Note: Repost after hard battle to fix the platform code

Wing Finder

I was going through old PUA forums, and I was reminded of the excitement of people to meet and wing each other.

Sadly most of these are retired.

To correct this, mirroring the old style, I decided to make a free platform for wings to connect: https://coffeedaygame.wordpress.com/find-a-wing-daygame/

Wing Rules

To aid this, here are some Wing Rules distilled over the time from the Daygame community.

  • Meet for a quick coffee to get to know each other before you hit it off.
  • If you have the same type for girls, take turns.
  • Goal number one is vibe protection for both of you.
  • If you catch IOIs for your wing, let him know. Now it is his set, even if out of turn.
  • Avoid value tapping

Notes on value tapping:

Value Tapping is status games between Wings. This is to be avoided at nearly all costs. The only acceptable scenario is when one wing is much more experienced than the other (and hence the person getting value tapped receives mini coaching).

This is adversarial due to how serotonin works. If one person claims the leading spot, his serotonin rises -> his vibe rises. The other person experiences a serotonin crash -> his vibe crushes.

In general aim to make the relationship equal, and avoid nuances like:

  • Walking half a step ahead.
  • Talking more than the other.
  • Humble bragging

Add your suggestions

What are some Wing Rules you have found important and not listed here, I would love to hear them.