Whenever I have gone out to the bars, I find that I can get a variety of girls who are interested in talking to me, giving me IOIs, and some even going home with me (on some occasions). Like I bump into these girls and I am greeted with a smile or a warm reception. On the other hand, I feel like there are particular kinds of girls I just struggle a lot with.

They're white, blonde (fake or not? I am not sure), and tend to put a lot of effort into their looks. Whenever I approach them, I am met with a pissed off stare or just a cold reception. No smiles or any kind of IOI. Some of the worst rejections I have received at bars have been from these kinds of women.

Just last night, I was at the bar and I tried to talk to this one tall blonde who looked at me and immediately whipped out her cellphone and started texting the second I talked to her. A few guys saw it, looked at me, and laughed. I was embarrassed.

Then I tried to approach these two tall blondes at another bar when some song was playing, one danced and while looking at me she was rapping something and shook her head. That pretty much did it for me because a black girl and white guy standing nearby looked at me and laughed. My face was a bit red because of it.

It's frustrating so I have to ask.

  1. Why do I get a hostile reception from these kinds of girls?

  2. What can I do to change it and eventually take these girls home and nail them?