Got told for the third time that I'm an amazing guy they just didn't feel a spark. I've worked on eye contact, was able to touch her throughout the date, she even gave me her number in the middle of the date without me asking so I assumed everything was going well. And yet I still failed because there wasn't a "spark".
I asked some of my female friends have they felt "the spark" when they first met someone before and what does it feel like, and they said yes. However they couldn't really explain it. They just said " I don't know it just felt right".

I thought the spark was bullshit because I've never experienced it before meeting someone for the first time. My previous relationship we didn't really feel sparks until after hanging out for a while.

So can someone please explain what the spark is, and how to I actually create it?