Why is seduction difficult ?

SigmaKP · 2018-08-19T22:37:54+00:00

It comes to the kind of results that you want, friend. If you're ok with having only what's at your arms reach, then not learning seduction - or anything where you can improve - seems like a wise thing to do. You can just go on with your life and not think too much about annoying yourself with these difficult things.

But if you want more out of life, if you're not willing to let that banging beauty that just made your heart pump like crazy go away walking, or if you're not willing to let your seemingly impossible dream of building a company or living a digital nomad lifestyle vanish in the air, or, in general, if you're not willing to NOT be responsible of the kind of life that you want to live and know that you can live; then it's f*ing worth it to learn seduction.

Seduce life, make her give you the joy of accomplishing your wildest dreams.

MexicanWerewolf · 2018-08-19T23:49:45+00:00

That’s a big thing that got me to leave PUA in my early 20s. Like 90% of any interaction would be in your own head focused on what to do or say next. That doesn’t sound enjoyable to me at all. Like someone else said, it comes naturally if you just do it.

But, too be fair, I did pick up some stuff from the more natural guys.

PickUpEdgeLord · 2018-08-19T22:41:58+00:00

that's a fair question and you absolutely could take that approach. Thats why I don't watch videos like RSD. Some of the advice is good but it's a lot of what you are saying.

Just be confident in who you are, have the balls to approach, and just do it. Your game will improve naturally.

DonutHoles4 · 2018-08-20T00:33:00+00:00

Confidence helps.

But if u dont have a lot of it, u need to have social etc interactions with ppl/women until u become more comfortable at it.

that kind of thing

Also, decently atrractive women have a lot of options, so u just gotta look at it like a numbers game, even if u fail.

Strike48 · 2018-08-20T00:43:42+00:00

It's only difficult at first, but yeah, some advice out there is way too robotic. Best way to learn seduction is to act first, get experience, research later. Otherwise you'll start creating mental blocks from whatever you're reading.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-08-20T00:17:09+00:00

Because you make it difficult.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-08-20T05:27:33+00:00

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Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I don’t understand why seduction is so difficult and have to follow this and that in order for a girl to like you or less chance of flake.

You're being super unclear.

Follow this = follow what, exactly? You've said nothing about what you're actually talking about. And you act as if the whole seduction community follows the same things.

They really really don't.

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In any case, the basics are not that complicated, really:

You try to interact in a confident and playful way
You actively listen/pay attention/be present
If you're paying attention, you will notice people responding positively to you
If you're interested in someone responding positively to you, you can explore physically escalating more to see how interested they are, which requires more paying attention to know if you're welcome to be doing what you're doing
If you're welcome and she's mutually interested, you can suggest swapping contact information or suggest meeting up one on one. If you're in a club environment or other highly charged environment, you can sometimes even head straight to fling sex, if that's what you're after.

Title	Why is seduction difficult ?
Author	Meo00
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	August 19, 2018 10:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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