What's wrong with me?

Turlast · 2016-02-20T10:58:43+00:00

Remove "can't" from your vocabulary. It isn't that you can't, it's just you're too accustomed to making excuses.

jgottlander · 2016-02-20T14:02:45+00:00

Vanqhuix · 2016-02-20T11:23:05+00:00

Honestly, I don't think it's the penis size. We just have all these things we use to validate our inactions. I used to think girls didn't like me because I had 3 small moles, and just one of them was visible with clothes on. I had them surgically removed.

The next thing I came up with was that they didn't like me because I was so skinny. I was 68 kg /150 lbs by the time. Now I'm 82 kg / 181 lbs at 187 cm / 6' 2''. Now I'm going to the gym 5-6 times a week because it just makes me feel so much better. I also used to think it was because I dressed poorly, I fixed that as well.

The funny thing is that I've only approached one girl in my life. And I pretty much fucked up the whole process. I said something fucking retarded, I mumbled, she didn't understand anything what I just had said, and she still loved me. I saw her a couple times and she was very interested but I blew it up because I was afraid to take further action. And this all was before I started going to gym etc.

Since then I've been approached by three gorgeous women I found very attractive. They showed some serious interest, and all I had to do was "pull the trigger", but I didn't because of my lack of experience and insecurities. It was not really that I was afraid of failure, it was more like what if things go my way and I can't handle it.

Now I have better understanding of women, but I'm still bad with them. I'm taking baby steps to get better. All I'm trying to say is stop making bullshit excuses. The things I did helped me a lot, boosted my confidence a lot but in the end I still used them as an excuse.

Title	What's wrong with me?
Author	likeavolcano
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	February 20, 2016 10:27 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/46pleu/whats_wrong_with_me/
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