I'm familiar with shit tests, but I always encounter one that I can never really wrap my head around with a solid response.

Example:

  • Sure, we can do 'x', but only if you're good

  • You might be privileged to some if you ask nicely

I know girls put on this condescending act to weed out unconfident guys. It's a shit test to see if you'll defend and hold your own ground or lay down.

My question is: how would you respond? I have ideas of how, but I don't think it lines up with what I want to communicate.