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What is the different between self confidence and confidence?

abdu8

July 11, 2018

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Title	What is the different between self confidence and confidence?
Author	abdu8
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	July 11, 2018 10:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8y42pd/what_is_the_different_between_self_confidence_and/
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[–]Stevpie 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Stevpie 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. You might have to fake it til you make it at first. For example with inner confidence, that's a muscle that youre definitely gonna have to work over long extended periods of time to get where you want it to be. Which means getting out your comfort zone and getting rejected like hell. In the beginning, your mental voice will stop you from approaching ALOT. So it's gonna be extremely important that in this stage, youre ignoring it and approaching/ escalating until that voice goes away.

Now with outer confidence, thats where the fake it til you make it comes into play. With outer game, youre gonna fix very bad habits like talking soft or walking with head down and turn them into good habits like standing up straight, talking louder, looking girls in the eye, wearing nice clothes, etc. Once you start faking it and make it a habit, than it becomes real because of repitition. Good luck!