I’ve met a girl 3 times now and we have gotten along really good. We share a lot of interest and she have taken initiative to met all of these times. I slept over at her house yesterday and got to meet her family and friends. We had really good sex that night and she told me that she tought I was perfect etc.

The problem for me is that she have met this other guy for like over a year that she says she don’t even like hon buy she still meets him. She said to me that they are just friends and it takes a while for her to make someone exclusive. I have only met her for like a week and I don’t really know what I can expect. I can’t just expect her to block every other guy, But if she now likes me so much as she says and want to met up and want to give me a chance why does she still meet this other guy. She said we have came to a conclusion that we are just friends but I know they have been fucking you know.

So what should I do? Should I give it some time and then tell her if she wants to have a relationship with me she will have to choose. Cuz I don’t want to be a fucking alternative or come in her way and act needy.