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[–]Mr_Zarika 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Whoa, analytical much...
She's agrees in the club when she's been drinking. Turns out she's busy, so she says, "I'm busy that night sorry."
You reply with a standard, "ok cool."
She asks you to invite her again.
I don't see where you did anything. And even if she had blown you off for serious, actually, you still can't assume that you did anything. What if she's in a relationship? What happens if she's not into you? What happens if she's flying out of the city next week and doesn't want to get involved with a guy?
Get out of your head and stop worrying about it. Give a day or two and text her, "So I made the effort last time, where are you taking me on our hot date?"
[–]seoulfresh[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know I need to get out of my head but it's always easier when you're not in the situation.
I'm just gonna assume she's just not that into me and not stress it. I mean so what, right? Weekend's coming up. Just another chance to do it all over again.
[–]Mr_Zarika 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously, there's nothing in there that says she's not into you. I would definitely give her a second chance in a day or two.
And yes, in the mean time find some other girls too.
[–]donit 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Maybe" means no
"Let's" means yes
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
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