WTF is wrong with me

enkae7317 · 2015-06-05T16:53:16+00:00

Problem is you've got a big ego. You think because you're so awesome women should just flock to you. Learn some techniques and maybe doing more cold approach. Get shut down. Get rejected and have your ego take a hard hit.

Its great you got all this shit going for you but because of this your standards may also be pretty high. But I dont know you so maybe I'm wrong. Chances are if you got all other parts of your life settled you just need to do more cold approaches and learn to get out of your comfort zone.

Just my 2c correct me if I'm wrong.

f3yleaf · 2015-06-05T16:49:46+00:00

First of all you have become way too focused on the pussy, this is bad.

You need to change that mindset and learn to think less, for now put all the outer game shit on a shelf, its likely to hurt you more then help you until you learn to relax just talking to women you want to fuck.

I recommend trying to talk to women just like you would talk to off-limit girls, and get into a really horny mindset while doing it, imagine you undressing and fucking her while having a normal conversation, try it in a party/club setting. Have no expectation or outcome in mind, just do it and try to relax/have fun just interacting, rule 1 = you must have fun.

I recommend listening to this guy, you have a sense of entitlement but in the wrong way. https://youtu.be/gVUr9-owV_A

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chiliehead · 2015-06-05T16:53:15+00:00

I'm awesome man in his prime

If this is your true inner belief, you shouldn´t have issues with Inner Game. Give yourself a reality check.

Mind to tell about your usual approach of getting women and socializing? Anyway, you really seem too outcome dependent.

ACE_C0ND0R · 2015-06-05T16:59:54+00:00

So... WTF is wrong with me?

I think that is your problem, you think something is wrong with you and (this is conjecture) probably project that onto women you are interested in. So, even though you have basically the rest of your life figured out, when it comes to women and dating you project that there is somehow something wrong with you because that is how you feel inside. A self-fulfilling prophecy if you will. It's a downward spiral. Ex: Have a bad interaction with a woman, start to think you're bad with women, go into another interaction expecting it to be bad, have a bad interaction, repeat. You need to break the cycle by changing your mindset and expectations.

Title	WTF is wrong with me
Author	CitsatnaFrM
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	June 5, 2015 4:14 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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