When she is already into you

unclequavo · 2018-06-17T11:58:06+00:00

Be playful, lots of physical contact. Look into her eyes strongly and always keep a smile and you’re good.

Lambdal7 · 2018-06-17T13:43:14+00:00

Don't try to hard, don't be too cocky, don't neg, don't compliment too much.

Basically, don't do any game, only taking the lead and very subtle game.

If she is already into you, you should let it flow naturally.

hunterpua · 2018-06-17T14:15:00+00:00

Qualify.

Don't try to build any attraction when you already know she's into you. This'll just make you look try hard and turn her off. You can still be a little playful (emphasis on "little") but always keep your eye on the real goal, qualification. Think about it. If the roles were reversed and a girl knew you were into her, would she really still feel the need to impress you?

The only reason you would ever try to build attraction is to get to the point where she would easily qualify to you anyway.

Here's the problem. If you look up qualification on Seddit or anywhere else, you'll be hard pressed to find a resource on how to properly use it.

So I'm just gonna tell you how to use it now.

The point of qualification is not to show you're higher value and its not only to get her to chase you. The point of qualification is to get her to do what you want.

Everyone saying you should qualify her based on characteristics you look for in a girl are wrong. The real way is to use qualification to get her to the next stage in your courtship/seduction.

So lets use your scenario. You're asking what to do when you first approach a girl. Ok, so what is the next stage after you first approach her? You guys go on a date.

If you know that she's already attracted to you then you should spend the entire first conversation qualifying her for a date. How do you do that?

First, decide what you want to do, choose a date based on her preference or try to get her to go on a date you already have pre-planned.
If you want to do it based on her preference then the first thing you need to qualify for is her preference. "What do you do for fun?", "What does a typical weekend for you look like?", "What is something you really miss doing?", etc.
When she responds to one of those questions figure out in your head how you're going to make a date happen with the information she just gave you then sell her on that idea.
If you want to do it based on a date that you already have pre-planned then qualify her for character traits or beliefs instead. Lets say you want to go on a date where you take a walk on the beach. You can say something like, "Don't you wish sometimes that you could just relax and breathe in some fresh air, maybe get some sun and not have to dress up?" Boom. You get into a conversation about that and basically try to temporarily pigeonhole her into being the kind of girl who would just love to go on a walk on the beach then when she's saying things like "Yeah that sounds exactly like what I need right now." You can be like, "Hey, we should take a walk on the beach."

Black_Halcyon · 2018-06-17T13:41:49+00:00

"don't be an asshole"

WIA20XX · 2018-06-17T14:29:31+00:00

Are you trying to seduce, or just be in a relationship?

acquired_ · 2018-06-17T21:49:26+00:00

Be friendly, a little nonchalant. When you're alone, make your move

Title	When she is already into you
Author	unicorn-pig
Upvotes	16
Comments	9
Date	June 17, 2018 11:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8rqcrd/when_she_is_already_into_you/
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