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[–]UoAPUA 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I think calling them shit tests is a detriment to most people actually trying to get laid. I think it creates a flawed mindset that leads to fake PUAs who end up sad. Shit test implies that a girl is intentionally testing you, and while this probably does happen sometimes, I don't think it's the real concern. We can't walk around thinking girls are out to get us and expect to be attractive males. Basically, a shit test is a scenario where a girl says or does something that provokes a response from you, and in this specific instance, how you respond could make or break her perception of you. So, if you take a girl on a date to a baseball game and she says, "half the reason I like going to games is because all the players wear those tight pants (;," how you respond really matters. You could get defensive and say, "I brought you here to spend time with me, not stare at other guys," and you demonstrate needy behavior. This will kill her perception of you. But it you brush it off like, "yeah me too (;," then you're a fun guy who doesn't get emotionally perturbed easily. Which you shouldn't, since you're a stud, right?
[–]calm_boy 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks again..... you are a pro.... god bless you...👍👍
[–]PDX_Relationshipnerd 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
u/UoAPUA did a good job of defining a shit test.
How to tackle every shit test?
The best way is to have confidence in yourself, and not to be reactive. Remember, a shit test is designed to get a response from you. If you don't overreact to situations and questions, you'll past most of the shit tests out there. If you can mix humor and confidence in there, you'll pass 99% of them.
Most shit tests women give out are to test how clingy and possessive you are. Others will try to see if you're interested in other women and if you're as honest as you say you are. You can't prepare for every individual situation, the only thing you can do is prepare yourself. Be confident in yourself, know you're the better option, and act as such.
Oh and if you get more than a couple shit tests from the same woman, you might want to think about bailing ASAP. Don't play games with crazy people.
[–]youlovethisish 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The Shit Test Encyclopedia
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