These are the thoughts that always pop up in my head that always hold me back from approaching

-it will be me just interviewing her about with the typical small talk questions and no flow

-awkward pauses

-ah she's with a group of friends...it'll make the rejection more embarrassing

-ah shes with other dudes, one of them is probably her boyfriend

-if I talk to her, what if another dude comes over who has better game or knows her better and steals the conversation. Then ill just be standing there queit and awkwardly

-If she rejects me and i come across her again, it will be the awkward-"O its that person, Ill just look away or ignore acting like i never met them"

As a 20 year old who is always horny but has approach/social anxiety, this huge contradiction in my subconscious programing is driving me mad. How do you defeat these negative thoughts?!?!?