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What to do when new relationships and Valentines day collide?

radiofreejoe

February 9, 2013
4 upvotes
/r/seduction

was told to repost here so...

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/187r8k/dating_and_valentines_day/

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Title What to do when new relationships and Valentines day collide?
Author

radiofreejoe

Upvotes 4
Comments 6
Date February 9, 2013 11:50 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/187w2y/what_to_do_when_new_relationships_and_valentines/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/what-to-do-when-new-relationships-and-valentines.1347111
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[–]Cowrevenge 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Buy a small teddy bear. Do not make a huge investment. This is advice for FWB too. They do wish to be appreciated, but not overwhelmed.

[–]the_cucumber 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No. If anything, maybe a single flower from one of those vendors always walking around selling roses for a euro or whatever if you see one when you're with her. Anything more than that would be too cheesy for a first date.

[–]cuppajoe123 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lightheartedly poke fun at the issue with her.

"I didn't realize we were going to hang out on Valentine's. Looks like you're my Valentine."

Plus, if she seems enthusiastic about that coincidence-- BOOM -- more information for you to gauge her interest.

EDIT: This post intended for ActAct. Forgot to post under him.

[–]ActAct 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I have a somewhat similar situation. I asked a girl out (fuck yeah seddit) and when we were choosing a today when both of us are free she chose Thursday.

Only later did I realize that happens to fall right on Valentine's day. Since it's a first date though, I don't really plan on doing anything special in addition to getting coffee + ice cream.

[–]LightVader 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't flake, as suggested by the other guy. Just do what you planned for that date. If she looks down on you for not doing something special for such a mediocre day, then I'm sure you wouldn't want to be with a girl like that.

[+]TheFuckingWriter -12 points-11 points-10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Flake and come back with another day. You're a fool if you go out on Valentine's Day.

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