Women don't know what they want most of the time (that's why I don't trust interest indicators much).

I recently decided to approach a girl with short hair and an alternative style. The conversation was very good; however, she seemed hesitant to talk about topics related to sexuality and gender.

I didn't delve much deeper into the subject before leaving with her number and Instagram (obviously). The thing is, she recently felt comfortable enough to open up and said that she identifies as a man, even though biologically she is female, so she would consider herself gay.

Even though I explored the topic further, I didn't find any of her words truly valuable or impactful. She continued to exhibit feminine behaviors, continued to think like a woman; it was clear that her decision to identify as a man wasn't because she truly felt like one. I'm telling you this so you don't panic if a woman turns out to be "lesbian" or identifies as a "gay man"

—they don't know what they want! So seduce her!

With love, Ness