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Not trolling here, but are men any different? Everyone want the best for themselves.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 04:19 PM
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Yes, I was sixteen, but I knew I wasn’t supposed to be in a bar that night. I knew I was not of legal age to drink. I knew that accepting drinks from complete strangers is a very bad idea. I never told my mother about that night, but if I had, she would have said, “Anne, you know better.” To say that I had no choices that night is to rob me of the moral agency that I, in fact, had. At sixteen, I may not have known how to articulate that fact, but I do now. TBH I'd say that's an ounce.
/r/MGTOW23/06/16 08:34 PM
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Nah he be chasin sarah connor's ass for the whole movie
/r/MGTOW19/04/16 01:36 AM
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But at 35, guys aren't supposed to be able to build muscle like we used to.
/r/MGTOW13/11/15 03:06 PM
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So what about that special 1 in 10?
/r/MGTOW08/10/15 06:38 AM
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Bill Maher, iirc
/r/MGTOW13/07/15 10:29 PM
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But it's not failsafe.
/r/MGTOW07/07/15 01:55 AM
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With chains like that, how are the prisoners unable to turn around?
/r/MGTOW20/06/15 06:48 PM
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What distinguishes being timid from being introverted? For example: If I can rock out (air drums, air guitar, the whole thing) by myself to a song I love, but never could in the presence of others, then what am I?
/r/seduction10/04/15 03:04 AM
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Fail fast or win big also has other applications.
/r/seduction20/03/15 02:41 PM
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The catch-22 is that the fear of intimacy prevents this honesty from happening.
/r/seduction23/02/15 06:00 AM
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A slow blink? If seduction has me thinking about my blinking speeds then I've taken it too far.
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:20 AM
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"not interested, sorry"
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:16 AM
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Entrepreneur who can sell your own ideas.
/r/seduction18/01/15 06:15 PM
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This happens. From my experience, the key is to not express any disappointment. If she's not down, just pause to show your surprise, then raise your eyebrows and say "ok!" and seamlessly keep doing what you were doing short of initiating sex. The main thing is that she feels in control and likes that you aren't outcome dependent. Two things can result from this: (1) As she continues to get turned on, you end up having sex that night anyway. (Sorry that wasn't the case for you.) (2) You don't hav…
/r/seduction12/11/14 08:27 PM
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If I find you interesting I'll consider it.
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:27 PM
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I was filming a promo video Oh, a promo vid
/r/seduction08/10/14 12:29 AM
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How did you meet her?
/r/seduction07/10/14 05:03 PM
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Have done beer in the car? Introduce her to my parents? Damn mate, I'm not familiar with your school of thought.
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:50 AM
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I'm glad this is getting upvotes instead of a barrage of "show her!!! don't tell her!!!"
/r/seduction13/06/13 04:36 PM
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Agreed. I might just be playing too many hypotheticals in my head. After all, the mantra of this subreddit is "don't overthink it." Then again, getting an STD is really freakin scary to me.
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:34 AM
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OK what if touch the puss and then remove the condom? How long can shit stay alive on my hand?
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:29 AM
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I once told a girl that she knew me because we hooked up before. She was visible disgusted and left. Then she whispered something to her friend who then also gave me a bad look. lol
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:25 AM
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Imagine every girl you walk up to you're getting a blowjob from them How is eye contact possible when my eyes are rolled back into my head?
/r/seduction14/02/13 03:51 AM
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Yep! Is that thread an every Tuesday thing?
/r/seduction11/02/13 10:02 PM
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Lightheartedly poke fun at the issue with her. "I didn't realize we were going to hang out on Valentine's. Looks like you're my Valentine." Plus, if she seems enthusiastic about that coincidence-- BOOM -- more information for you to gauge her interest. EDIT: This post intended for ActAct. Forgot to post under him.
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:40 PM
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Take off your socks before taking off your pants. Unless you want to look like a clown.
/r/seduction08/02/13 02:57 PM
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Bond would have better grammar.
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:56 PM
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Build lots of trust. Build lots of trust thrust.
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:36 AM
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Word. I posted a similar comment. Awaiting downvotes.
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:55 PM
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It's FRs like this that turn me off. The tone makes the girl out to be some expendable being that it there to either feed your ego, and if she doesn't, we'll then you never cared anyway. Sure, this is an age-old contentious perspective on this subreddit, but honestly, I've never been on this side of it until I read this FR and saw how many upvotes it had. The title just had insecurity written all over it. so I dropped the PUA act and we had a genuine conversation. For me, if I'm not comfortable …
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:53 PM
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what if she says she doesnt poo? Then you're dead in the water.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:07 PM
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I don't have any issue saying this but its the forced conversation between it and the phone number getting that I struggle with.
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:54 PM
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So you don't believe that big obstacles exist in life and that nothing is potentially limiting? Let's not swing too hard in the other direction.
/r/seduction20/10/12 07:44 PM
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When the music is loud and the girl is short, leaning is hard to do sparingly.
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:09 PM
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I'm listening to the audiobook right now. It seems to dismantle the idea of an ego to the point where it clashes with a r/seddit sentiment of "a confident man is bold in his quests and gets what he wants" typa stuff. How did you reconcile the two?
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:17 AM
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Here's what I don't understand. On one hand there is upvoted advice like this, and on the other, it's "have the confidence to tell a girl you find her attractive, even 'you're cute' ." So what is it?
/r/seduction09/09/12 01:03 AM
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Think about it. There's a decent chance that hottie took a bigger shit than you did that morning.
/r/seduction28/08/12 03:56 PM
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toned
/r/seduction24/08/12 02:16 PM
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I doubt it's allowed, but when you get an apartment around campus: A 55-gallon aquarium with African cichlids.
/r/seduction19/08/12 03:08 AM
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Your SO? Just give her a damn backrub already, jeez.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:42 PM
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sexual marketplace? que es esto?
/r/seduction06/08/12 06:42 PM
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I completely agree. Using that word outside of the context of say, probability density functions and computer science just wreaks of low-brow hesistance.
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:55 PM
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I never understand responses like this. Isn't it the wrong frame of mind to pursue value instead of just being?
/r/seduction25/07/12 12:42 AM
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Nothing. Just smile and shrug.
/r/seduction24/07/12 12:55 PM
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Ah, the obligatory overshoot in the opposite direction. Then why be on this subreddit if exploration into new ways to attract women is so beneath you?
/r/seduction21/07/12 06:27 PM
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Update: Goddamnit, I'm a pussy. This is harder than it should be. She left because I have to take off soon. Fail. Tell her that you had a great time laying together and that you would like to again some time.
/r/seduction15/07/12 08:48 PM
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You are welcome, OP.
/r/seduction03/07/12 02:21 AM
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What I don't understand is how outcome independence can be compatible with goals. Can someone help me understand?
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:10 PM
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If you read my question, you'll find that it lacks the implication that I want to appear like I don't give a fuck. I naturally don't care that much about what I wear and am asking whether it is constructive to the general idea of being carefree.
/r/seduction10/05/12 11:54 PM
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you should imagine the girl in her bed playing with her dildo, which she named after you...but not before she takes a fat shit to make room for it. fixed. Now AA is nowhere to be found.
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:15 PM
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This is stupid. Trying to be quirky is not the point.
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:17 PM
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Got it. Thanks!!!!
/r/seduction26/04/12 08:26 PM
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I can't wait for the day I hit 550 lbs. Then I have permission from some redditor to say I work out!
/r/seduction26/04/12 08:13 PM
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This is a joke, right?
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:53 PM
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Faze? http://www.thefreedictionary.com/faze
/r/seduction15/11/11 06:56 AM
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yep.
/r/seduction10/11/11 05:21 AM
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Oneitis is like chasing a gutshot...except with even slimmer odds. You know you're losing, so just fold and see what the next hand brings.
/r/seduction01/11/11 06:44 PM
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I like it. Though it sounds very theoretical, I think it is possible if my state is up there. Have you tried this?
/r/seduction31/10/11 06:19 AM
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yesterday, she made an almost pitiful joke about how I HAVE to be lusting after her. Granted it's too late for this, but I would have questioned her on it: "What do you think I'm thinking? You need to support your claim, woman. Let's hear it." She'll be reluctant to put words in your mouth while essentially flattering herself under your scrutiny as you listen to her answer. Boom. Ball back in your court.
/r/seduction24/10/11 12:26 AM
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Some of these responses are irritating. "It doesn't matter" or "It's chode" to do this or that. First of all, if analysis is the death of your manhood, then why patrol this subreddit to begin with? While it is true that overanalyzing is something to be wary about, don't knock someone's question it if it born out of legitimate curiosity for some social dynamic. I once read a well-received field report months ago in which the OP mentions "not replying in order to maintain frame." Where were all yo…
/r/seduction20/10/11 07:04 AM
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Where might I find Compendium I?
/r/seduction15/10/11 11:08 PM
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Well done. You got good pretty fast it seems. How did you handle the initial progression of hookups before getting back with HB10?
/r/seduction15/10/11 11:02 PM
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as in, "I have some cool art at my place. You should come over."?
/r/seduction29/09/11 11:23 PM
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recommend that you interrupt her answer I was always raised to believe that interrupting someone is rude. What's the general feeling about this on seddit? Can it sometimes be an indicator of confidence?
/r/seduction29/09/11 07:20 AM
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crackling
/r/seduction28/09/11 03:32 PM
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Good intro sentence.
/r/seduction21/09/11 06:38 AM
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...waiting for the obligatory Mitch Hedberg joke....
/r/seduction16/09/11 04:56 AM
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This is the kind of shit that makes me love reddit. I throw up a post with a few noob questions, and some expert composes an eloquent and thorough response. Thank you, good sir.
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:10 AM
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Women start building an image of who you are, what your life is like and how they factor in your life from the moment they meet you. If they start building a "friend / boyfriend" image, any attempt to break out from that is difficult. If they start with a "seducer / lover" image, then everything is much easier as they already start imagining you together. http://redd.it/kcedb (...still not clear to my why the BF image is bad.)
/r/seduction12/09/11 01:11 AM
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Got it. Thanks!
/r/seduction09/09/11 05:00 AM
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"I hope you don't think you're getting in my pants this easily" what is the appropriate response to something like this?
/r/seduction09/09/11 02:56 AM
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Hi Wolf. I'm having trouble finding CurveballPUA's AMA. Could you please post the link?
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:20 PM
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Here is an easy way to start out: Have your favorite album already playing as she comes over. Ask her if she'd heard it, ask her what she thinks, throw around some relevant interesting facts about the album. The point is to immerse her in YOUR atmosphere from the moment she steps into your place.
/r/seduction05/09/11 02:02 AM
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What is Freeze out and Cavemanning? Haven't heard of those terms.
/r/seduction20/08/11 02:02 AM
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I'm hitting myself for fucking up last week. ... Don't care though Yo it's OK to feel strongly about it if that's how you feel. Getting better with women doesn't mean we have to be emotionless robots. You have learned something new with this experience, and when you next meet an awesome girl without fucking up, you'll be glad you learned the hard way with the previous girl and not this one. Best of luck.
/r/seduction31/07/11 10:58 AM
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