In this subreddit i've read countless questions of men and women asking for advice on their situations. Many times I see them wondering why the girl doesn't text them back after a day or if she likes him or not. I also notice people saying "im not the best guy/girl out there".

I see most people who have trouble in the dating world or game are people who don't have themselves figured out or have conflict within themselves. Go and build that confidence, get that self esteem up there, find hobbies, workout, get that high paying job, find something that makes you want to wake up every damn day.

As stupid as it sounds, in order to get laid or find the one, you need to stop looking for those things for a while and focus on yourself and becoming the best version you can become. Sooner or later the ladies will start to roll in since they all prefer high value men. If you want a high value woman you need to be a high value man.

Theres a podcast that I have been listening for a few weeks that go over alot of this which i recommend. freshandfit podcast. they're on youtube.