Why Innate Ability Means a Lot Less Than You Think

itsmevichet · 2012-07-24T19:20:02+00:00

TL;DR

This is more about endeavors in general, but it really addresses a KEY mindset hurdle that a lot of beginners in seduction never get over.

If you think that because you're not good with women now, and you think it's because you're not "a natural," you need to get over it and start working, the vast majority of data shows that no one is a natural.

Flashwit · 2012-07-24T20:43:52+00:00

I agree wholeheartedly. I've caught myself getting stuck in the "I am just not very good at this" mindset far too often now that I've become aware of it. It's a defeatist attitude. Seduction is just one aspect of your life in which this applies. It can apply to everything you do. Every time I find myself thinking this I have to remind myself to stop being such a little bitch.

Title	Why Innate Ability Means a Lot Less Than You Think
Author	itsmevichet
Upvotes	5
Comments	2
Date	July 24, 2012 7:18 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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