I've been reading seddit's advice on girls to seducing guys, but they are always really "shallow." Shallow might be the wrong term, but its always about touching, laughing at him, and twirling your hair. I get that it's probably way easier for girls to pick up guys, but I want to be witty/sexy not just sexy, ya know?

I've met a lot of guys that have a sharp wit that accompanies the seducing, and I always feel stupid as hell when I talk to them...because it catches me off guard and I'm just so used to "girl seduction" simply being dressing well.. I think the back and forth game of seductive wit is so charming. I guess its a thing some people are naturally good at, but how would you guys recommend improving? I'm not terribly unwitty, but I get nervous and awkward...which is comes across as a bit boring.