Why do I lose interest when it comes to planning dates?

Aggravating_Twist_40 · 2021-12-21T18:23:22+00:00

I’m Sort of the same way bc the conversation turns boring.. gotta keep my interest. The planning and “how was your day” talk kills me.

Moorning_wood · 2021-12-22T17:32:20+00:00

Is all good brother. In my eyes you are just having a different variation of the post nut clarity.

The pursuit is fun. Then you achieve your goal. After which you think - what now? Why? Natural, nothing wrong with you.

If you like the girl then I would say that you should hold the line. The attraction of a lady is a gift. A great power. With great power comes great responsibility.

But it does not mean that you should not take your time. Take a step back if you must. Have a breathe of fresh air. You have other interests in life as well.

Relationships are a two way street. You will soon catch yourself being the recipient of great dates as well! Girls like to organise sometimes too. Then it might become a race of who is able to come up with some cool activity first. Anyways. Rant over.

And have great dates for crying out loud!

Zebrahead033 · 2021-12-22T17:55:18+00:00

It could be past experiences make you feel like it's a waste of time or money.

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2021-12-25T17:15:17+00:00

I don't know what's wrong, but something must be wrong. Either the girls you're about to meet up with are really unattractive to you, or your mind is maybe shutting off the possibility for failure by some sort of subconscious self-sabotage.

Either way, go out on the dates anyway. You're not going to get better by skipping the dates, especially when you're new.

Title	Why do I lose interest when it comes to planning dates?
Author	Mikhail_Faustin08
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	December 21, 2021 5:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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