-06-06T01:47:53+00:00

People are busy for things they don't prioritize. When a woman does not prioritize you is because going out with you does not sound promising so far. And i mean it when i say "so far" because t's not a permanent feeling, it can change if her feelings change; either because u both talked more and connected really well in the upcoming future, or because u suggested a plan that she just does not want to miss out on.

As for her comment about not being a good texter, well that shows she has met many impatient guys. She is seeking to control things and establishing the frame that you have to adapt to fit into her world.

She’s not saying, “I have this issue, sorry.”

She’s saying, “You’ll have to deal with me on my terms.”

That’s not a logistical issue. That’s a power move.

She’s framing the dynamic where u’re the one who has to be patient, understanding, accommodating… and hoping that eventually, maybe, she’ll respond.

And if u buy into it, you’re silently agreeing that her attention is scarce and u’re the one who has to prove u r worth more of it. That’s when u go from being a man she’s curious about to a guy who’s chasing updates like he’s tracking a delivery.

You need to remember or be aware of, that attractive men don't adapt or try to orbit around a woman's world. What they do is to be so magnetic, so inriguing that the woman naturally wants to fit into his world, because she is curious, because she feels something for him, and is willing to make an exception for him because of her feelings.

Now, you say you don't want to wait for days, so how do we work around here when she will try to establish her rules, while you have to stay grounded in yours?

Like i said "people are “busy” for what doesn’t excite them yet." it’s not a permanent feeling. It’s a current impression. If she saw u as unpredictable, emotionally stimulating, and fun as hell to be around, she’d be replying from the toilet if necessary.

So if she’s lukewarm, that means:

You haven’t built enough emotional pull yet, or
Your vibe has shifted into “trying to qualify” territory.

Either way, chasing won’t fix it. Re-igniting polarity will.

That means less logistical texts and more messages that stir curiosity or emotion. This is about creating a magnetic vibe that makes her prioritize her attention to u, without chasing, and without adapting to her lazy rhythm. She’ll want to text you back, not because u're pressuring her, but because u make her feel something others don’t. So she starts checking her phone hoping it’s u. Example:

Her: “Haha I’m definitely team chocolate. What did you do in Madrid?”

You: “Chocolate loyalty. I knew there was potential in you. As for Madrid… that depends. Do you want the classy version or the one that gets me judged a little?”

Here you are creating curiosity, she is likely to want to know what you did that was so embarrasing, this curiosity is more likely to grab her attention more than if you were to say " i did x y and z in madrid" which kills all the mystery immediately and doesn't make her anticipate anything.

There is more but lenght limit reached so feel free to DM me if you want.

Glacier_Sama · 2025-06-06T02:32:34+00:00

Just invite her out immediately. Skip the chatting. Fuck her before some other dude does.

Title	What does this mean?
Author	Difficult_Issue9814
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	June 5, 2025 10:58 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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