A few days ago I met a beautiful girl at a volunteering job, though we didn't have much of a chance to talk we had a conversation at the very end where she was giving me clear cut expressions of interest and said I should come hang out with her in her tent at another markets on the weekend.

So I headed there today - a lovely oceanic vibe with markets set up right on the beach - and met her in her tent selling recycled clothing.

Something wasn't right though - maybe she was on her period or just having a shit day, but she was cold and distant, and although I could tell she was still kind of interested in me, I had to carry the conversation, it felt as if she was expecting something. Expecting what? Me to bend her over and fuck her in the middle of a marketplace with children around? Expecting me to turn around and go home? Or ask her what's wrong and have a therapy session?

I eventually sort of stopped talking to her and wandered around to check out other vendors then ended up signing up helping some people pack up for a while and got given free donuts and a free bottle of absinthe so I can't complain, but how would you deal with situations where someone goes cold on you like this?