cuppajoe123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	No matter who your are, what you have, or where you are from. Awalt. Not trolling here, but are men any different? Everyone want the best for themselves.	/r/MGTOW	22/08/16 04:19 PM
19	What the Hook-up Culture Has Done to Women Yes, I was sixteen, but I knew I wasn’t supposed to be in a bar that night. I knew I was not of legal age to drink. I knew that accepting drinks from complete strangers is a very bad idea. I never told my mother about that night, but if I had, she would have said, “Anne, you know better.” To say that I had no choices that night is to rob me of the moral agency that I, in fact, had. At sixteen, I may not have known how to articulate that fact, but I do now. TBH I'd say that's an ounce.	/r/MGTOW	23/06/16 08:34 PM
1	MGTOW super heroes? Nah he be chasin sarah connor's ass for the whole movie	/r/MGTOW	19/04/16 01:36 AM
1	(x-post /r/GetMotivated) Words of wisdom But at 35, guys aren't supposed to be able to build muscle like we used to.	/r/MGTOW	13/11/15 03:06 PM
1	How do you deal with falling in love? So what about that special 1 in 10?	/r/MGTOW	08/10/15 06:38 AM
2	Is there any famous bachelors who were MGTOW? Bill Maher, iirc	/r/MGTOW	13/07/15 10:29 PM
1	The Truth. But it's not failsafe.	/r/MGTOW	07/07/15 01:55 AM
0	Should I take a lack of support from others as a compliment? With chains like that, how are the prisoners unable to turn around?	/r/MGTOW	20/06/15 06:48 PM
1	If you’re introverted, stay true to yourself What distinguishes being timid from being introverted? For example: If I can rock out (air drums, air guitar, the whole thing) by myself to a song I love, but never could in the presence of others, then what am I?	/r/seduction	10/04/15 03:04 AM
2	If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT! Fail fast or win big also has other applications.	/r/seduction	20/03/15 02:41 PM
4	Are you experiencing fear of intimacy? Read this. The catch-22 is that the fear of intimacy prevents this honesty from happening.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 06:00 AM
16	The correct way to break eye contact. A slow blink? If seduction has me thinking about my blinking speeds then I've taken it too far.	/r/seduction	16/02/15 05:20 AM
1	[deleted by user] "not interested, sorry"	/r/seduction	27/01/15 08:16 AM
1	Seddit, help me pick a career path Entrepreneur who can sell your own ideas.	/r/seduction	18/01/15 06:15 PM
3	"We're not going to have sex tonight" twice in a week from two different girls This happens. From my experience, the key is to not express any disappointment. If she's not down, just pause to show your surprise, then raise your eyebrows and say "ok!" and seamlessly keep doing what you were doing short of initiating sex. The main thing is that she feels in control and likes that you aren't outcome dependent. Two things can result from this: (1) As she continues to get turned on, you end up having sex that night anyway. (Sorry that wasn't the case for you.) (2) You don't hav…	/r/seduction	12/11/14 08:27 PM
2	How to respond when a girl implies that you should get her a drink If I find you interesting I'll consider it.	/r/seduction	19/10/14 04:27 PM
3	I'm 29 and got a girl's number....but she's only 18. I was filming a promo video Oh, a promo vid	/r/seduction	08/10/14 12:29 AM
1	I'm 29 and got a girl's number....but she's only 18. How did you meet her?	/r/seduction	07/10/14 05:03 PM
15	I'm 29 and got a girl's number....but she's only 18. Have done beer in the car? Introduce her to my parents? Damn mate, I'm not familiar with your school of thought.	/r/seduction	07/10/14 06:50 AM
2	Seddit, what is your "go-to" escalation for the kiss/sex once back at yours/her place? I'm glad this is getting upvotes instead of a barrage of "show her!!! don't tell her!!!"	/r/seduction	13/06/13 04:36 PM
-1	A few scattered questions about health: What % of girls you get with do you ask about STDs prior to the deed? Agreed. I might just be playing too many hypotheticals in my head. After all, the mantra of this subreddit is "don't overthink it." Then again, getting an STD is really freakin scary to me.	/r/seduction	10/06/13 06:34 AM
-4	A few scattered questions about health: What % of girls you get with do you ask about STDs prior to the deed? OK what if touch the puss and then remove the condom? How long can shit stay alive on my hand?	/r/seduction	10/06/13 06:29 AM
11	What do I say every time a girl tells me "I think I know you from somewhere?" I once told a girl that she knew me because we hooked up before. She was visible disgusted and left. Then she whispered something to her friend who then also gave me a bad look. lol	/r/seduction	18/02/13 05:25 AM
7	How to Make Strong, Unforgettable Eye Contact Imagine every girl you walk up to you're getting a blowjob from them How is eye contact possible when my eyes are rolled back into my head?	/r/seduction	14/02/13 03:51 AM
1	Would a Moronic Monday type of thread be of interest here? Yep! Is that thread an every Tuesday thing?	/r/seduction	11/02/13 10:02 PM
3	What to do when new relationships and Valentines day collide? Lightheartedly poke fun at the issue with her. "I didn't realize we were going to hang out on Valentine's. Looks like you're my Valentine." Plus, if she seems enthusiastic about that coincidence-- BOOM -- more information for you to gauge her interest. EDIT: This post intended for ActAct. Forgot to post under him.	/r/seduction	10/02/13 06:40 PM
2	How to transition from making out to sex? Take off your socks before taking off your pants. Unless you want to look like a clown.	/r/seduction	08/02/13 02:57 PM
164	Useful seduction facts. Bond would have better grammar.	/r/seduction	28/01/13 10:56 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Build lots of trust. Build lots of trust thrust.	/r/seduction	19/01/13 06:36 AM
1	[FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me... Word. I posted a similar comment. Awaiting downvotes.	/r/seduction	13/12/12 01:55 PM
4	[FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me... It's FRs like this that turn me off. The tone makes the girl out to be some expendable being that it there to either feed your ego, and if she doesn't, we'll then you never cared anyway. Sure, this is an age-old contentious perspective on this subreddit, but honestly, I've never been on this side of it until I read this FR and saw how many upvotes it had. The title just had insecurity written all over it. so I dropped the PUA act and we had a genuine conversation. For me, if I'm not comfortable …	/r/seduction	13/12/12 01:53 PM
5	Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street? what if she says she doesnt poo? Then you're dead in the water.	/r/seduction	05/11/12 05:07 PM
12	Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street? I don't have any issue saying this but its the forced conversation between it and the phone number getting that I struggle with.	/r/seduction	05/11/12 04:54 PM
1	You young guys kill me. (34m) So you don't believe that big obstacles exist in life and that nothing is potentially limiting? Let's not swing too hard in the other direction.	/r/seduction	20/10/12 07:44 PM
1	I'm a fan of daygame but recently visited a bar one evening. I left confused, thinking, Why do people try to socialize in places that are too loud to socialize? When the music is loud and the girl is short, leaning is hard to do sparingly.	/r/seduction	20/09/12 08:09 PM
1	The Book that Helped Me the Most Wasn't Even About Pickup. I'm listening to the audiobook right now. It seems to dismantle the idea of an ego to the point where it clashes with a r/seddit sentiment of "a confident man is bold in his quests and gets what he wants" typa stuff. How did you reconcile the two?	/r/seduction	20/09/12 04:17 AM
1	How to Grow Comfortable Talking like... Here's what I don't understand. On one hand there is upvoted advice like this, and on the other, it's "have the confidence to tell a girl you find her attractive, even 'you're cute' ." So what is it?	/r/seduction	09/09/12 01:03 AM
11	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? Think about it. There's a decent chance that hottie took a bigger shit than you did that morning.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:56 PM
2	How important is it to have muscle mass in order to gain physical attraction? toned	/r/seduction	24/08/12 02:16 PM
2	What's something I can bring to do my dorm room to attract all the ladies? I doubt it's allowed, but when you get an apartment around campus: A 55-gallon aquarium with African cichlids.	/r/seduction	19/08/12 03:08 AM
3	SO has a rough day, asks for a backrub. What's an Alpha way to respond without being a jerk? Your SO? Just give her a damn backrub already, jeez.	/r/seduction	13/08/12 04:42 PM
1	My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my life sexual marketplace? que es esto?	/r/seduction	06/08/12 06:42 PM
1	Approaching a Starbucks girl I completely agree. Using that word outside of the context of say, probability density functions and computer science just wreaks of low-brow hesistance.	/r/seduction	02/08/12 03:55 PM
1	Can a DLV be as simple as showing her that you remember her name ? I never understand responses like this. Isn't it the wrong frame of mind to pursue value instead of just being?	/r/seduction	25/07/12 12:42 AM
2	Farting in front of new women. Nothing. Just smile and shrug.	/r/seduction	24/07/12 12:55 PM
4	What activities or hobbies have you taken up to become a more interesting and attractive person? Ah, the obligatory overshoot in the opposite direction. Then why be on this subreddit if exploration into new ways to attract women is so beneath you?	/r/seduction	21/07/12 06:27 PM
2	Last night, a female friend from work stayed at my house and we fell asleep together on the couch, cuddled together. We're just on the couch now, watching Super Troopers, laying down, facing opposite ways. What should I do? Update: Goddamnit, I'm a pussy. This is harder than it should be. She left because I have to take off soon. Fail. Tell her that you had a great time laying together and that you would like to again some time.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 08:48 PM
6	I just wanted to thank the guy who posted the handshake trick. It worked well for me You are welcome, OP.	/r/seduction	03/07/12 02:21 AM
2	Time wasters. What I don't understand is how outcome independence can be compatible with goals. Can someone help me understand?	/r/seduction	31/05/12 03:10 PM
1	Dressing well yet not giving a fuck: Paradox? If you read my question, you'll find that it lacks the implication that I want to appear like I don't give a fuck. I naturally don't care that much about what I wear and am asking whether it is constructive to the general idea of being carefree.	/r/seduction	10/05/12 11:54 PM
14	I found a thought process that immediately gets me in state... you should imagine the girl in her bed playing with her dildo, which she named after you...but not before she takes a fat shit to make room for it. fixed. Now AA is nowhere to be found.	/r/seduction	08/05/12 03:15 PM
-6	Peacocking: am I doin' it right? This is stupid. Trying to be quirky is not the point.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 11:17 PM
2	Best response when a girl asks "Do you work out?" Got it. Thanks!!!!	/r/seduction	26/04/12 08:26 PM
3	Best response when a girl asks "Do you work out?" I can't wait for the day I hit 550 lbs. Then I have permission from some redditor to say I work out!	/r/seduction	26/04/12 08:13 PM
1	Proposal: a weekly thread tl;dr of the good information learned that week from seddit to archive them for later use. This is a joke, right?	/r/seduction	14/04/12 05:53 PM
2	Successful PUAs of Seddit, help me see that rejection doesn't kill you. Share your most embarrassing blowout stories. Faze? http://www.thefreedictionary.com/faze	/r/seduction	15/11/11 06:56 AM
1	When IOIs do not fit in with the rest of her behavior. yep.	/r/seduction	10/11/11 05:21 AM
1	Poker and Game: An analogy Oneitis is like chasing a gutshot...except with even slimmer odds. You know you're losing, so just fold and see what the next hand brings.	/r/seduction	01/11/11 06:44 PM
2	Opening after IOI eye contact while walking past each other in different directions. I like it. Though it sounds very theoretical, I think it is possible if my state is up there. Have you tried this?	/r/seduction	31/10/11 06:19 AM
1	Bagging a "10" yesterday, she made an almost pitiful joke about how I HAVE to be lusting after her. Granted it's too late for this, but I would have questioned her on it: "What do you think I'm thinking? You need to support your claim, woman. Let's hear it." She'll be reluctant to put words in your mouth while essentially flattering herself under your scrutiny as you listen to her answer. Boom. Ball back in your court.	/r/seduction	24/10/11 12:26 AM
6	Who speaks last - the power dynamic Some of these responses are irritating. "It doesn't matter" or "It's chode" to do this or that. First of all, if analysis is the death of your manhood, then why patrol this subreddit to begin with? While it is true that overanalyzing is something to be wary about, don't knock someone's question it if it born out of legitimate curiosity for some social dynamic. I once read a well-received field report months ago in which the OP mentions "not replying in order to maintain frame." Where were all yo…	/r/seduction	20/10/11 07:04 AM
1	Kino without Touch – Eye Contact: Compendium II Where might I find Compendium I?	/r/seduction	15/10/11 11:08 PM
1	How I Beat the Friend Zone Well done. You got good pretty fast it seems. How did you handle the initial progression of hookups before getting back with HB10?	/r/seduction	15/10/11 11:02 PM
1	I live in a small studio. Comfortable, but no TV. What can be asked besides the "Want to come over and watch a movie?" angle? as in, "I have some cool art at my place. You should come over."?	/r/seduction	29/09/11 11:23 PM
2	next step after small talk. recommend that you interrupt her answer I was always raised to believe that interrupting someone is rude. What's the general feeling about this on seddit? Can it sometimes be an indicator of confidence?	/r/seduction	29/09/11 07:20 AM
9	The single sentence you need to say in your head whenever you have doubts about approaching a beautiful woman. crackling	/r/seduction	28/09/11 03:32 PM
3	Who can explain how to properly neg a girl Good intro sentence.	/r/seduction	21/09/11 06:38 AM
3	"Good girls" of Seddit, A question about your opinion on drug histories. ...waiting for the obligatory Mitch Hedberg joke....	/r/seduction	16/09/11 04:56 AM
6	Some first date questions... This is the kind of shit that makes me love reddit. I throw up a post with a few noob questions, and some expert composes an eloquent and thorough response. Thank you, good sir.	/r/seduction	13/09/11 01:10 AM
1	Why avoid her seeing you as a BF initially? Women start building an image of who you are, what your life is like and how they factor in your life from the moment they meet you. If they start building a "friend / boyfriend" image, any attempt to break out from that is difficult. If they start with a "seducer / lover" image, then everything is much easier as they already start imagining you together. http://redd.it/kcedb (...still not clear to my why the BF image is bad.)	/r/seduction	12/09/11 01:11 AM
1	In need of desperate help Got it. Thanks!	/r/seduction	09/09/11 05:00 AM
1	Help : How should I move forward in this unusual cockblocking situation? "I hope you don't think you're getting in my pants this easily" what is the appropriate response to something like this?	/r/seduction	09/09/11 02:56 AM
1	In need of desperate help Hi Wolf. I'm having trouble finding CurveballPUA's AMA. Could you please post the link?	/r/seduction	08/09/11 09:20 PM
1	Chick coming over tomorrow morning for day drinking. What to do? Here is an easy way to start out: Have your favorite album already playing as she comes over. Ask her if she'd heard it, ask her what she thinks, throw around some relevant interesting facts about the album. The point is to immerse her in YOUR atmosphere from the moment she steps into your place.	/r/seduction	05/09/11 02:02 AM
1	[FR] Be The Prize. Part 3. What is Freeze out and Cavemanning? Haven't heard of those terms.	/r/seduction	20/08/11 02:02 AM
1	DAE ever feel like they missed their cue or opportunity? I'm hitting myself for fucking up last week. ... Don't care though Yo it's OK to feel strongly about it if that's how you feel. Getting better with women doesn't mean we have to be emotionless robots. You have learned something new with this experience, and when you next meet an awesome girl without fucking up, you'll be glad you learned the hard way with the previous girl and not this one. Best of luck.	/r/seduction	31/07/11 10:58 AM