What I've learned

lifting_alpha · 2019-03-14T13:40:35+00:00

If you want a girl work on yourself first, when you are truly at peace with yourself is when all the good things start to happen in life.

I completely agree with this sentiment. I try to coach guys to figure out what's holding them back through honest self assessment and then work on fixing or improving it. For me, that was fitness. I was a scrawny kid growing up, well into my 20s, and it was seriously impacting my self image and self esteem. I started lifting and got fit, and my confidence and general happiness improved dramatically. Unsurprisingly, women took notice, and I achieved a kind of success with women that I could have only dreamed about before.

Getting fit was one component of my transformation, but it was the biggest one, and the most catalyzing.

Additionally, I accomplished my ambitious educational and career goals. I have my dream job making more than enough money. I have a nice car (Tesla, I love it), a stylish home that reflects my personality (tasteful furnishings, guitars on the walls, classy art), and I have nice clothes. I also have fun and interesting hobbies, and I built a good social circle of friends and colleagues that like me for who I am.

I also grew into my face. I've always had a very youthful appearance, looking much younger than I really am. This was a problem for a long time because women want a man that has maturity, experience, and worldliness, and I looker perpetually like I was in my teens. I'm older now, and that youthful appearance is actually an asset (finally!).

The best part? Women adore me. I might have all these things, but I'm not arrogant, cruel, entitled, or unpleseant to be around in the slightest. I love making women smile and laugh. I finally get to be with women! Women want to be around me. They like me! I'm not a Nice Guy™, but I am a good guy, genuinely. I want the best for the people in my life, male or female. I try to bring people up, that's why I post in this forum. I want to help people.

My advice to men in their 20s that struggle with women is hang in there. Your time will come, trust me. Just keep working on yourself, working on game, build your skills, build your career and education, earn a great job, car, home, body, wardrobe, keep up with the skincare and get cool people around you, and your 30s will be the best years of your life, just like mine are.

Hang in there.

folasanmi · 2019-03-14T13:11:39+00:00

Yeah and go out too. Don’t work on your inner game for 10 years and still shit your pants on a cold approach

nedelll · 2019-03-14T16:09:31+00:00

Fr fr bro

Title	What I've learned
Author	Alushi99
Upvotes	20
Comments	3
Date	March 14, 2019 5:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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