Has anyone ever had this happen? Like the more someone treated you like shit- the more you wanted them? I KNOW that I am being dumb. I know that it is stupid that I still have feelings for them after all that they have done. It just makes no sense and I KNOW that I don't deserve it... yet why do I feel so upset over it? Not being cocky, I don't have issues getting guys who think i'm attractive. It is not like I am not capable of getting guys, as many women are capable. It is just the thing like for some reason he treats me like an option and that makes me go crazy? I know it's just a game or he (most likely option) genuinely does not give a shit about me.

So here is the story for those who want to listen. if not it's cool I guess i'm just venting:

He facetimed me multiple times the other night and we talked for hours. We had went on multiple dates before this. We have had sex. He invites me to a halloween party that next night and said that he really wanted me to go and be his date. Then I ask him the next day if we are still on for the party. He answers and says that he isnt sure if he's going and if he does he wont stay the night. Later on snapchat I see that he's at the party via a friends snapchat story. I feel kind of shitty and want to call him on it. Like he doesnt owe me anything becasue we arent together but I just dont like the games. Should I just stop talking to him all together? Or should I tell him that he should have just told me he didnt want to go. I know that his answer was clearly a cop out because he didn't want me around. He even deleted tinder over me. I am just getting conflicting messages and his brother was saying how we should date and then my guy told me how he wanted me around and how he liked me basically. I just am not seeing it in person. Do I confront him? or let him go?