Why exactly are day and night game so different?

gramblenator · 2013-05-13T23:08:28+00:00

Night game is so different because of the walls man. Go up to a girl in the middle of a day at a grocery store and you will be surprised how easy it is to talk to a girl. "What cereal do you think?" Hold up some random boxes of cereal and watch a convo unravel. Go up to a girl with her friends at a bar and prepare your verbal sledge hammer.

kingcal · 2013-05-14T01:59:34+00:00

It's a completely different kind of energy and interaction in each environment. It's kind of like asking why don't people line dance at an Ultra event. Night game and day game have two very different contexts, and to succeed, you need to work within the context.

recyclablebantha · 2013-05-14T04:55:58+00:00

And why wouldn't day game tactics work in a club environment, vice-versa?

Hmmmm. First off, this thread kind of just happened, so a lot of people might not answer it again, so soon. The only difference is that the other thread didn't assume they were different, so much as ask if they were.

Second, are day and night game "so different"? Well, yes and no.

______Not different at their cores________

The mindset between day or night game is not really different: Outcome Independence, confidence, clear intent is good. Inner game is pretty much the same between the two.

______But different in some ways________

But overall, I consider "game" to be about making connections (or maybe realizing connections?) with new people and the situation and context affect how those connections can be made (or realized). So in a sense, even different places during the day can call for different tactics. It's not so much about the differences between day and club or day and night, so much as realizing that really, no two situations are the same.

In different situations, you have different options in how to approach and interact with others, girls included. But you already realize this, on some level, I think. You know that different situations call for different approaches or different protocols. Some common sense examples:

When you're at the library, you know it would be rude to approach or interact loudly with a buddy you run into there. You know that people are there to study, so being quiet is better.
When you're at a house party, you know it would be out of place to start studying in the living room. People are there to have fun, so quiet and/or anti-social is not good.

Similarly, if you're going to meet a girl, the context of the situation will call for a different approach.

______So to answer your question_________

If you're walking on the street, it's simple enough to verbally open based on something in the moment that you're both experiencing, at normal volume levels.

This sort of thing won't work if you're in a club, because of two things. blaring music and the higher energy levels centered around having FUN. Verbally opening is often difficult or impossible to do, so non-verbal openers are king. Also, people are in a club to HAVE FUN. So it's easier for you if you're focused on FUN. Your opener or approach should not halt the energy of the night, but match it. (At least unless you really really know what you're doing.)

As for vice versa: People aren't open to a lot of the crazy fun openers you can use at clubs because their energy is at a different place.

But on the other hand, I've used non-verbal openers on people in day game too, so again, it's really about evaluating each situation and realizing which tools will serve you best (and which ones you prefer) in that situation.

backtothegame · 2013-05-14T06:25:14+00:00

I find the opposite of many of the comments here. Maybe at college day game is easier but in real life it is much more difficult. There is a lot more skepticism and not very much context to meeting a women out and about. In night game the venue itself has preselected the girls and is a very powerful context about why somewhere is there and what they are looking for. Day game people generally have real life shit to do, night game people are out specifically to meet people.

Title	Why exactly are day and night game so different?
Author	Punch_A_Lunch
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	May 13, 2013 11:04 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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