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Why does everybody want to settle down? Here's why long-term monogamy DOESN'T WORK.

abcd_z

October 6, 2012

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Title	Why does everybody want to settle down? Here's why long-term monogamy DOESN'T WORK.
Author	abcd_z
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	October 6, 2012 8:27 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/111a7a/why_does_everybody_want_to_settle_down_heres_why/
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[–]Naga143 points 13 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

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Oddly enough, BlackDragon covers these lines of reasoning too.

J1
Objection: “What about having someone care for you in your old age?”

Answer: If you’ve already read the rest of this, you know the answer already. The divorce rate is around 60% in most major cities. The odds are high that the person you marry will be divorced from you by the time you hit your old age, so marriage as a means of elder care is not a very smart move.

As much as men talk about it being a woman’s job to look hot and put out, it is YOUR job as a man is to make good money, and invest it wisely. In my opinion, every man should have at least a million dollars saved by the time he hits is mid 50’s, and I’m being nice when I say only a million. Your money will take care of you well in your old age, married or not.

You have FAR more control over how much money you will have as an old man then you have over whether or not some woman will still be with you by then.

and:

D4
Common Objection: “That divorce rate applies to AFC chodes who don’t screen for great women! I’m going to heavily SCREEN for a woman who will make a great wife and mother!”

Answer: I shall quote Uncle Walker, who said it much better than I ever could:

"I think one of the mistakes that some of you guys make is assuming that screening will fix this problem. Screening assumes that people dont change and that you can guess that years from now your woman wont act like almost every other woman is programmed to act by our society….We can look at (a man with a failed marriage) and say screening. I will respond its every bit as much what he did today as what he did yesterday."

The woman you marry today is NOT the same woman you will be married to 7 years down the road. Again, do the “ask 5 married guys” experiment above, and you’ll see what I mean.

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