"You have got some high standards"

recyclablebantha · 2015-05-03T16:49:48+00:00

Sup guys, recently I was talking to a girl I know for some time, we were hitting it off and everything was going well. We are friends but some seduction is going in there.

How long have you known her? If it's longer than a month without you making a move, then chances are, seduction was not, in fact, going on.

What caught me off guard was her phrase "I want to see your (future) girlfriend" mocking me for my high standards and high level of requirements (I hope you get what I'm talking about since english isn't my native language).

How did this come up? Why was she even talking about your "high standards?" There's not a terrible amount of utility in this kind of disclosure

What does it generally mean when girls say that? I have never met with it and it got me wondering.

It doesn't generally mean anything. There's no rule for this. It just sounds like you're in the friend zone and this girl wanted to see the kind of girls you're chasing.

Iloveyou-Iknow · 2015-05-03T18:47:14+00:00

That's a test.

Girls will say things like "you are so confident" "you are so cute" etc without enough attraction built. It will feel outbid place.

AFC compliments back in this situation and feels flattered and starts kissing her ass or humble bragging. This kills the attraction if there were any.

She is just trying to see if you are actually congruent with the personality you project, or do you turn liquid at the first sign of validation and become an approval seeking guy who is not used to such treatment.

Think to yourself : what would Brad Pitt do/say in this situation?

Average woman telling Brad Pitt or Dan Bilzerian: "you are so handsome" "you are so good with women" "you are so picky, o d like to see your future girlfriend" would probably get just a dismissive smile that's says "you would" "are you shitting me?"

He is used to such tests from countless women and doesn't fall for it.

What you are dealing with is a real player, a flayer. Good luck ;)

Reference: Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo

Seducejanus · 2015-05-03T07:21:10+00:00

Get a mirror and show her, Or Tell her that she just need to look into one

Spurnout · 2015-05-03T17:35:52+00:00

"It's going to be hard to see her unless you look in a mirror"

Dianmego · 2015-05-03T07:31:30+00:00

Not sure. If I were you I would have taken a picture of her on your phone and then showed it her. "She'd look a lot like this".

DaygameCoach · 2015-05-03T14:55:34+00:00

Girls don't say that. It's an ESL thing (she said it wrong). So, it's hard to know what she means.

Title	"You have got some high standards"
Author	TopsyMitoTurvy
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	May 3, 2015 6:05 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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