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What is personality and how do you develop it?

abdu8

July 9, 2018

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Title	What is personality and how do you develop it?
Author	abdu8
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	July 9, 2018 2:04 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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You would have to defy yourself and do it.

You have to learn what it means and then act the part. Those are active personality traits. Those are things you do in the moment. You can still talk about your hobbies but the stories would have to maintain that same vibe. It's still emotional, just different emotions.

An energetic person has a loud ,clear voice. A goofy person is willing to do embarrassing things for there OWN pleasure. A bubbly personality is a person who tries to be fun and positive.

All these traits are both positive and negative. An energetic person can be exhausting, being around a goofy person can be embarrassing and a bubbly person can be considered naive, ditzy or stupid.

Calibration is more important but that requires you to actually talk to people and know when It's time to switch. There's a time for energetic and there's a time for calm . same, there's a time to be comforting and a time to be flirtatious. Only with practice can you learn the timing.

If you want to know more about base personality types. "The art of seduction by Robert Greene" should help give you a general idea.