Work with affirmations

jessekene · 2020-01-31T21:06:29+00:00

Same. The power of the unconscious is underestimated

thomasdub01 · 2020-02-01T00:05:52+00:00

Can you give examples of what you are saying to yourself.

Tutsks · 2020-02-01T01:54:30+00:00

Gonna go ahead and add an important part for all the people asking: "well what do you tell yourself?"

It doesn't matter and its better if he doesn't tell you.

The reason this stuff works is not that you'll magically convince yourself you are a chad and this guy has the magical formula that will do it. The reason it works is that we tend to be VERY mean to ourselves. All this exercise does is keep something handy in your mind for when you tell yourself "Nobody likes you and you;ll die alone with your cat".

So, your affirmations are/should be things that counter whatever nonsense you usually tell yourself to dissuade yourself from getting the things you want.

The way this works is that, every time you find yourself about to say "Nah bro, I'm too ugly, not gonna go talk to that babe", you reply to the little voice in your head "Ah fuck it, my ex was hotter and she seems chill, worst case scenario I make a cool acquaintance", or similar.

By the by, this is not magic. If you are a loser, you will remain a loser no matter how many times you tell yourself you aren't. That statement isn't mean to be mean, rather, its meant to bring to your attention that you HAVE to improve yourself. That part isn't optional. Become good at something that gives you pride/you enjoy/whatever. Or get style, nice threads, really, anything will do, but you need to have something you like about yourself, because that will help make the case to yourself that you should indeed get what you want.

thomasdub01 · 2020-02-01T02:18:30+00:00

How many times a day would you recommend saying affirmations?

ScoutingForSalmon · 2020-02-01T00:48:41+00:00

I feel like it's a bit of a personal battle sometimes. My logical brain tells me it's nonsense, bit I can't argue with how it affects the subconscious.

Time to give it a try and test for myself to see how effective it is.

dkod066 · 2020-02-01T01:12:02+00:00

Affirmations, are a fucking life changer. For anyone that sees this, fuck what people think (to an extent, cus if everyone thinks you're an a hole you probably are), but you're a king and can do whatever you want, you need to believe in that shit

short_redhair · 2020-02-01T03:22:29+00:00

Fake it til you make it.

Title	Work with affirmations
Author	gillimmense
Upvotes	188
Comments	12
Date	January 31, 2020 7:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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