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[–]ChristianPatriotsFan[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
small conversation with someone who's on the job? How long would you say it has to be before I can ask?
[–]recyclablebanthas4 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
"hey you're pretty cute, can I have your number".
It might help your case more if you actually connected with her in more than just her appearance.
Don't be like all the other dudes.
Just pay attention and something can come to you that's worth connecting with her over.
She's like a 9/10 blonde so I don't have much hope....
This is honestly a nonsensical statement. There is no such thing as an objective scale of attractiveness.
What you're really saying here is that you find her attractive so that instantly means she won't like you.
Ridiculous.
[–]Chamizo4 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We are talking with a girl whos got her local sushi place right?
If so, just get know to her as a regular customer. you can talk a bit if you want too, get her to know you as "the guy who always order spicy sushi" (for example)
Very soon, you'll notice she gonna feel confortable when you arrive the store.
Thats when you can easily take her number.
I've succesfully done this with:
Just one time in my life I asked straight a telephone number from a girl working at family mart, it worked tho.
So yeah, its not imposible, but dont get too complicated about that
good luck.
[–]ChristianPatriotsFan[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I suppose I should play the long game, thanks for the advice!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I doubt that will go well but why not try go ahead
[–]BeanNCheeze 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Best case scenario - you buy something and during checkout make small talk and make her laugh. Quick small talk with a emphasis on a topic, make sure something she says catches your attention, let's call this topic "x". Then if no one Is in line ask for her number cause you want to chat more about x.
If people are in line it will be harder to pull off but it's possible if your smooth af
I mean, this doesn't even have to be applied to just women. If I want to expand my social circle with guys to I'd probably do this.
Worst case it ends up you being awkward and she coming up with a reason she can't give you her number. In the end who cares? Act like it never happened if you see her again and keep making your life better
[–]PRSouthern 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Would this be a complete cold approach or would she recognize you from previous visits?
Complete cold approach
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