Work pickup question

Diece · 2015-03-25T02:27:00+00:00

This is pretty easy,

i'd go up and say

"I made a mean xxx dish with this cauliflower here. It was one of those dishes where you don't think it's going to turnout well and it doesn't look too appetising but it is."

If she says something like

"thats cool"

you can say

"yea,don't ask me for my recipe it's secret. I barely know you."

Just make sure you tease her and are playful, the younger she is the more playful and teasing you should do. Don't expect her to hold a conversation right off the bat, shes still sizing you up.

Ho_Kogan · 2015-03-25T03:17:51+00:00

Do you know her name? If not, introduce yourself.

To me, the number one rule in seduction is; Don't try to make an excuse to talk to her. For example: Don't make up a stupid excuse like you don't know what time it is. Be confident. Even if you are not confident, atleast be more confident than this girl who cannot even make eye contact. When you speak to her, make eye contact and smile.

If you already introduced yourself (formally that is), then just compliment on something she is wearing. If she is wearing a pair of running shoes, go upto her and say, "I really like your shoes, where did you get them?" Or "I really like the Pink/purple/blue/whatever on your shoes, looks good on you."

An other rule that I have is; don't talk about yourself too much. I say this for 2 reasons:

Reason 1: You have to stay somewhat mysterious Reason 2: Every woman that I ever met, almost do not care about you, and if they do, that is because they want to get to know you. 90% of the time, they want to talk about themselves.

Rule 3 for me is this: When speaking to her, you can open the conversation with a question (as mentioned above) and follow through. Rule of thumb is: Ask 2-3 questions about her (Her day, what time she's getting out, what does she plan on doing after she gets out, etc) no more than that. If you do; it will sound like you are interrogating her. Try to follow each of her response with one of your responses and ask open ended questions (which means do not ask her one answer questions. This will allow her to only be able to answer in yes or no)

If this seems like something you can do; then feel free to allow me to elaborate a bit more if you need to.

secondpua · 2015-03-25T03:27:20+00:00

If your near any easy cook meal/frozen meals an easy one is grabbing one and saying in a non-serious, joking way "this is why i need a girlfriend". If she responds continue the conversation.

raxical · 2015-03-25T04:00:14+00:00

Sounds like you're putting too much stock into this one girl. Just go do it, 3 second rule. Maybe use what the other commentors have said, but if you're at the point where you don't know how to go about it, you should expect failure. And that's fine because you'll get better with knowledge and experience.

Go ask a girl or two out a week. Make it a goal. When you have this mindset, then that one girl at that one store is no longer that big of a deal.

TheBadGod · 2015-03-25T05:52:34+00:00

She's not shy. She's not interested.

Zero eye contact and she walks away quickly?

No signs of interest.

rangamatchstick · 2015-03-25T13:27:40+00:00

Risky at work, try to do a more passive form of pickup if anything.

Title	Work pickup question
Author	platypus_strnglr
Upvotes	14
Comments	22
Date	March 25, 2015 1:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/307ern/work_pickup_question/
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