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| 3 | I thought I fucked up.AFCs like to have what makes them happy hearing, not what is painful to hear , works and needs effort :-) I don't know or care about downvotes or upvotes. We are trying to help beginners or nice guys who saw the fault of their ways, change their lives; for free. The fact is.. When I go out to Esplanad in Helsinki in an hour, walk up to girls these reddit AFCs couldn't even dream of, make them laugh and get dates, numbers, and genuinely have fun ; believe me I don't really have random Joe down-vo… | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 10:53 AM |
| 29 | I thought I fucked up.Sadly it doesnt. A smelly fat gamer boy cant go out and tell girls about league of legends, hot pockets and how sitting all day rocks; and attract them. "Being yourself" usually means being direct with your intent. Your intent is who you are. A rapist cant go out and say "I m going to be direct with you Jessica. I m being myself right now and I m going to assrape you" Being the best version of yourself; works. And that takes a lot of effort, practice, training and getting out of your comfort zon… | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 08:44 AM |
| 4 | I thought I fucked up.There is no word counter versus battle : "he/she who speaks 3 words more, loses attraction" Rather, speaking too much, laughing too much, trying to impress are very primitive efforts to seek approval from a tribe member with higher status than you. If you are speaking more, but not laughing at your or her jokes, and she is continuously laughing, paying attention; she is the one trying to impress you on a gut level by laughing at everything you say; trying to gain your approval. that's the gist o… | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 08:44 AM |
| 0 | I got Scammed , maybe (?)Good luck. Remember it's 1% what you learn from the books, and 99% going out and socializing. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 05:32 AM |
| 6 | I got Scammed , maybe (?)I hope this horrible experience works as a wake up call for you. You need to immediately get help if you ever want to talk to a woman and trust her again. Read: Double Your Dating 2nd ED (David DeAngelo) today. It is pretty short but I want you to take everything it says AS THE TRUTH. Forget everything that the society or your mother ever taught you about women, about being a man, and about relationships. They obviously haven't worked. Chances are you will read his other material, listen to the … | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 10:16 AM |
| 0 | Girl gave me fake number but still wanted my number??Welcome to the mind of a woman :) Flakes happen, the mistake was "talking all night" at a "bar" without escalation. She deemed you to be "too nice" to have anything to do with. You probably gave off nice guy signals too; WHICH CAN BE FIXED IF YOU DEDICATE YOURSELF TO THIS AND TRAIN. I have trained and practiced for years now, but I still get non existing numbers, emails ([email protected] really? and she does it with a straight face). This is something invented by women to kindly reject men who of… | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 10:02 AM |
| -1 | Three Rules for Approaching WomenThanks man. "It’s not the first thing you say that’s important. It’s everything else. Approaching is like opening a car door. It’s a necessary action. You can’t skip that step. But there aren’t really any awesome ways to open a car door that are that much better than any other. " Beautiful. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 09:26 AM |
| 0 | How to make smiling face your default face?Do you have a smartphone or an mp3 player? Great. Download the 2 comedy stand up albums by Steven Wright. Play them on loop as you go out sarging. There is no way you won't have a 100% smiling face and a high inner state that way. Besides he makes kind of Dry, Cocky Comedy; you can even steal lines to stick between your conversational topics. | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 09:25 AM |
| 0 | Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your ChancesTexting too much is a sign of neediness. The problem he mentions and describes himself doing is being needy, approval seeking. It's a completely different issue than text game. It is like saying "don't drive because you may be drunk" when the problem is the alcohol and not the car. It is of course wrong advice, and will hurt the game of starting guys. You cant ignore bad advice when you know it's harmful. Otherwise we would let Dr Oz go on about drinking snake oil to get thin. Not happening. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 01:22 PM |
| 0 | How to have a direct approach when the girl is accompanied with friends?By your way of saying, you know this girl already. She is either in your social group or has seen you before. And you haven't got the courage to talk to her in the previous instances. You dont do direct approaches in your social circle, it is for cold approaches to women you have seen for the first time. Direct approach in social circle is called a love confession and it will most likely ruin your reputation in the group dynamics. Other girls will be wary of you too. Unless you have some signs o… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 08:39 AM |
| -8 | Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your ChancesJust because you are bad at escalating with written messages doesn't mean everyone is. I got my married teacher from "text me about the time of the exam" to "fuck my in classroom" with a night of text escalation. Got girls who were cold during pick up to open up and tell me all about their orgies and beg me to tie her to the bed on our first date without talking face to face. It may sound like a good idea to stalkers and "read 700 books never approached a girl" wusses on this sub; but for someon… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 08:22 AM |
| -1 | Can an alpha be truly funny?and another think. watch james bond movies. he doesn't laugh around women. he smiles, sure. but no loud flamboyant laughs. You dont laugh during cocky comedy. You extend tension with a atraight face, but break it with a smile. You never laugh at your own jokes which makes her laugh. You also don't laugh at her jokes and give her approval. You push with a cocky funny thing, and you pull with a compliment or normal conversation moment, then you push again with something that displays cocky portrai… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Can an alpha be truly funny?Its hilarious for you and the woman you re doing it with. To outsiders it looks weird and dangerous. There is one way of deploying cocky funny and its pure sexual communication, intense eye contact and tension. You either can do it 100% or you re not doing it. It comes with practice and inner state. When I have it "on" with a girl on the bus stop, those around think she is going to hit me, call the police or be rude. Thats why we never care about what others think. They wont get it. Its a secret… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Can an alpha be truly funny?wat? you mean a joker boy, someone who seeks approval by making jokes and making people laugh? If you are unaware of the concept and the trademark called "Cocky Comedy", I suggest some googling and book-reading. It's the most effective attraction strategy for the 10/10 women with high self esteem. Reading on that you will learn the meaning of laughter and why we laugh and how social status and approval works. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:41 AM |
| -1 | "Making fun" of someoneYou need to read a book. It's "Attraction Isn't a Choice" by David DeAngelo. You speak of psychology. When did the science of psychology come about? 200 year ago? That "making fun" thing you speak of came to be about 2 million years ago, 1 million 950.000 years before we had spoken language. It's called sexual communication. It's a way of displaying high status , knowing that women in our primitive tribes have always been attracted to (chose to mate with) males with high status, the alpha males,… | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Procrastinating in the last momentConfidence can be defined as : willingness to take on challenges that you haven't attempted before. If you are a great guitarist and pick up a difficult sing to play; that's just assurance. You know you can play it. How about standing up to a dragon , believing that you can s"-y it? How about taking a test about topics you never learned before but you like he challenge? How about jumping off a roof to the next, without having jumped that distance before? You don't have confidence with women. Fea… | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 08:11 PM |
| 0 | how did you tell your crush you liked her and where?Using Mark Manson words That only works if she is already receptive Doesn't work if she is neutral. You need to polarize with something that creates tension. Direct openers with compliments usually don't create sexual tension (how do I know? First book I've read told me to do them. Until I got a Double Your Dating book, I got rejected for 2 months by girls I could easily lay using cocky comedy. That's 30+ approaches per day, some girls twice coz I m bad with faces.) Gets a bad rejection of unrec… | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 07:39 PM |
| -1 | how did you tell your crush you liked her and where?Why do you think that telling your crush that you like her will make her attracted to you an like you back? Where did you hear about this? Did someone tell you? Was it in a book? Was it in a movie? Don't tell your crush that you "like her"; that will 99% ruin all your chances. Attract your crush with sexual communication and being manly ( too many attributes to list) and when she says : I love you Reply with I know :) That's how the game is played. Not by confessing to women hoping that 1% they … | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | American going to Dusseldorf, Germany for 3 months. Advice on picking up women?You should use random words in German in between the English by the way. It's great humor and in Europe when foreigners use bad words in our language , we don't hold them to the same standards that we hold members of the society. It just sounds funny that he Knows that random word. I learned this word: "Resteficken"; mostly used for immigrant males lurking the nightclubs all night and trying to grab the leftover drunk girls that no one else took home at the end of the night. When I talk to a Ger… | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 07:32 PM |
| -2 | How do you guys handle with a person that's trying to mess your game?Ignore them. Pretend they don't exist. Don't acknowledge their existence. Or assume they are the bartender collecting the empty glasses and hand him/her yours and say thanks. Check your pocket smile and say "sorry, no change"'as it he was begging. If you try to start a fight; that's the most beta thing you could do. You can only be disrespected if you perceive disrespect and act to protect your ego. If someone can't be ignored , smile, shake his hand and say "Hi I'm John, nice meeting you. I'll … | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Eating less takes zero money and the results get you more attractive people. This whole journey is about delayed gratification. So harden the fuck up and invest in your body.You are wrong, of course, and due to Donning Krueger Effect you don't even know that you are wrong; and will cluck, fly around and walk up straight like a cockerel. There are other factors than calorie intake; such as carbohydrates instantly being passed to the blood stream and being stored if not used immediately, fat and protein having different specific dynamic action ratios and being absorbed slowly as you go about your business.. But I m not the type of person who wood waste time trying to … | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 04:21 PM |
| -5 | Eating less takes zero money and the results get you more attractive people. This whole journey is about delayed gratification. So harden the fuck up and invest in your body.Eating less (limiting calorie intake) is almost always a very bad diet choice and it will make you gain more weight when you get bored and binge. Weightwatchers business model is based on this fact, most of their customers are those who lost weight with them before, gained again, got back on WW because it worked for a while. I will explain the other way which is long term sustainable. I weighed 100kg at 180cm in March 2013. Someone told me about this "dukan diet" where you don't have to spend mo… | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Going to Europe. From NZ. Any tips?We usually don't tip because they get good salary, but it the service was extraordinary, don't let that stop you. At what level is your game? European women are much more receptive, more beautiful, faster to lay, warmer, more honest, and much more open about sex compared to USA, middle earth, Aus. You can just talk to every cute girl on the street (no chance of social backlash there, you won't to there again) and say you are a hobbit tourist from New Zealand and say "I want to go to YourDoor" Th… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 05:50 AM |
| -1 | Because of day game's now near mainstream status, I am apprehensive to approach during the day due to the fear of getting called out or experiencing annoyance/hostility. Any strategies to overcome this block?Here is how it goes: If the guy was a creep, she was not attracted to her for some reason, she is a lesbian, racist, weirdo: what he does and says will come off as game, playerish and creepy. If you are good, have a confident body language, not dependent on the outcome, project that you are preselected and have options: SAME GIRL WILL SWEAR THAT YOU ARE THE LOVE OF HER LIFE. It doesn't matter if they have seen the Mystery show or read the Game. If you are good at game, it's not about the routine… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 05:42 AM |
| 8 | About asking if she has a boyfriend.Don't ask. Period. Fin. The end. If she wants to fuck you really bad: she will lie about it about hide it. Women have done that that for ages, they are super good at it. If she doesn't want you to know, you won't. If she doesn't want you; she will make up a boyfriend even if she doesn't have one. Asking if she has boyfriend just says "I am insecure about my manliness, I am also intimidated that your potential boyfriend might kick my ass if I hit on you. And I am about to hit on you that's why I … | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Uh..How do I ..use a girl for sex without hurting her?Going on a date tonight with a tinder girl. She's a bit on the bigger side, but her boobs are RIDICULOUS. You described 90% of all tinder dates. Your standards will go up with repeated success. However, honestly, I really don't think she's good enough to be in a relationship with. I really wanna get physical with her, but I REALLY don't want anything serious to come out of this. What if she gets pregnant? Are you 100% sure she won't have your baby? Also if you are not attracted to her, why are y… | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 09:22 PM |
| 6 | What are some good ways to Push and Pull? How do you know when you are doing too much of one and not enough of the other?Okay, "champ" :-) the best sex I ever had was with a jerk who treated me like crap and broke my heart. I think nice people can be bad lovers and shitty people can be good ones. Yeah, I have issues with staying around men who don't treat me properly. Usually online or through friends, I like meeting people organically the best I'm not as picky as I should be, I go for very pretty boys and overlook their other flaws if I find them really attractive I don't go for jerks. He was very nice in the beg… | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 05:08 AM |
| -3 | What are some good ways to Push and Pull? How do you know when you are doing too much of one and not enough of the other?That's funny. I call Finnish/Scandinavian fashion model buddies/fuckbuddies : dummy, dumbo, dork, Doris, muffin, buddy, champ, kiddo, nana, pancake, dude, brat, twat, troublemaker, nerd. They love it. Don't even remember the names of some girls I've met at this point and I keep finding ways to check her ID so I can recall it. Look... We don't care about your "I m a woman" opinion, okay? Don't mislead guys trying to learn something on this sub because you have low self esteem and 300lbs extra, an… | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Best website to rate on appearance? Links provided on my findings so far.Man... You need private coaching one on one. This level of insecurity won't be solved with help on this sub or books alone... :) Listen carefully now. Your looks don't matter as long as you are well groomed, dressed and take care of yourself. All women want you, you have what it takes inside you. Just go out and approach without thinking how others think of you. Read that again. Read that as many times as it takes to get it. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How to create attraction during day gameI fell in the same trap you did and I learned the way to escape. You are not making her feel safe if you just approach, talk, and get her number. Ignore the dating advice that says "spend 5 minutes on a girl max!" Lead her. Physically. Somewhere else. Approach, talk 2 minutes, and say "Hey let's go over there.." "I was going to buy X, come with me.." "Come on I ll show you something really cool in that store ~ museum ~ insert interesting place here ~" This is called an instant date. By making he… | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 05:58 AM |
| 3 | I did the right thing right?I would have put her in her place without being emotional in my tirade, THEN ditch her. Usually makes them CHANGE their attitude and apologize, and it feels better saying "No" in that situation. Watch "office space" , it's a very educative movie. Also don't delete numbers, how will you block calls or messages if you don't know it is her number? She could "butt dial" you or send booty call messages 5 months later, reminding you to bring dessert for her and her friends. If you were without options… | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 05:50 AM |
| 6 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."I am sorry if any of my genuine and honest advice seems like it was designed to be used with middle aged, obese, women with horrendous acne problems causing low self esteem. Cocky comedy should only be used with attractive women with high self esteem. Someone who was not fortunate in genes and life will simply "not get it" and feel insulted. We aim to leave every woman better than we found here here in /r/seduction After a quick look at your comment history, free of charge, I was able to work ou… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here read the book "models?"http://imgur.com/jYAPUFu If you had the paper version ; it says REDDIT on its back ;) There are many books, most of them say very good things, and most of them work even if they say things conflicting with other books. Logic does not work in seduction. There is no one way that's more correct than others. X+2=y And X+5 = y Both work where x!=0 and y!=0 | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you think having female friends is important?Well no need to downvote. You are correct. There is difference between a guy who goes to a club alone or with male friends to "hunt for chicks" and a guy who has two girls on each arm going there to have fun with his friends. He is preselected, you feel that if he can make those girls feel safe , you would feel safe around him as well. You see he has options and he is not desperate. You see he has female friends that he leads and he is a leader (unless he is carrying their handbags, buying them … | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Do you think having female friends is important?An alpha male of human tribes NEEDS to surround himself with male and female friends that he connects together, looks out for, protects, leads, unites. There is no other way. You must have female friends. Nothing is stopping you from being sexually involved with some of your female friends, except for the organized religion teachings such as "no sex before marriage"'which goes against our human nature. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"Everywhere :-) I've had girls do worse. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 07:13 AM |
| 22 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."Be unpredictable, build tension and release.. Like always. Having sex is no reason to end the game and go back to being a nice guy. Back in my amateur times, I got dumped by tens of girls after attracting them with game, getting in their pants...because I turned nice, predictable, boring, smoochie smoochie complimenting soft boy. The game doesn't end with sex, you have to keep being mysterious and fun. Telling your life story directly to a woman at any point does NOT contribute any advantage to … | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 07:09 AM |
| 3 | I F-closed last night but with a girl I'm not attracted to, and now I feel like shitAgree wholeheartedly. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 10:31 AM |
| -3 | Tips on German girls.....I laid one HB7 in my class, she had a boyfriend back home, a nice guy ; but all other German girls I approached were extremely cold and non responsive to cocky comedy. This one was receptive even to the "do you want a banana?" line when I found out she was from eastern Germany. "What's your name? - None of yourz biznezz" Maybe direct approaches and compliments would work better but it wasn't my style at the time and I don't regret not getting together with a few semi-racist girls with no sense o… | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 10:27 AM |
| 9 | Does Mystery still exist? I have heard nothing from him or about him at all in the past several years. What happened to the dude?Beautiful girlfriend, beautiful kids, hates RSD's abusive strategies with women ( you know what I'm talking about), maybe uses fb a little too much, lacks a legal counselor or a lawyer to protect his name rights. Getting in a long term relationship pretty much ends your game, in return for some type of happiness that I personally am not into. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 10:22 AM |
| 1 | "You have got some high standards"That's a test. Girls will say things like "you are so confident" "you are so cute" etc without enough attraction built. It will feel outbid place. AFC compliments back in this situation and feels flattered and starts kissing her ass or humble bragging. This kills the attraction if there were any. She is just trying to see if you are actually congruent with the personality you project, or do you turn liquid at the first sign of validation and become an approval seeking guy who is not used to such… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Some girls just don't want to be approached... FUCKING DEAL WITH It, You aren't haggling prices, let it go.Did you save this 1,5 year old throwaway account just to make a post on /r/seduction? I m not even mad, that's impressive, | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] Using /r/seduction in India1- you will face a much stronger test-wall at the first approach. I wouldn't be surprised if they curse and scream and be nasty. Once you are past that she will want to marry you. This is because they have an abundance mentality, where a blonde 190cm Danish model may be very open and receptive to you, lost Indian women may be very closed. Because there are billions of Indian guys trying to get her (or rape her) and her reputation is at stake. If she is seen as a girl who speaks to guys on the st… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 07:25 AM |
| 6 | Driving a Conversation Sexually?That Don Juan movie with Johnny Depp (don't focus on the story , rather how the male character interacts with and looks at the female character) James Bond movies with Sean Connery (same deal) Notebook (watch how that guy Ryan whatshername talks to and looks at the girl) Look how they stand, how they smile, where their arms and hands are, what is his body language saying? What are his eyes saying? Try to copy it on the mirror , practice the scenes. Be "that" with a girl you just met; she will fo… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 05:50 AM |
| 35 | Throw some shit at me. I hesitated to approach a girl.This is from chapter 15 of "How to become an Alpha Male" by John Alexander ~~~~ Picture it: you’re about to try to talk to a hot girl. You see her standing there in the magazine section of the supermarket, occupying herself with Cosmo. Her blonde hair is silky and smooth. Her skin is clear and radiant. Her waist is slender. And wow, look at the nice shape of those tits! You feel the tension. Excuses pop into your head: “I’m really in a tired mood”; “I didn’t dress that well”; “I don’t know what … | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Anyone succeeded with self-hypnosis for getting into state?Checked your webpage, although my Danish is rusty :) | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Anyone succeeded with self-hypnosis for getting into state?Never tried and don't dare. However I have read about some NLP techniques and they helped me tremendously. Remember a time were you felt confident, approached and talked to a beautiful woman, picked her up, took her somewhere else as she was staring at you like a miner looks at a new vein of diamond. Now do a unique "thing" with your hands or your lips or your feet as you remember the feelings you had. With some practice , you will get into that state every time you do your special "thing". Thin… | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 01:35 PM |
| 60 | Driving a Conversation Sexually?Sexual communication developed long before we had spoken language, so you can't say "sexual things" and hope to turn her on. You drive the "interaction" sexually, what you say doesn't matter, the conversation doesn't matter. Your body language, voice tone, pauses, voice volume, eye contact are things you can put to use for sexual communication. David DeAngelo has an audio series called "Sexual Communication" but it alone won't help you unless you get the feel for it by watching movies and doing … | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Can't talk to girlshttp://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Have seen major improvement over 3 months and want to improve more. What could I have done better on this night out?It's your life but I would never put so much effort on a pothead exchange girl. She sounds like a justifier and you should have banged her the first time you two got alone together. However every one has different standards and challenges. She got shots from many guys and she is drunk, and you got into deep conversation? ;-) should have just physically escalated and made out there. Such venues and situations are not ok for deep conversations. Also if a girl throws up at your place, go to help, t… | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 10:39 AM |
| 1 | What if you aren't funny? I'm not funny and it hurts my game oftenYou have to read "Double Your Dating 2nd Ed) by David DeAngelo. He is the most famous PUA instructor who teaches "Cocky Comedy" Also read and study "Comedy Writing Secrets" by Melvin Helitzer (might be wrong about that name) Cockiness and humor combined is the basis of my game, I'm not into walking up to women and telling she is the most beautiful thing in the world, or talking about the fight outside the bar.. However if you are cocky but not funny (usually bait and switch type jokes, like on S… | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 10:09 AM |
| -1 | Why does it all feel like deception?Because it's all a deception, a great lie. Luckily for you, you can learn to "see". Read this book (free I think) when you sober up. Believe everything it says. http://www.academia.edu/3824850/The_Art_Of_Female_Sexual_Seduction That will help teach you about women, about being a man and about attraction. You will come back and ask for more material when you have read that book. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Can't talk to girlsGreat :) Now wear your "Counterspell your argument heheh" tshirt and make a little dance in front of the first group of hot young blondes in miniskirts. I m pretty sure your internet arguing skills are working great in real life. Awaiting your FRs, but keep in mind we can detect any kind of bullshit in stories regarding male-female interactions. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have picked up girls on Instagram...How??Okay, no amount of self help or inner game advice can help you, friend. You should just go, we are not psychiatrists here, neither are we pimps. But I know someone who will never be able to approach a woman and talk five minutes without scaring her away with his insecurity, obsessiveness, and insanity when I see one. You can't satisfy your ego and satisfy your self esteem with "I read all your post history and put photos of you with crosshairs on your face all over my walls" arguments here. Good… | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have picked up girls on Instagram...How??Yeah, you are not fucking anything with those insecurity and ego issues. We won't help you date rape 15 years olds. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 06:35 AM |
| 1 | [Inner Game] What is being needy - and how to cure it ?You should be happy first, a nice girlfriend can't magically make you happy. However, she can make you happier, so don't give up on the thought of having a healthy relationship with a 10 inside 10 outside woman. Or many such women over your lifetime. PUA teachings make this easier (or possible , for most of us) | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong? Seddit, pleh!Tusen takk? Thousand thanks is often used in Norway-Sweden-Denmark :) | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How to get a college girl when you're not in college.Except ; you " think" and I have picked up more than 100 Finnish teens between 17-23 in that way and I'm speaking out of PUA experience. Some had boyfriends or even husbands. Each scaled around 20/10 on the American scale , assuming you're a redditor from the U.S. If you want steamy details ( quick sex in library, one hour lay in an empty classroom, how I set up my acoustic guitar and some wine in an empty classroom and take girls from the cafeteria there, play and talk and have wine while some … | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 07:16 PM |
| 3 | [Inner Game] What is being needy - and how to cure it ?You haven't understood the basics. You should go back and read ;and apply them in approaches and pick ups. Think not being needy as having self respect in this context. Does James Bond go around begging women for sex or affection? He has self respect so even if a woman isn't interested in him; he smiles and moves on like nothing happened, talks to the hot blonde by the blackjack table as if he has never been rejected and got everything he wanted in life. Does James Bond call a woman 86 times a d… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you improve your date game when you feel you already have most of the basics down?Are you related to Dr. OZ? Because your advice is as wrong and malevolent. This is not /r/AskReddit , save your clueless opinion to yourself if you are not well versed in Venusian arts, you will only cause damage to someone with your ignorance. OP: If a girl rejected your offer to have sex, there wasn't enough sexual escalation, attraction, comfort. Asking at a later time with a new and different offer that includes tacos and cheese sauce isn't going to change how she feels. It's needy, it's des… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 07:30 AM |
| 2 | If I open girls in loud ass clubs on the dancefloor by picking (lifting) them up, will I get slapped?Don't even wait for eye contact, too needy. It's a club, girls k ow why you are there. However if you walk around from girl to girl like a predator YOU WILL BE labeled a predator. Girls know who is there to have fun and who is there to hunt. Forget about hunting. Those strategies are desperate and what we call "resteficken"; guys who desperately try to make drunk girls go home with them after the last call. A pick up artist at the club : fishes. You throw bait, and you catch the women who take t… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Field workTrue ;) Books are only 1% and that's for quickly learning "what the fuck not to do". True experience , skill, success and learning come from approaching in real life and getting feedback, and treating rejections not as things that happened because she was a whore or because you were ugly; but by trying to find out where you wusses out and did not appear as a real man, and striving to fix it. It's never her fault. But on seddit ; virgins who have read 0,5 book are experts of seduction and "tinder… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 06:39 AM |
| 0 | Guys who have picked up girls on Instagram...How??Are you specially interested in women with self esteem so low that she needs to post carefully choreographed pictures of a fake social life with good food, good drinks, parties, adventures, handsome boyfriend, new clothes, new make up, holidays abroad and continuously tag her photos to welcome likes and followers who complement her endlessly to validate her self worth which is only measured with her physical looks and how she is judged by others? Then Instagram is the place for you. Look for pla… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 06:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get a college girl when you're not in college.college girls You mean junkie whores. This guy asks for genuine advice. Pleas take your trolling to other subs before you get someone in jail, tumblr troll. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How to get a college girl when you're not in college.You can hang out college cafeterias and events. Don't direct open, just talk casually like you are classmates, and do some cold reading to change the frame a little. If she seems interested; escalate and lead to another part of the campus. The leading part is important, taking a girl , making her to with you somewhere that's not "here" instantly makes her be attracted to you as a leader , it's an alpha attribute. If I approach women at a grocery store; I rest lead her to another section, then to… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Does a ring on a girl's finger means she's taken?Haha I wanted to type the same thing; you beat me to it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 06:09 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong? Seddit, pleh!"If you catch yourself saying that a situation was impossible, the guys were jerks, or the woman was just "a bitch", then YOU'RE WRONG. It was your fault. It's always your fault. And that's a good thing because it means you're in control. So never blame any person or situation. " Neil Strauss aka Style; the man who started it all. You are probably giving off needy, creepy, insecure, leaning, courtship-type signals so you are killing all attractions and they don't feel safe with you anymore. What… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Do I attempt sex with a broken arm?In 2011 I broke my left wrist and had a surgery where 6 surgeons placed a titanium plate and 23 screws to hold the shattered bones together. I still have the surgery stitch mark and the implants inside it. Now I m a guitarist so it was pretty devastating for me, including the painful physiotherapy so that I could play the guitar again. My arm was in a cast for 3 weeks after surgery and they took it off because I had the implant holding the bones together. I got laid 4 different times with differ… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Julien Blanc's new SHIFT stuff?Different styles suit different individuals. Mystery's style suits him. I won't wear a feather hat and do magic tricks with nail polish, and I won't go say "may I pee in your butt" like Mark Manson's friends.. What works for every individual is different; you look different sound different and probably have different challenges and accomplishments. All programs are good for starting out before you have a unique PUA identity. In the field; everything works of you believe it will work, at least I … | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 08:05 AM |
| 3 | I am 27, work part time for minimum wage, and my crazy girlfriend just broke up with me. I'm done being this person.That's a great decision. Now you have to learn and go through the pain period for a few months up to a year. First you need to forget about all limiting beliefs or prejudices you may have. All new information found in books on seduction and female psychology (also make psychology) will go dead against the beliefs you had until now. What's the deal, you might ask. Lies told to us don't work. What's in the books; do. Believe what they say and do all they tell you to. I am the proof they work. I wa… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Try to pick up my Student InstructorIn that case please ignore all my instructions. They would work with 35~ women who don't have much of a crazy sex life and have much lower status in a relationship with a 25~ man with game. Your girl sounds young, she is probably in her early 20s, partying and getting laid often. I say use cocky comedy with her during lessons, not very ballsy things but still cocky comedy, just to attract her. Once she is, it should go from there. But don't count on it. Get a new student instructor if that's you… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Try to pick up my Student InstructorHere to help. I specialized in seducing my hot , married teachers ;) Assuming you attracted her by teasing in class first. First off you can't communicate sexually openly near other students or staff. GET HER NUMBER or give her your number in an email and say you are sick will miss class/exam and it would be nice if she could text you the new exam date, or the homework because you don't have Internet etc. Play low tone text game and make sure it continues until late hours. Her husband is boring … | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "Why me?"Insecure girls with low self esteem often ask this to make sure you won't lock her up in a basement or something.. I also get: "You could hey any girl you wanted, why me?" Or some girls will genuinely suspect you to be playing a prank on her. I like confident , relaxed girls with a very healthy amount of self worth so this is a turn off for me and I reply " because you look like you would make a good friend" while escalating sexually. If this type of self doubting questions come after sex: it's … | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Can't talk to girlsCute. If I ever wanted to kill myself I would climb all the way up to your ego and jump down to your luck with women. Just go. Those of us who learned to be confident and fixed our inner games KNOW which way a guy who is getting laid talks like and how a virgin who is a game addict nerd talks. YOU CANT FAKE INNER GAME. Maybe you can fake stories on the other corners of the Internet. There are other subreddits you can troll at. Or maybe you could take your kiddy "magic cards" collection and appro… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Can't talk to girlsLeave /r/seduction You have nothing to learn here. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 07:41 PM |
| -2 | Can't talk to girlsDefine virtue Will you call the women you speak to "harlots" if they are not virtuous nuns? Your mistakes in thinking come from obvious nice-guy mentality. Belittling others , thinking you are better than others just because they don't display the same "virtue" standards, which you most likely don't follow either , is the way that a guy WHO DOES NOT HAVE ANY GAME talks like. We have been there, we used to be "nice" guys too. We'd look at strippers and think "what a slut! I only deserve nice and … | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 12:44 PM |
| -2 | Can't talk to girlsIt does not occur in nature. We are not doves, we are bipedal primates. We don't have to nest on eggs as a male. You are confusing seahorses withy homo sapiens. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Can't talk to girlsNo. That's shaped by society, and religion as well. You won't get an individual in an irreligious society (say, Scandinavia) and get a "I want to have sex with someone special". In fact, we are quite promiscuous around here and young girls have sex by the age of 13-14. Unlike what religion and disney movies told you: sex is not a very special thing for a guy other than you have to have sex often as a biological urge to make sure your genes live on. WE HAVE NOT EVOLVED TO CREATE ART, TALK ABOUT H… | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in my classes?Do not cold approach women in your immediate social circle. You will alienate everyone around you. You will make a reputation as the "desperate" guy as soon as you approach the 2nd girl after the first one rejects you. But chances are... some girls already like you but too shy to tell it. Watch for the signals. Instead, raise your social status and be the cool guy, the party, the alpha of the environment. They will come to you themselves, or the opportunity to ask them out will arise. Cold appro… | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 06:52 AM |
| 16 | Conversation with Girls Who Won't Shut UpStart listening. And don't read the comments by clueless losers who have no idea about female psychology but read a few tinder guides on this sub and suddenly became seduction gurus who can give opinions on every subreddit on reddit. A woman talks, its her way of connecting. While it may be about anything; she just wants what she is telling to be acknowledged, not solved. Just nod, get out of your mind, mention a time a similar thing happened to you. It's clear to me that you are a little impati… | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Anyone have luck with Plenty of Fish?Correct. When you have the game, skills, inner state, options, memories of success and confidence from picking up the hot girl sitting at starbucks: internet girls is NOTHING to you. Just as, having mastered the club/bar game makes daygame child's play. Here is some proof as to where you can attract girls by 2-3 words , or drawn pictures alone: http://imgur.com/jZFup4T I didn't have my own picture, I did not type long lines or ask for sex. Just teased her drawing talent and accomplished sexual c… | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have luck with Plenty of Fish?I'm pretty sure you get to know the real person while speaking on the internet. Like.. you could totally look at redditors' post histories and learn about them. That's a weak sauce argument, friend. Don't give that to guys on /r/seduction who wrote the book of the game, approached countless women and enjoyed them without getting catfished. You will always and in every circumstance "get to know" about a person much better in 10 minutes in real life than you could in 1 week on the internet without… | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 09:55 AM |
| -2 | Approaching at the Gym?The world is your playground. The moment they are around you, they are in your reality. You set the frame. Men and women. How would you go about this if this was anywhere else? Say... bus: a girl eyes you out and she has headphones. What do you do? Tell me step by step and I will tell you what you should do at X place, step by step. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 08:22 AM |
| 21 | Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks.It was not your looks. It was not about you at all. Let that sink in. It is never about you Some 10/10 super models may find your looks very attractive, a woman who looks like honey boo boo's mother might come up to you and say you dont have a chance with her because you are ugly. We formulate ways to find generalized common points for how female attraction works, and with PUA theories, you will go a long way. However.... every female has a set of unique genes that takes over her mind to make su… | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have luck with Plenty of Fish?Delete apps. Go out, meet real women who have a life. You are out of a relationship and your confidence is at an all time low, I understand, but none of those sex-app women would be able to reject you if you walked up to them and approached like a man. No, your game is not good if you are resorting to internet as your only option, sorry if this hurts your ego but this is the truth. Give me twenty (approach 20 beautiful, classy women out in the world) and tell what happened, that way we can work … | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 07:59 AM |
| 6 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.Two different things. I have hundreds of female friends whom I have never made a "move on", simply because my genes didn't tell me to put a baby in her, or I was a nice guy when we first met, or she is a committed relationship that I choose not to ruin by sleeping with her (which you can, if you know which buttons to push) These two different things are: Being a socially well adjusted, popular, cool guy with a lot of female friends who can be his wingwomen, shopping buddy, moving out help. And a… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk confidence and being comfortable in publicWell you did it wrong. I know THAT :) Methods don't matter if they are not internalized. Reading on seduction, reading all books written on the subject won't give you 0,00000000001% of the experience gained in the real world. You do not become a PUA or a "Seduction Guru" by reading these books and guides. You become one by approaching women and succeeding, a lot (That means getting laid) | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Let's talk confidence and being comfortable in publicCute. Everyone agreeing with you is rarely a sign that youa re doing the right thing. In this context, are women giggling, respecting your social courage and how relaxed you are? You are in the right place. Most of us who learned to display alpha qualities through PUA teachings often look *"douchey" to nice guys like you. "Ugh he isnt even funny , why are girls laughing at his unfunny jokes?" Because there is a subtext in that communication. "Ugh he just went up to that girl and drank from her b… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 04:53 AM |
| 5 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.A normal guy who wants her approval would start by saying "we will get along good" "you are my type" "I need a girlfriend" "you like that? I like it too, we are so similar". Or giving compliments in order to receive compliments. That's what some "relationship experts" call as "building rapport". What works and is counterintuitive is breaking rapport. You display that you are not needy this way. It is very attractive to a woman that you don't "need her", and it makes her feel safe with you on a g… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 09:29 PM |
| 2 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.Male and female attraction work very differently. Males are only attracted to looks. No group of guys thinks: "Oh hey lets go out tonight and find intelligent and virtuous women with lots of talents and a funny personality" It does not happen. If a girl did not attract you with her looks , and you are not a desperate, needy guy: that's it. She will never attract you again. However females are foremost attracted to some personality traits that we call "alpha". These are universal values that meas… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 09:19 PM |
| 36 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.Is this a joke? A woman who has deemed that you have no social value to her, and that you are not a dominant male with alpha values and high social status: WILL NOT go out of her way to include you in her social circles and introduce you to her hot friends. You don't have any social intelligence if you actually believe the feel-good piece of crap you posted, friend. A woman may introduce a guy to her friends and her social circle: if he asserted his dominance and got into the "friends with benef… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 09:11 PM |
| 4 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Let's talk about one thing that can make you tremendously happy if solved. Because it is clear to me that I know what makes you tick better than you do. Why do downvotes from random nobodies on the internet matter for you? Surely they have an effect that you see the need to mention it, in a bitter sense. If you have an opinion and you believe in it: stand by it no matter how many people disagree with you, no matter how unpopular it may be. You could be speaking about how bad homosexuality is; on… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:47 PM |
| 4 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..No success, I'm in fact a virgin. But a few years ago I asked the time to a girl. That was an exciting moment. I still masturbate to that memory. Don't worry Doris, none of the guys here have learned pick-up to hit on internet addicts who frequent Reddit Meetups . I assure you, you will be left alone at the gym by me and all my fellow self-respecting pick up artists. Us privileged cishet straight entitled white males will not intrude on your personal training time. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:29 PM |
| 4 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..If your understanding of approaching and attracting women is "groping butts"; you have other things to work on before doing gym game, friend. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:20 PM |
| 15 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Don't seek excuse for your desires. A real man walks through this world without an apology. She might me working out at the gym, she might be doing a welding job on the top of a ladder, she might be studying with her headphones on. By being a socially dominant male, you create your own opportunities, and create your own openings. Nobody has ever made a change by being nice and playing it by the rules. Go out, and approach women at the gym. You see their tits, butt and body. You know what you are… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 01:02 PM |
| 7 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..We don't care. Take your /r/TrollXChromosome advice with you and don't confuse guys seeking advice on this subreddit. Thank you.What you don't like does not apply to 4 billion women in the world. I don't like when your teeth touches my dick during blowjob, does it mean that all guys hate it? No. This is why there is no "How to seduce us" subreddit for men by women. You don't consciously know what you want, you don't consciously know what you are attracted to, and it is not a conscious choice whe… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Am i scaring them away?I used to have your problem in the beginning. Think of yourself as a ship. You have no destination, you don't know where you are going, so you end up sailing in circles. What do you want out of this interaction? Do you want her phone number? Do you want to take her home? Do you want an instant date? Set your goal before beginning. Next, you are a man, your duty in an interaction with a female is TO LEAD. You have to know the steps to reach your goal by heart. You follow them and guide her throug… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls so random?Go for it! Go out and speak to strangers, approach girls, don't worry about rejection because it's like not being able to get a question right when you are just learning a subject. A month or two from now, you won't need any text game because you will already have internalized the basics in real life, and will just use that inner state when interacting with girls, anywhere. Since you can escalate faster in real life without having to give it days like in online, you won't want to deal with that … | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Approaching random people in the streetsI did the bullshit street thing. Imagine my face when she says "oh yeaah we are going there too! " her boyfriend comes out of the parked car and she asks if they can drop me there so ten minutes later I m at the fuck knows where and I genuinely have to ask people the way back to where I came from" | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Approaching random people in the streetsWe all have, and yes, you are doing the right thing :) awesome! Talk to anyone and everyone. Be outside your mind, not inside. Soon you will get used to this and when you approach beautiful women you will seem extroverted and honest. You see; talking to everyone, bringing them together, being a warm leader is what being an alpha male is all about. Next, talk to strangers and include OTHER strangers in the conversation. That requires massive confidence and it's so much fun. I used to get on the b… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:12 AM |
| 2 | M23 The "I'm not ready for a relationship"Your mistake is that you are displaying courtship behavior, you are taking her to formal dinners, dates, showing her that you can buy her things and supplicate with her. Never do this. A woman might be interested in you in 4 different ways 1- not interested at all 2- interested as friends 3- interested sexually 4- interested for a long term relationship You can go from 3 to 4. But it's not easy going from 4 to 3. A woman will often postpone sex with someone she is courting with. You see she does… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:05 AM |
| 3 | how to convince Girlfriend for phone sex?He means that she is fucking someone else if she isn't fucking you. You haven't attracted her sexually, she is dating you for other reasons. You're cute, you're nice, you remind her of that one guy from gay direction, approval from her friends, or whatever. You should read the books advised on this subreddit and start to learn what makes her tick. That way, your next girlfriend won't dump you and think "we haven't even had sex yet, I must not like him that much" to herself. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Tip For the gentlemen who tend to get fake phone numbers...I call it back. Very uncomfortable when a guy picks up and I chat the guy up saying this girl gave me his number and talk about sports or movies, while she is blushing. Just have fun with it. She is not worth your time anyways. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:49 AM |
| 2 | That one piece of advice....what was it for you that made seduction easier/better/more fun?I heard in a David DeAngelo audio series that : "Convince yourself that you have three days left to live. You have nothing and no one to fear again. You just have to do everything you have not done before and enjoy life while it lasts. You don't have anything to lose. Just have fun and be bizarro-you." I approached THOUSANDS of women in a period of one year. I did not depend on the outcome and soon enough I had so many girls on call or asking me when do we officially start dating, that I had to … | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:46 AM |
| 4 | So i met this girl in miami who turned out to be...well read and you'll seeYou made this story up. I won't ask you why you have so much time on your hands because making this type of stories is self explanatory. You see, when those of us went though the pain period and trained in PUA, we learned a lot of about female psychology and real life: we know how they act, react; we know what makes them tick, we know the stages of attraction and comfort and seduction. I can, with 99% precision call out a pickup story as /r/thathappened when it's not congruent with real life and… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Why are girls so random?Hahahah I don't know what you did but you turned her attraction switches off so badly she felt disgusted by the time she invested in you. Never contact her again, you will never make things right. Girls are not stupid. YOU ARE STUPID. And stop trying to "pick up girls on Xbox" , what's wrong with you? What you need to do now is 1- delete the video games. Sell your Xbox. 2- download and read some of the advised literature on this sub 3- go out and start talking to women, approaching, getting into… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Went to my first strip club last night.Been to one, never will again. There is something unattractive about middle aged and naked Eastern European and Asian women begging you for money and private show non stop when outside the place, at the nightclubs street there are thousands of young and beautiful and drunk Finnish girls who would fuck you and refuse to let you pay the cab fare yourself. God I kind of remember I pulled away from the touch of one of those women fearing she would have all kinds of STDs. Cultural difference I guess,… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:08 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with haters AND Plz Do Not Be THAT GuyThis is a part I've read on Vin DiCarlo's "The Attraction Code". It helped me learn control my anger and deal with such situations smoothly. Clearly, being physically confrontational may sometimes satisfy your ego but it will never be attractive to a woman, despite what logic might suggest. You can't punch your way into her bed. You have to see others, including AMOG males, as your subjects, parts of your tribe that you have the responsibility to lead, manage and make use of. What Tyler did here… | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with haters AND Plz Do Not Be THAT Guy/gets tattoos on arms and chest in order to get laid /makes his hair like the mainstream ryan gosling clones in order to get laid /belittles people and their looks with "balding ginger loser" /can't believe it and loses his shit when a guy who invested ZERO effort in his looks can communicate with girls in a way he can't, and gets them dancing and kissing for him. That guy has deep seated self esteem issues. Imagine you spent all your money on your 2015 model racing car to make it more aerodynam… | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?go away | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?He is a troll. Don't try to win this argument. You really need to be on top of the game for these bold and straight techniques to work imo. He just said he is not confident, not bold, doesn't have much self esteem. He did a few creepy approaches and rejections discouraged him. Here he is saying it doesn't work because he gave up. Dont worry about upvote downvotes. This is reddit, he is creating (or created) accounts to downvote you and upvote himself. It takes 10 seconds to create an account. Lo… | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 05:44 AM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?/u/Calixo I would swallow my own dick if you had ever approached a HB10, picked her up right in front of her male friends and made her actually write love poems on your bedroom's walls. You're either a tumblr woman, or a troll who just lurks here with no idea about how to put these teachings into action. I have done nearly everything that /u/jonnyhaldane wrote in her comment. It's mostly mystery/magic bullets/cocky comedy stuff, and I suppose I have approached about 500 girls at my school doing … | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 05:41 AM |
| 6 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?↑ This guy gets it. A girl being busy or not staring at you like a fat kid stares at the McDonalds menu is not a proof that she is not into you. I once approached this girl at the library; "I don't want to stop you from writing your poems but I just thought you were gorgeous and I would hate myself if I didn't come and talked to you" She proposed we go out where we can talk, she held my hand and lead me under a tree at the park in front of the Jyväskylä public library, in minutes she was lying w… | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 05:31 AM |
| 3 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?I have met most of the girls I laid at university at lunch. All restaurants at our school have these long commune-dining tables where many people can sit across each other. Beautiful girls right and left. SIT NEXT TO HOT GIRLS. You don't need an excuse. PRetend it is your establishment, and you can sit wherever you want. Push it and even ask "How do you girls like the food? Are we doing a good job today?" Just make a comment about the food, her clothes, some weird looking exchange student over a… | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 05:23 AM |
| 7 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?This is a confidence problem more than girls being unavailable. Think James Bond. He sees a girl over at Goldfinger's party. Does he seek excuses for his desires? Is he apologetic that he intruded on her privacy? No. He moves through the room without hesitation, motions her to remove her headphones, smiles, and says she is too pretty to be listening to self help books when he is there and alone, looking her straight in the eye, showing no signs of apology or hesitation or fear. This is called a … | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 05:02 AM |
| 8 | PUA Vet Adam Lyons moves to polyamory: Two live-in girlfriends: Sharing child-rearing, date nights and a kingsize bed... and he wants another woman to join themAdam Lyons, 34, from East London, used psychology to pick up girls It is not wrong but, when you put it like that.. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls to go out with you againYou may kiss her. And there is a trick to it as well. Jokingly promise "10 faked kisses"; later on, when you escalate, and it is a point she is expecting you to kiss her; go in for the kiss slowly. Stop a few milimeters form her face, and say "Never mind.. " smile and change the topic completely. Imagine you were just about to sneeze, but the urge disappeared. She will WANT YOU! Many girls may just attempt to rape you at this point, but wait: there is more. Do it a few more times. She will laugh… | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls to go out with you againImagine you were in Sweden. These girls would be 4s at most, and they would be the kind of fjortiser who give blowjobs for 2 cigarettes and an energy drink. View it this way and you will suddenly have higher standards. The second part is that you made out at the end of the date; but haven't fucked. You shouldn't make out unless you figure out the logistics to fuck her: Vin DiCarlo speaks about this in his book "The Attraction Code" , within the topic of "Backwards Rationalization". The idea is: … | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Getting girls to go out with you againI'm not interested in the particular chauvinistic spy literature or the action. The character portrayed by Sean Connery is the definition of 100% smooth real man towards women. Jonah Hill couldn't do it quite the same. Neither could Keanu Reeves. It's the Sean Connery James Bond movies, and only the scenes where he interacts with women, walks, talks, smiles, keeps eye contact that we care about. Fake it until you make it, and copy all his mannerisms; you won't believe how the way women view you … | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I just stop trying for her?I think he is 13 years old or something and this subreddit is a little on the adult side for him. | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with flakes?how to deal with flakes? By having options. If she is the only person you ever hope to fuck, and she feels it, she will go for her other options instead. If you had other options, flakes wouldn't bother you. The only situation where you would get upset about this is; she is the only person you were invested in, and her loss hurt your capital. Makes sense? Three main qualities of a real man: 1- Confident in his ability to LEAD 2- Has options, self respect and is never needy 3- knows how to treat … | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why Dating Apps Are Cock Blocking The Shit Out Of YouAbout 90% of women who left swiped me would be wetting their pants if I approached them in real and talked a few minutes. Some even by seeing me in person. Dating app women are looking for guys they couldn't ever hope to get in real life. Much like lost unattractive girls at the bar, someone too much beyond their status. Men are plenty there, most incongruent in real life than in their pictures, so there is a lot of fish. Do they get anything more than some anal sex from a high value guy, with n… | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 06:58 AM |
| 5 | Getting girls to go out with you againHello swedish fetus Do you live in Sweden? Because it different whether you are in a country where sex and relationship are very separate things from each other or not. The answer is; you are probably good at attracting them and seeming socially high status enough to make them go on a date with you. But messing up later and turning off their attraction switches so they don't even want to see you again let alone have sex (again, if it was a one night stand) You should 1- abandon all courtship beh… | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 06:47 AM |
| 2 | How can I get laid living at home with nosy, overbearing parents?You have what we call "toxic family" They are bad for your confidence, your game, your creativity, and with displaying your identity. You have to move out as soon as you so you can be yourself . Funny, one thinks his greatest wingman and support would be his family right? Not always. If they are a detriment to you displaying your identity as a person, being your best self around women, and being a confident dominant male; do what you would do if you had friends like this: get the fuck away from … | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With WomenGreat advice. This is how I started out and I haven't needed bars, clubs or tinder (maybe Internet when it's winter because it's always nighttime with temperatures around -40c here in Finland. And 3 coffee shops in my town where I already dated the cutest employees..) However, remember this one thing. When you do a direct approach and make your intention clear there is TOO MUCH SOCIAL PRESSURE on the girl that sometimes she will just reject you to avoid that pressure and confrontation. The way t… | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Seddit listen up. Relationships are hard work. If you are not ready to work hard then don't start one.I would also like to add that your game gets rusty and your level of confidence drops after a mid-long term relationship. It's too much comfort, you see. If you are not sure she is the one, if you are not sure you are ready to settle down and commit: just say "I am not looking for a relationship, don't be forced into one because of the social restrictions on her. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 04:43 AM |
| 19 | Just got cock-blocked so hardHello AhrenGxc3 , beautiful girls are rarely found alone at bar environment. And if they are; you don't even need much game. She is there to get laid. Mystery Method and Magic Bullets (Love Systems, Nick Savoy) beautifully deals with this topic. You HAVE TO befriend her friends her. They have to feel safe with you, and know that their friend (your target) would be safe with you. If you only game your target (who may be drunk) ; you would alienate her friends and they would think you might be a p… | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Cheer me up, first pickup attempt bombed royallyLook on the bright side! "Sorry I don't know you" is a novel way of rejection as they go. This is something you can laugh about with your friends later on, hell, even I chuckled at it. Although my favorite is "My name is my name" ;) No biggie. As long as you keep approaching to practice your game, you will get better at attracting and exchanging contact info, even setting up dates right there. It is a good sign of comfortable, honest behavior to share this with others. Many would think its a blo… | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?You have to read Chapter 3 from "The Attraction Code" by Vin DiCarlo. Found a photo of me in the same situation from when I was starting out | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 10:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "My hair is too expensive."Cocky Comedy 101 ;) You may listen to Dave De's "Cocky Comedy" and "Approaching Women" audio series, watch Triumph the Insult Conic Dog, Comedy Center Roasts, Curb your Enthusiasm, Vince Vaughn's body cam about this topic. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 06:28 AM |
| 13 | The Alpha Behavior of a High School KidDavid DeAngelo says "Remember one time that you felt really cool. Remember how it felt. Now puck your lips, snap your fingers or do another simple memorable gesture while you remember the exact feeling. You CAN remember how you felt and get yourself in that wacky state each time you do your unique gesture now. Use it to get in a high energy state before you approach and tall to women" I have a few different moments like this, and I scratch my crotch for one of them. So you see a guy, scratching … | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 06:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] two weeks ago I was afraid to approach any girl, Monday I approached 30 Girls. (college day game 3)She was on the phone and she saw you do it before? Enter me, I'm so bad with faces that I approached the same girl twice at school, then at a party (In my defense it was dark and she had a costume) :p | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Best pick up ever seenThat whole show is so fucking sleazy :D you will never be good at anything if you judge people so easly. That's 100% sure... $100% sure? | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Best places/methods to pickup for over 30 ?I remember listening to that audio series a few times. There was a guy who met a woman online, went to her place, she wanted to tie him up, and when he ran away; she sent her father with a shotgun after him. However it's a little bit outdated now, although the principles apply. I never fill in those questions, and my profile is a complete mystery to women viewing it, except I tease and talk to them with complete higher status and cocky comedy. I still have my cheat sheet (it's ok for online, not… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 08:05 AM |
| 4 | Best places/methods to pickup for over 30 ?Do you want to pick up 30+ years old women or the most attractive ones? (17-27 ish) Your age IS NOT A PROBLEM, I'm in my 30s and I haven't even kissed a woman older than 23 in the last 5 years. Go for what age group pleases you, and don't worry that "you are too old for young girls"; that's not the case. 1- Internet 2- Grocery store 3- Bars and Nightclubs if you are into that kind of people 4- The street 5- Social gatherings of any kind A) Open air gigs and festivals B) Open air rally and compet… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 07:43 AM |
| 1 | how do i stop my behaviour from changing based on the girl?I don't know if this is a joke, or serious but I will answer anyway. By prude girls you mean unattractive, shy, et cetera? Firstly you should never judge a book by its cover, she could be laying 10 guys a week and appear prude and unkempt in her social circle. Secondly, let's assume she really is prude. She has low self esteem, she doesn't have that many guys hitting on her as opposed to her attractive/party girl friends; so she will doubt your intentions when you approach her. Also she hasn't h… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:31 AM |
| -5 | Best pick up ever seenObviously not the pinnacle of /r/leagueoflegends which you seem to be spending hours on. You play video games We play this game Each keep it to ourselves. Deal? | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Best pick up ever seenCan those really have a memorable effect It's a club. It's great for practice, and maybe one night stands if that's your thing. Day game is what you should go for memorable effect and real personalities. Source: I've dated, or continued seeing 0 women I've met at the club after I got into PUA. Met wonderful, confident, beautiful, fun, smart, energetic, emotionally stable girlfriends at the grocery store, library, by the lake, train, airport, on a crowded marina, walking in different directions. … | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Best pick up ever seenMuch better than Mystery's fake reality show and the actors on it pretending to be virgins. :) | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | does promiscuity only apply to women?Promiscuity Promiscuity is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | does promiscuity only apply to women?Correct. Every woman can go out and fuck when she wants. This is their reality. What is your reality? You can have.. eggs and bacon whenever you want, right? 3am in the morning, when you are fat, when you are sick, when you are dressed badly: you can have eggs and bacon. Imagine meeting a person who can't have eggs and bacon even if he begged for it. Like some very poor person. You will be very picky in hanging out with this kind of people because you know most of them only want your eggs and ba… | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How did I go about disabling an AMOG./r/thathappened | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl invites me to grab ice cream... after she's been on a bike ride with her ex. Massive shit test?Sounds like the type of person I would love to spend time with, or even get married! :))) /s When I used to be a wuss, I was kind of dating this angry but pretty girl. First day we went out to have dinner HER EX came out of nowhere and sat with us. She texted him where we were. And when we got out , he had his arm around her. Later on (oh fuck it's depressing to remember this shit) her other ex started appearing at the house she is staying with her sister. To "visit". When I visited her town , I… | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 06:15 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean if a girl says no to coffee, but gives you her number?Is it really her number? Did she ever return calls? Did she agree to meet up when "you made little time on your busy schedule"? It could be a way of rejecting you, she doesn't have an obligation to give her real number, or even return texts or meet you. It could be that she was really busy but wanted to get to know you. In neither of the cases you will have any advantage by acting needy and like someone without options. Text her that you are free on X day and Y time, and that is was nice meeting… | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 06:03 AM |
| 7 | Kissing on first date?http://www.pandorasboxsystem.com/ A justifier will kiss, and fuck on the first date. There are ways to identify a justifier (tattoos being one) This doesn't mean they are "bad girls" ; they just deal with sex issue differently. As in "it's no big deal" Be sexual but treat them like a male friend. Dont talk about sex or she will think you are needy about it, when it's like lunch to her. A denier will resist, and it means "not yet.. try again later.." This doesn't mean they are all "good girls" ; … | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | does promiscuity only apply to women?Test it, download photos of a very social and attractive male model from Instagram. Get on tinder and be yourself. Will quality hb10 girls want to meet and fuck you? | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 03:48 PM |
| 3 | A new way to look at the "Don't ask how to get a particular girl" policy: Don't learn game for a particular girl. Game is not a single-use tool.I see it more like a wimpy Jewish boy going up to Miyagi-San and asking him to teach him one secret martial art move that will make him one shot knockout the strong bully kid at school. Only happens in movies but not in real life. When in reality it involves million repeats of wax on, wax off, push up, sit up, pull up, kick, punch, throw, getting beat up by your sparring partners, by your sensei, getting bruises, cuts; and along the way start winning fights and gain muscle memory of the correct … | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her?No | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Girl told me she lost my number and then bought me a drink. What?I have a few suggestions for you 1) NEVER give your number without taking and confirming her number. This is a hoop girls put up to test you unconsciously. They think "ok I will test this guy, maybe he'll give his number and go away so I can reject him and avoid any confrontation" and the drunk or inexperienced guys usually fall for this. -why don't you give me YOUR number? A) Why? B) Nice talking to you, laters C) I don't think so, thanks for your time If she was just fooling around, she will c… | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Cold reading, the Cube, Questions game; how telling something profound about themselves to women instantly makes them feel safe and comfortable with youWhen girls try to play it on me, I tell them how I imagined my objects the first time I saw the game on Style's video. The cube is a moon sized satellite covered in a storm and clouds, it's in orbit perhaps a bit too close to the Earth. It's dark metallic, with details like spaceships on its surface, some parts rotating and shifting. Lightning like Jupiter's storms rages all over the clouds covering it with flashes of light temporarily enlightening the clouds and revealing horrendous shapes behi… | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Cold reading, the Cube, Questions game; how telling something profound about themselves to women instantly makes them feel safe and comfortable with youRegular cube sounds pretentious :) The book is not even intelligible. You have to incorporate it into your game. I qualify a girl, and say she is cute but probably not my type within the first minute. Then pretend to ponder and say: Okay Doris, if you are brave enough, I know a mystical game that lets one look into another's soul without actually asking relevant questions. You give me 5 honest answers and I'll know if we can be friends. Maintain eye contact, pause while speaking, speak slowly. b… | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Cold reading, the Cube, Questions game; how telling something profound about themselves to women instantly makes them feel safe and comfortable with youple have given mixed reviews on the 'strategy' part of it. Has it helped you to actually get the girl with tactics suited to her 'type'? As guidelines, yes. But it can't be your only source of strategy and game. I am a cocky comedy guy, so I incorporated the guidelines for strategy into my game. The investor part of the type of girl I like wants to talk personal topics rather than just small talk and bar talk; I did not know that. I was approaching the same and using the same progression for con… | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Cold reading, the Cube, Questions game; how telling something profound about themselves to women instantly makes them feel safe and comfortable with youIt made me view my own mother as an NDI, my past girlfriends as mostly NJI or NJR. You'll see what I mean when you "get" the material and read all the lectures and practice on women you know to identify their types. Now I know my type is NJI (Investor, Justifier, Idealist) and I identify women I meet within a minute and know if I will ever want to date her or just fuck and not even have those thoughts. Vin DiCarlo sounds like a complete nice guy when he talks on audio , but the man has attribute… | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Met girl - she wants to meet again - in 3 monthYou're welcome :) Good luck and may you set up 20 dates this weekend. | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Cold reading, the Cube, Questions game; how telling something profound about themselves to women instantly makes them feel safe and comfortable with youIt's a system. Some lecture notes, quiz, audio etc, It would change the way you look at and classify women, | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Cold reading, the Cube, Questions game; how telling something profound about themselves to women instantly makes them feel safe and comfortable with youYeah that made me go wtf too but didn't mention it to her. Many justifier girls will outright tell about being raped, abused, or used in an orgy at a public park. She just wants you to listen, not solve her problems. | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Met girl - she wants to meet again - in 3 monthShe won't remember you in 3 months, actually she will fuck about 2 guys a week in exchange. Why should you? Keep her on your phone , but don't idealize her. Get more girls. Don't stop approaching. If she was tight and texts you when/before she comes back; hook up. Don't give her the impression that you waited for her like Juliet waited for Romeo and stayed single for 3 months... Always project having options, even if you don't. | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 06:06 PM |
| 8 | Why do some girls go above and beyond to elaborately contrive the opportunity to squeeze in something about their BOYFRIEND in conversation?! I don't even like you!A) you gave off needy signals so she is trying to ward you off, whether or not she has a boyfriend B) you attracted her and she wants to sleep with you but she want la you to know that she is in a relationship and wants you to keep it discreet while pushing the responsibility to you In either case you have to continue as if nothing was said about her borefriend. One thing I like is "its a good thing there is something to keep you from getting bored when you re missing me" , taken from Mystery. O… | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Do I need to be more sexual with a girl in order for her to be attracted and wanting to be in a relationship with me?OP; This is a 100% wrong advice and don't you listen to it. It's common on this subreddit, and I had a VIRGIN comment on submission saying "you are wrong and you're a douchebag!". Yes you have to be sexual and polarize her in the beginning in order to make her attracted to you. If you did not attract her, and got in the friendzone (friends without sex zone) you can not later decide to attract her whenever you want. You would need something game changing (won the lottery, won an oscar, lost 200kg… | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | For those of you looking to learn how to dance with girls... Here's a FREE training series that teaches you step by step how to dance to get more girls! Check it out! FIRST VIDEO REVEALS: Why You're Ruining Your Chances if Your Primary Move Is "The GRIND"I have heard about a "how to club dance" video on a David DeAngelo seminar audio, and downloaded it. It's on pirate bay and you guys can get that. It's a pretty good guide for the dance floor. Now I'm a black metal musician and I will not dance to fucking skrillexpitbullweekend crap even if I were going to lay 10 victoria's secret models, don't have the rhythm for it. But it's a useful dvd for learning the basics if you are completely talentless like I am. Here is the official website for the dv… | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk confidence and being comfortable in publicI'm a virgin simply cause I don't have a girlfriend yet. I can have a one night stand but why would I want to lose it to some person I won't care about? Oh, and I was born in 97. Can't make this shit up. You are a virgin, maybe you are not such a seduction guru who can comment about things he has never attempted huh? No you can't have a one night stand, let's be frank. Maybe lower your ego, and increase your willingness to learn new skills that go against the "nice guy" programming you have been… | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her numberDon't try too hard to game her or impress her, she is into you, she got your number already. You have already impressed/attracted her in some way. Just be kind, not too cocky, think James Bond in the movies. I once messed up such an opportunity when this hot ukrainian exchange student girl came up to me and introduced herself, said she has been watching me, knows everything about me, has a great cleavage, wants to go for lunch with me.. what do I do? I try to game her. Poof she goes. I still rem… | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Does Guitar performance influence the choice of a romantic partner? Research from the University of NorthamptonYou don't need a research for this. The answer is no. Attraction is not a choice that she would think "oh he can play alternating chicken picking at 400bpm, maybe I should fuck him rather than the other dude who can only play chords" IT does not show any significant survival or replication skill than the other. What works is.. if you can play the guitar a little, and sing (even if you are out of tune) ; you will easily hook up with tipsy girls who once fell in with a pop star or two. Think of it… | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 03:56 PM |
| 2 | BooksModels will work if you have internalized the game, approached many women and found a chance to weigh the advantages and disadvantages of different teachings that work with women. Logic has no place in the art of attraction. Completely opposing theories will work in the field. Counter intuitive things (like using a mouse upside down) that don't make sense ; will work. If you use the direct and honest approach to things as Mark (who binged on party girls for years) as a beginner on a party girl ;… | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Is it Safe to do cold approaches in India?Please establish eye contact and some sort of sexual tension first. It's not the girls you should be afraid of, but the guys around who see themselves as the righteous defender of women's honor while they wouldn't think twice about raping the same girl. (honor translates to only women's pussy in conservative countries. Guys wont lose their honor even if they steal, rape, kill, bribe) If Scandinavian or other western/northern European countries: do cold approaches all day. Women aren't used to it… | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Throw out any ideas you have of being a PUA with a 76.4% close ratio, that stuff will mess you up. In the real world you talk to a bunch of women, be the best, most attractive man you can be & you find women who are into you. You will also, along the way, meet a bunch of women who aren't into youYes. All apples are fruits, that makes all fruits apples :) Joking aside, the mathematical law (Pareto's Law) suggests that 80% of your customers only account for 20% of your profit. 20% of your customers account for the 80% of your profit. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 07:21 AM |
| 4 | Throw out any ideas you have of being a PUA with a 76.4% close ratio, that stuff will mess you up. In the real world you talk to a bunch of women, be the best, most attractive man you can be & you find women who are into you. You will also, along the way, meet a bunch of women who aren't into youActually in my case, the average went up while the number of approaches (mostly direct now) went down significantly. About 5 years ago when I had just kick-started my life , I was approaching everyone. Ugly girls, fat girls, old women, young girls, younger girls, hippies, high school students, junior high students, club girls, coffee shop employees, waitresses, you name it, all for practice and internalization (and getting laid, a lot, A LOT. 6 girls in 48 hours? Done it. It's something you need… | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 10:09 PM |
| 0 | If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!You can read his comment as "insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity insecurity" Those of us who trained and achieved success can detect this from miles away. Much like a closet homosexual republican politician hating gays in public and proposing to burn them in gas chambers; he attacks other guys he perceives as "beta… | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 06:15 PM |
| 46 | How do you respond to "you look clever" or "how are you so smart?" without sounding like a pretentious twat or a nerd?"Glad you noticed, but please try to control yourself" with the hint of a shadow of a smile. I've said this shit to 90 years old ladies where I volunteered. It's cocky comedy and it speaks to all women aged 7 to 77, in any culture or context. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 11:34 AM |
| 3 | If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!Place two elevated coffee tables or something on both sides of the exercise bike. Place your mouse and keyboard on them. Connect your computer to a tv display and park the bike a few feet away from it, now, put on series, movies, surf , read while cycling. I can do 3 hours in one to and sometimes up to 4 hours in a day. This way you can't focus in your legs or the boring exercise. Combine this with the work out and you lol get in shape and feel great about yourself. I can no more just sit down w… | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 04:11 AM |
| 5 | If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!I have built an underwear model body within a year without stepping into a gym. Firstly, you don't need drugs or supplements, protein in the form of eggs or fish or chicken is adequate. Don't to drugs to look buffed, It will be fake and you will grow real tits with real milk in them. Secondly; get a gym mat, or a thin mattress: 1- push ups, start inclined if regular is too difficult. Wide grip x20 x3 , close grip x20x3 everyday. Works your core, upper back, shoulders and chest, consistence is ke… | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 09:37 PM |
| 9 | If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!I sometimes find a book on Venusian arts and have to force myself to read all the 500 pages, not looking for things I already know that would confirm my preexisting biases but to find a new nugget of knowledge or a new way to look at something I already knew. " if I finish this book today, I can buy a new <insert consumer status symbol or self gratification product here, mostly candy from foreign countries though> on Amazon" What I have found is ; you will never regret going through an ordeal th… | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 01:55 PM |
| 3 | If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!True love's kiss <3 Try to amog someone else, pal, seriously :-) | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 09:02 AM |
| -1 | Do people still call?93% of communication is nonverbal between a man and a woman. Text is only words. Get it? Now some girls will be chatting with 10 other people at the same time so she may reject your call. (In that case dont contact her again for a while) but an older (25+) non-party girl who isnt busy , will take your call. Just text "I will call you, go somewhere quiet and lonely where your friends can't see the wetness on your crouch" When you call speak with a deep voice coming from your diaphragm, speak slow… | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Rejected friendzone requestYour problem is that you are not interested in friendships where you talk with beautiful girls about art, music and life without needing something from her. She instantly recognizes it, subconsciously, as neediness. To get women right and left; you have to give the impression that "you don't need her", that "you have other options already". Chances are if you weren't so direct and foolish (no offense) and just acted cool, took her out a few times for drinks and "art" , you would have already sle… | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Please please please read this before you begin learning how to approach, attract and seduce womenHe can expose himself to more risks and bigger risks: jump out of a few airplanes, compete at martial arts, ski board off of snowy mountains, lift weights, climb sheer cliffs with only the strength of his fingertips for security, take on dangerous political controversies, start an unusual new business with more enthusiasm than capital, confront and influence provocative teenagers, or spend days in the wilderness with only his tom-tom for company. But we all know perfectly well that these are met… | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 06:44 PM |
| 6 | [FR] "I like you - we should break up" AKA What the actual fuck? (Could use some advice)Alright let's start with a language with less slang and more respect towards people trying to help you gain superpowers. I made a guide/roadmap for another poster a week ago, I ll give you the same one Start reading IN THIS ORDER, read the first 2 books within a day if you can, with coffee, pull an all nighter and go out in the daytime with sleepy-drunkenness to practice. It will make more more fearless * Giuseppe Notte - All About Women (Ebook) * David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating (Ebook) go o… | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 05:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "I like you - we should break up" AKA What the actual fuck? (Could use some advice)You wussed out big time. Although she was attracted to you; you said or did things that worked as an instant turn off. She felt so disgusted that she removed you on facebook. Fixing things up with this girl is more difficult than putting a man on Mars and starting a Twinkles factory on mars soil by June. Just forget about it. What you should do is start reading and learning about how women are different than us men, what they want, what they are attracted to and in what ways can you attract and … | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 04:04 PM |
| 59 | Female columnist in The Guardian yesterday: "It's disheartening that men in their 50s seem so focused on looks [...] They are not looking at me. They are looking at women half their age."Men are programmed to be attracted to young and fertile women. 2 million years of evolution and she comes up with "I m smart, cultured but men don't like me anymore, men are pedophiles" It doesnt matter whether it is 2015, BC6000 or 34.520 the year of the laser mars colonization wars. As a female she has a ticking clock that says "find a mate and give birth before 40, or your genes wont be transferred to the next generation and you will die infertile"; this clock along with the "build a career a… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 05:52 AM |
| 14 | Married woman goes out with male 'best friend' while husband is out of town, gets drunk and takes him home to 'hang out'. MIL calls her out. r/relationship's tells her, her behavior is fine.I am rooting for the "best friend". The guy obviously "gets it" and gets to nail a woman while the nice guy husband has to pay for her bills. It's the husband/fiancee's fault for being a fool wussy who cant lead his woman and push her attraction buttons. Nice guys don't get to complain. Read David DeAngelo's "Attraction is not a choice" and start fixing yourself. Man children. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 06:53 PM |
| -3 | LTR cheated on you? You have a right to be mad!"stop using evolution biology to justify things. ignore your girlfriend's needs and feelings, focus on video games and cars, always accuse women of everything because your ego cant handle the truth that you were not man enough" It's funny how bearded wussies become real men by subscribing to this reddit. You'll get cheated on many more times with that way of thinking, and you will die alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 03:44 PM |
| 22 | Tip on how to reduce AAI used this a lot when starting out. I carried around a blood donor information form in Finnish and asked cute girls for help in filling it (as if I didn't speak Finnish, or forms didn't come in English) , some questions were hilarious and I developed cocky funny responds to questions girls might ask in this conversation. took a girl who helped me back home within 2 hours once. took every opportunity to talk to a girl whom my friend liked but was too shy to approach (Hey, my friend likes you), I… | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 09:00 AM |
| 3 | The power of naked selfiesWHAT THE FUCK? | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 09:52 AM |
| -3 | To what extent should you be your real self vs being polite?Read David DeAngelo "Double Your Dating" Do everything he says whether it is logical or not Never be boring again. It's a book and you will find many other books or videos in this area. Sorry if you thought "yeah someone will type a paragraph long advice and I will get all the girls, be confident, and be super fun after that"; that just doesn't happen.- Procreation is the main purpose of your life, and it takes a while to learn how to do it super effectively and have fun doing it. Don't be yours… | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 05:30 PM |
| -2 | How to get alone with a girl?Firstly she was full of shit :) "didn't want to hurt her feelings" Each time you get a weird explanation as to why she she said no, the real answer is : Your game wasn't good enough. She could have been fucking the guy, or getting gifts and monetary favors in return for keeping in in orbit. I lead a girl away from her boyfriend. I invited a girl over to watch movies near her husband. And she came. *Never accept second class treatment from anyone. * You should have simply gamed other girls at the… | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 05:08 PM |
| -10 | How to get alone with a girl?Why do you want to be alone with her? *What can't you say or do around her friends that you will feel more comfortable doing/saying alone? * If she feels attraction and if she feels safe with you; she will let you lead her away, or take her home anyway. If you feel embarrassed about nice-guy style approaches which people around her would ostracize you for, or warn her, you better study attraction before trying to isolate girls for kisses (my first Jenny reference. I'm proud) | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 02:22 PM |
| 0 | After being stood up on a date, this guy reacted in the best way possible. Well played.If you had actually clicked the title , you would see his name and company,twitter and location are listed in the first paragraph, which links to his twitter feed. He is a celebrity who posted his own story on reddit and made it to the front page, and it is a Twitter screenshot, not "Facebook". Not another "I'm moderator I'm going to ban you from this subreddit harr harr you hurt my ego" from you. Reddit accounts are free to create. IP headers are free to change. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 06:51 AM |
| 0 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsHow do I think of myself as an attractive guy when everything in society seemingly points to me being unattractive? Attraction doesn't happen just because of your physical looks. It is true you may not be attractive in a sense we mean it at the moment but the last thing you should think is that attraction is based on physical appearance that comes from your genes. What you should do is; study the material a little and go out, have the mindset that "all women want you, but they are too shy to app… | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Defusing a shit test: we are just having a girls night out."How do you deal with this rejection" is what you want to ask. Smile, thank them for their time, don't linger around, don't follow them around, don't lash out, don't get upset, get over it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/15 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Girls flaking then coming back (Quick question, don't upvote)paragraphs are also a crucial component of writing, friend :) | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 11:29 PM |
| 13 | Girls flaking then coming back (Quick question, don't upvote)Even better, a boyfriend. "Interacting with you was a great deal of eye opener for me. Guys are much better." | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 11:28 PM |
| 17 | Girls flaking then coming back (Quick question, don't upvote)girl at a club There is your answer. Why do you delete numbers? Does your phone have limited memory or something? I can see neediness here but what do you really expect from drunk, emotionally unstable and self esteem addict girls frequenting clubs? Flaking is their game, she gave her number to 18 other guys and made out with 5 more that night. If you want rarely-flaking, reliable , classy women: do daygame. Clubs are great for exercise but only that. You will not meet your dream woman or your w… | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Meeting latina girlsIf you imply a date, even with a girl who liked you at first, you are signing "courtship type behaviour" and this puts a woman on the defensive. Never court women, make them court you. Actually tell her that you two would be great friends because she is not your type, or that you're gay or that you don't match. Disqualify yourself and she will lower all her defenses around you. You are just hanging out as friends and you are into other types of girls, or have 2 girlfriends already. Never be too … | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 11:57 PM |
| -1 | Beginner Questions From a Hopeless GirlReplication value. Would you be a good mother, experience low-risk childbirth, and give us the best offspring possible for our genes to be passed on to the next generation? These are how to select on a subconscious basis. Your genes need to be good and we are programmed to look for symmetrical facial features. Logic disappears and evolution takes over when we see a woman "Do I want to put a baby in her?". We call this "Attraction". Luckily you can fake this with make up, plastic surgery and othe… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Meeting latina girlsThe answers made me cringe so I will drop in to reply to your question. Confidence, security, leading, options, knowing how to treat women right, being a gentleman, being cocky, humour, sexual communication, non verbal communication, escalation, tension and release.. These are the topics you learn when you train yourself to be an attractive, confident man who is good with women. These are evolutionary principles that helped us pick the best mate to replicate with millions of years before latino/… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing signals?So you thought; "Asking on the internet is easier on my ego than GOING UP TO HER AND SAYING HI" Don't ask us. Talk to her. She could be your soulmate, you will never know unless you talk to her and miss the opportunity. If she rejects you: You tried, it will give you confidence and relief and you will feel like a MAN. You will approach others girls at the campus without asking on seddit. If she is nice: You will still most likely blow it up at your skill level but you will gain confidence and ex… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Tips for daygaming in NYC tommorowhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc Self-explanatory :) | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Told a girl I was a virgin. She walked out.What are the qualities that a woman looks for in a man? 1- A man knows how to lead and he is confident in his role 2- A man is never needy, he has self respect and options 3- A man knows how to treat her. In your interaction with this particular woman you have displayed none of these. You may have attracted her in the beginning enough to inspire some intrigue, but by talking about sex or comfort topics before fully attracting her and getting a "fuck yes!" ; you put yourself in the no-sex no-attr… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 04:39 PM |
| -5 | UPDATE on the two sisters sleeping-over in my hotel room. (OP delivers)I have read your previous posts and sighed instead of replying. If a girl brings a friend, OR HER SISTER to meet you; it means she thinks you are a nice guy and she can't feel safe with you: she needs someone to protect her. What you should have done is say "Hi, nice meeting you guys, I forgot to iron some rowels / I left a fork in the knife drawer / Forgot to water my cactus today" and leave as soon as you saw her bring her friend/sister with her. You accepted second class treatment and didn't … | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 08:34 AM |
| 23 | About to Lose my Best ManHere is it, this paragraph will upset you so think twice before reading it: When Oprah lost weight, she lost most of her friends, not because she changed her personality and mistreated them, but because they were getting their self esteem boosted from being around a fat friend. They were feeling better about themselves. When a man changes in the good direction, his friends are friends of the old self. The insecure, needy, unsuccessful with women, unsuccessful in life, not social, too generous an… | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 12:33 PM |
| 2 | So a post on /r/cringe caught my attentionPublic will and would never approve if you going up to a stranger, attracting her with communication they cant understand and taking her elsewhere. Does it work for you and the girl? yes. then what public thinks shouldn't matter. When you start thinking "what others in this place will think of me when I approach this girl and tease her and be direct and manly? Oh no they will think I m a creep. They'll think I m a player" = you have lost. That approach won't turn out good, you will go one step b… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 08:31 PM |
| 15 | So a post on /r/cringe caught my attention98% of those bullying the guy on /r/cringe probably never had the balls to approach someone on the street for something else than selling greenpeace tshirts. This is the internet, /r/cringe /r/niceguys etc are all full of hateful introverts or misandrists trying to put down strangers on the internet for things they can never even attempt to do, let alone leave their comfort zone and have a real life. Dont worry about what insecure losers on the internet say or think. Their opinions are worthless… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Infidelity is rampant."Same Day Lays" "Vin DiCarlo" are the search parameters, for cough torrents cough But you have not heard about this from me. Developing your game, fixing your inner game and becoming a secure man involves being secure about your woman's interest in you, being confident about it. You don't even think about it. And if she does, you know you can walk out and find someone better anyway, and she knows it too, she invests in you, because she knows she can't find someone like you; not in a sleazy bar g… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Infidelity is rampant.I'm sorry that reddit nice guys trying to find good pickup lines on this subreddit downvoted you. Chances are they got cheated on, dumped, rejected, ridiculed due to their lack of success with women so much that they have come to hate women, hate men who are successful with women and even though what you say is correct and makes sense, it goes against their beliefs that "all women are whores, they only date handsome rich tall guys, maybe I can learn some pick up lines on this subreddit, all chea… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Infidelity is rampant.It doesn't scare us, no. If you don't know how to treat your wife/girlfriend, if you can't lead, if you are indecisive, if you are not confident;** if you are foolish enough to believe that you just bound her to yourself with the first "yes" and you don't ever have to be a man again and she will stay with you no matter what you do and what you become: YOUR WIFE/GF WILL CHEAT ON YOU. And it will be your mistake.** The books and studies about attraction are not only there to pick random women up a… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 10:11 AM |
| -2 | Girl is receptive, but won't meet up.She perceives you as needy, and that kills all attraction she might have had towards you. Without you detailing everything about your interactions, your approach and what you define as a "date" we can not help you. Did you buy her $5000 lobster and $2000 wine each date in order to deserve a peck on the side of your lips at the end of each date? Was it fun, stimulating, sexual? Why have you not fucked her after three dates? Sounds more like she put you in the "no sex friends" zone and is having f… | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Old friend on FacebookLike all her photos and posts and comments. That will show her You are posting this in /r/seduction so I doubt friendship is what you care about at this point. Since you mentioned you were only friends, five years ago that tells me there was no attraction going on between you at that point, why would there be now? Have you trained yourself in attraction, read the reading lists, did club/daygame exercises suggested here and developed your confidence, security and conversational abilities? Or did … | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 02:48 PM |
| 0 | How to get passed "I have a boyfriend"Well she rolled out of the train and she did weigh about 70kg for a 160cm height. I did not do anything as she lost consciousness and collapsed about once every 30 minutes. Her eyes would roll and she'd fall. Then panic and shake if I helped her come to. After the first two times I simply ignored it and waited until she woke up by herself. Her arms were full of healed razor blade scars , some were probably made so deep they resembled worms made out of skin. When we got home she downed a 200 cl (… | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 06:39 AM |
| 0 | How to get passed "I have a boyfriend"Wrong. There is a third option when you have already attracted her and the topic came to sex or you are already making out and on your way to your bed; and she says "btw I have a boyfriend/I m married" She wants you to know her circumstances and wants to relieve herself of the responsibility. In case she is attracted and down; she does not mention this at a point when she thinks it might scare you off. Just when what's going on is obvious. Talking about last minute reveals; I was talking to this… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Giving business cards vs getting numbers?I have never given my phone number to a girl I have approached without getting hers . This was one of the things I have read the first night I started reading about how to become a real man and I avoided zealously. It paid well. how about you give me YOUR number? Why?.. / I don't think so / It was nice talking to you / Thanks for your time. Have a nice one. I also never owned a business card but I see where you're coming from. Done subtly, displaying status in an indirect say is a big plus. What… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 08:46 PM |
| 444 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...It was a club so ew, don't take it personally at all. Women go to clubs knowing "all guys at the club are trying to fuck a girl", that's right. If you "hunt" at the club, it is apparent to women and they will put you in the same category with all other guys. There is a trick to it and that's "fishing". You occupy a busy spot and throw bait to passerby hot chicks. When one bits, you continue, keeping in mind not to lean on her, no kino at first, no needy/insecure behaviour or topics. But int he e… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 12:45 PM |
| 0 | The answer to shit tests is to agree and amplify. Have you ever found you aren't amplifying enough?No. You are wrong. If she wants explicit answer, either say "no" or misinterpret. If she wants again, repeat. Don't hand your balls so easily (unless the question is : do you want a sugar in your tea or something trivial) And don't ask that. A woman may act like a slut in bed and you may both like it; but she won't enjoy being called one in the face of all social conditioning she was brought up with saying being a slut for a woman is the worst thing. Being mean and playful is a thing, being mean… | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 04:50 PM |
| 2 | The answer to shit tests is to agree and amplify. Have you ever found you aren't amplifying enough?I'm ripping that "two or three...hundred" off for my own use, friend :) I find that each time I sleep with a new girl, when we are cuddling SHE ASKS THE SAME QUESTION! When I was inexperienced I would think "ok she is going to think I'm a man slut if I say the real number, I must give a small number" which didn't work well. Then I tried honestly giving a correct number.. so neither yes or no was the answer. "So.. how many people have you slept with? I bet it must be a lot.." "Guys or girls? Guys… | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 12:12 PM |
| 7 | Can Nervousness Be Attractive?Don't listen to relationship or attraction advice from women. Do you ask fish how to catch it? Do you ask the opposing team how to defeat them in soccer? The woman in question probably liked something different about him: his confidence, height, looks, security, character, wallet = whatever but something that was attractive to her. He also acted nervous in her presence on a few occasions so she backwards rationalized "I am not shallow as to like him for his wealth/cock size. I must have liked hi… | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?)"A lot of people scoff at David for taking the plunge and committing to one person." Well, David has been repeating that "A lot of relationship experts who advise on attraction are divorced, multiple times. Relationship..experts..." argument in all his products. I have nothing against him finding a 10inside 10outside (well she is not my type, but tastes differ) woman who completes him. I owe the guy a lot and I can wish for nothing but his happiness. But if he takes a divorce.. that will not be … | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Happiness doesn't come in a package.On spot! I hope you start taking care of yourself and become the best version of yourself again. Nothing is stopping you from now on, nothing to lose, nowhere lower to fall anyway. Only you can make you happy. And in a few months, you will feel nothing for that girl, you will be able to get her, but you won't want to. | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 12:13 AM |
| -3 | [FR] girl who works at Starbuckswe don't care what you would or not with other guys. this is not the "how I threaten to beat up guys who approach my woman UNGA BUNGA!" subreddit, surprisingly. his advice is very wise. If she is just saying so as a defense mechanism it works very well because it is cocky and funny and it shows he is unfazed by her games. if she really has a boyfriend ; here is a confident man who approached her like in the movies (whereas her boyfriend is some chump she knows from school who threatens to beat u… | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 12:03 AM |
| -55 | [FR] girl who works at Starbucks"cheater" = "bad people" .. oh god you have a lot to learn. you should go out sometime, be social. not everything is black and white. are you getting your lines of wisdom from 9gag or something? | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 11:57 PM |
| -9 | [FR] girl who works at StarbucksGood start at least you approached :) customer service and being receptive aren't always the same thing she doesnt have a boyfriend. that's just a defense girls have against nice guys. I bet you 50 dollars (by paypal?) that she doesnt have a boyfriend boyfriend. probably few guys that she sees but no official boyfriend. she gets approached about 40 times a day on average you didn't ask for her number you waited for the liiiiiiiiine You should have acted as if you own the starbucks "hey, barista … | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't I attractive to the girls I WANT?Please refer to the guide and reading list in my first post. | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Why aren't I attractive to the girls I WANT?That article by Mark is something that has been kind of a law for me in approaches and relationships but never worded explicitly. Just an "instinct" until now. Thanks for the link. Now I have a name for it when I'm describing it :) | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Why aren't I attractive to the girls I WANT?Inner game. You can sometimes get some short time success using techniques you have picked up from one book or subreddit or the other. It's unlikely she will stay attracted as your inner self leaks out. If you have acquired techniques and games that lasts a lifetime; congratulations you can pull it off. But usually you will have to add something from yourself and it will show. When I first began, my success was short lived as well. I was thinking where I went wrong, going through my cheat sheets… | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Should I call a girl out if I can see that she's attracted to me?She is Japanese. Their culture is not very into sexual intercourse or fuckbuddies. I've had a few japanese (and chinese) girls attracted to me to the point of giving me different gifts daily in class (at university.) Although I could see I was making them go crazy with my cocky funny attitude, even when I got them alone at my place, at night, in my bed: "Only with my husband" You see? They are from a very different culture and it's very unlikely that you will be able to get a quickie. Hell.. I o… | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 04:16 PM |
| 0 | A blunt, socially retarded shit test that threw me off.This is why you get cheated on and get rejected. There is a difference between being mean and playful, and being mean spirited and insulting. | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 10:44 AM |
| 3 | How to stop putting pu$$y on a pedestalYour level is that you are needy, insecure and not confident. You are also a boy, not a man. The poster will NEVER be at your level. He approaches and dates women, you complain and blame your celibacy on the women in your new town. Can't expect an immature troll whose comments consist of "your mom" jokes but read carefully now; When you stop "needing" things and start "wanting" them; you should be able to withhold sex and get to know a woman on a deeper level. Every woman will be turned on by a … | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 01:30 PM |
| 11 | How to stop putting pu$$y on a pedestalI am sorry you are being spammed by mom's basement trolls who have never talked to a girl without telling her what kind of burger they want to eat. It is a quite good write up and it rings true for those of us confident, skillful men who can walk up to any woman in any situation and enjoy a high status, sexual interaction. Having a qualifying, challenging mindset before the approach puts us in a "Is she good enough for me?" way of thinking rather than "Am I good enough for her?" ; which changes … | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Hooked up with a girl on New Years and I never felt so lonelyHooking up with drunk party girls by definition has no depth to it and you will find none; other than sex. I suggest you try daygame where you have to be yourself and nightclub routines and techniques wouldn't work. You will still meet a lot of girls and get laid; but you will know what kind of people they are in real life without the alcohol, sex, noise and the fake reality of a party. At least you will "connect" in ways other than booze and sex, and make friends. | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 12:42 PM |
| -10 | "I'm gonna go now"What a pathetic loser you are. Trying to rationalize not fucking a woman, "because she has a boyfriend"; guess what loser: she will fuck another dude next day anyhow. ¨ You have no idea what the guy is like, probably a provider nice guy who is just buying her gifts, food, promising wealth when she settles down, but never teasing her, making her happy, pushing buttons in her female mind. Maybe he even raped her a few times when she didn't do it (doing it with other guys) but she chose to stay bec… | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Went on a date, lots of touching and laughing, kissed her... but now she isn't responding to my text.Everyone has experienced it. It's your mistake so far, don't think about her. If you haven't figured out what went wrong by yourself by now; ask me. It's pretty simple. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 08:31 PM |
| 4 | If you have a dream about a woman, would you tell her?If there hasn't been any romantic attraction between you; why are you asking it in /r/seduction? Let me rephrase your question : I be had a wet dream about a female friend of mine and I m sure she is not attracted to me: would she duck me if I turned her on by telling her about my dream? The answer is simply NO. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Girls on Tinder asking people to follow their instagram: I get why (more followers... christ), but Snapchat? What are they looking for? I've never understood this, explain?Private and 5000 followers? That's my guess :) The Instagram notification that "xxx wants to follow you" is something she can brag to her girl friends about in order to increase her reputation. Also they look for physical validation, about their looks, and it's all that their values are about. Chances are they won't Accor ugly followers who won't play their game or those who do t fit their reality (complimenting her like she s on a pedestal, because of her bellies and selfies ) | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Girls on Tinder asking people to follow their instagram: I get why (more followers... christ), but Snapchat? What are they looking for? I've never understood this, explain?Validation and attention, people with low self esteem will often post selfies, link their blogs/ig/kik/snapchat everywhere and ask other to message/follow. The "you are hot" comments or "your drawings are great!" Comments make them feel better about themselves when it's them who should feel good about themselves without any external factors. They mostly also seek for sexual validation and in that case you can get laid if you act differently than all the complimenting fish. Will you enjoy a meani… | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 09:21 AM |
| -4 | Stop worrying about "Text Game"You have a long ways to go, student. If you can do it: always piss off a woman and annoy her in ways that are not mean spirited. Drama feeds a central part of woman's needs. When you know how to create tension and release it, how to push and pull : no woman can stand before you without getting wet and sexually aggressive. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Stop worrying about "Text Game"100% true observation in the quoted text. Most guys asking for advice don't notice that they are needy and insecure , for attention and they feel she won't like him and won't text/text 100 other guys, but they have to fix that before learning texting skills or routines. Insecurity and neediness are your greatest enemies as a male. They are the first things you have to defeat in order to fight in the dating league. Women detect insecurity and neediness like turnusol strip turning purple. And they… | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Guys guys ! I'm so happy and i just wanted to share it with you !Haha awesome :) One less hunter to steal my loot. But really glad that you have made so much progress in a short time and began living outside your head rather than inside. you just have to begin making a lot of approaches. All cute girls you see. Make the conversations last as long as you can, for experience. You will later see your mistakes and fix them for the next day. Soon you will be explaining to your step father why you have 3 different girlfriends and about the couple of girls that has … | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 08:53 AM |
| 2 | If a girl told you that you were ugly, would you agree and amplify?You have deep issues about confidence and protecting your ego. Please do not attempt to "play" women or sarge before fixing those. 1- Always consider yourself an 11. All women want you, they are just too shy to show it, and the social restrictions cole into play. No guy has ever turned a woman on saying "I know I m average". It just does not happen. Even if Brad Pitt told that; he would turn her off. 2- why do you care what other people think of you? Why does it matter. Why should the opinions o… | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 08:38 AM |
| 2 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.This signs "needy" to me. Be a player if you wish, but nothing turns women off faster than a needy guy who minds such things. You should take longer than forever to text back and more importantly you should be talking to 9 other girls , screwing 4 and doing 3 important things with your life that you can't even pay attention to when she texts; only when you check your phone. 1- A man knows how to lead and he is confident in his role 2- A man has options, self respect and is never needy 3- A man k… | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 08:20 AM |
| 17 | I can't get over the racial barrier: is it because of me or them?It's all about you. When you stop blaming problems caused by a lack of skill, or lack of knowledge on women; you will achieve great things. Could you use your "exotic" complexion to your advantage? Of course. There will be girls of other cultures (or white girls, in your case) who is attracted solely to men of your type. It's like starting the game with a 1-0 lead with those women. They will already be attracted to you because you are "latino" and they have an idealized image of "hot adventurous… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Going out solo for the first time.. What are some rookie mistakes to avoid?Cocky comedy builds attraction from the first moment. "Double Your Dating" and hundreds of gigabytes of video seminars (turned into audio for easy listening) by David DeAngelo teach and introduce that. Will you make lifelong friends with cocky comedy? No. You wont sleep with the girl in that kind of relationship either. It polarizes, creates tension, and attracts from the get go. Then you release the tension, but create more tension again. That smiling and surprised "I cant believe you just said… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Going out solo for the first time.. What are some rookie mistakes to avoid?doesnt create attraction, for 20 something drunk dressed up young women looking to dance, have fun and look nice. Got to keep it light at those places. If you play the game game, meet your next girlfriend at a coffee shop, and she doesnt look like a shallow club girl; yeah you can talk about romance, literature, your favorite love movies and it will work better than a cocky club talk. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Going out solo for the first time.. What are some rookie mistakes to avoid?Not talking to a girl after you have seen her and made eye contact Talking or asking "deep" topics, or giving compliments to club girls Buying drinks to strangers (only girls, buy them for guys :p ) Leaning into people to talk, shows low status Following girls around the club Going to trying to talk to girls who don't seem interested Bragging or trying to impress Talking about your accomplishments... Don't do this. NOT TALKING TO PEOPLE Being too quiet, or not smiling Read the 2nd chapter of Nic… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 12:07 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Asked a girl with whom I didn't talk a lot before for her number. Simply asked.When we say "field report" "approaching women" "confidence" "rejection"; we mean real life, where you make yourself vulnerable and need real balls to approach, and be cocky.. If you can't do this in real life, can't say the real thing with complete confidence and a straight face to her face; it's worthless, you will not have congruence when it comes to hanging out with her for real. She will know what's up. Don't copy paste lines and tactics you found here on the internet. Go out and do them for… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 09:48 PM |
| 2 | I have no problem meeting girls and talking to them, but I have no idea how to cross the "just friends" state and escalate things further romantically.One is courting "I want to be your boyfriend/husband, be nice ot you, protect you, buy you things, and never challenge you, be the stabile thing in your life that is always the same, and boring" The other is "I want to fuck your brains out, I want to address your instincts, your deepest desires, the wild adventurous girl in you, I may leave tomorrow, I may not, you may know who I am, or I may be a mystery, but I will challenge you, drive you mad, and make your heart beat like a m***f*ker" That i… | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 07:54 PM |
| 4 | I have no problem meeting girls and talking to them, but I have no idea how to cross the "just friends" state and escalate things further romantically.You have a lot to learn and practice, but at first stage: "sexually", not "romantically". When you understand the difference, you will understand why you are being thrown in the no-sex zone. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Tinder experiment. Offering sex as an opener.Tumblr social justice warriors would have his profile featured on Anita Sarkeesian blog, track his personal details, spam call/email his boss and family, call him a rapist, and start a kickstarter campaign in order to defame him, where proceedings go to Anita Sarkeesian next holiday in Paris :) #tindergate | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Any experienced opinions on how to handle multiple women? Too good to be true - I have an open relationship and don't know how to use it!Yes. This is a textbook "nice guy" case that the wild girl wanted to settle for in return for safety, and stability. But she wants to get sex, excitement and emotions from "bay boys", so she fucks whoever she wants, having protection back at home to return to. And the husband thinks she is too good for him and believes letting her do what she wants will make her stay. Our genes tell us not to share our partner (female) with other males in order to protect ensure our genome's survival so guys who… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Any experienced opinions on how to handle multiple women? Too good to be true - I have an open relationship and don't know how to use it!Preselection is a valuable tool to increase your perceived status for women. They think "okay at least one girl have felt safe and comfortable with him , I can trust him more than these single players at the club" Saying you are married, but in an open relationship (no threesomes) is an incredibly attractive and sexual thing for club girls who are just in for the sexual validation with someone who has higher status than her. (If she is poor, it can be about being rich, if she s not very attracti… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 12:03 PM |
| 7 | How do I go from good friend to next boyfriend?Well, you are one hundred percent wrong. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 11:52 AM |
| 26 | How do I go from good friend to next boyfriend?1- not interested 2- interested as a friend 3- interested for sexual relationship 4- interested in a long term relationship 1 means: GO AWAY YOU CREEP 2 means: Friendzone as nerds on the internet call it. 3 means: Real friendzone where you hang out together and have sex 4 means: "He is so cute, I don't want to seem like a slut to him, I ll hold back the sex" You can go from 3 to 4 if you wish. Can't go from 4 to 3. You are at 2, chances are she won't be interested in you in a 3 or 4 context unle… | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 09:39 AM |
| 5 | No days of class left, unlikely to see her on campus, can still message her on online portion of class, what do?He also misses 100% of the shots he takes in despair, without any inner or outer game. This is advice on a particular girl that he has never approached before despite being in the same class until he has to resort to hitting on her on the internet like someone without balls scared of rejection (no offense OP) and unless she was already deeply in love with him (and even then, because he hasn't approach in real life) only grief will come out of this. OP should learn to improve himself, his confide… | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 05:50 AM |
| 1 | When "just be yourself" doesn't workSean is AWESOME! He is the man. Now close your eyes and think about this for a moment: Sean picks up women, and he is 3 feet tall. Here is him in David DeAngelo seminars: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbQEPjaxF2M I listened to his voice telling me to man up on my headphones when I was starting out, walking alone in daytime, approaching all pretty girls I see . For months I tell you. | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 05:18 PM |
| 1 | From Zero to Hero100% true, would sign my name beneath your post. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Is being direct always a good thing?I see your point however I have also got into Models and can see that he tried to polarize. The actual mistake in practice is that; she was having fun with him for months, as friends and since he didn't approach her that way ; he was already in the no sex zone (for a few months). Polarizing with actually manning up, challenging is perfectly okay and have turned a lot of Nos or Maybes into Yes's for me when I was just self-learning these topics. "I like you" if never as effective as "You like me.… | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Is being direct always a good thing?Being direct when approaching: YES , indirect methods reduce risk of rejection and save your ego, but girls "get" why you approach when you approach them. As Chris Rock would say "Hey here is a story that happened today, by the way would you like some dick?" What you did was not very clever. You handed her your balls: "here's my balls, do what you want with them" You blew it and you are the only one to blame :) But.. sometimes you win, sometimes you learn. Now you have learned never to confess y… | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 07:31 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Two f-closes from Tinder in one dayIf you are so good looking that girls would walk up to you and ask you to fuck them in nightclubs; yes it is easy. Girls who need sexual validation and the need to be approved on a daily basis use it to fuck very good looking guys (by her standards) with higher status than her. You should stick to real life approaches for your inner and outer game unless you naturally have the looks that make women want to bone you. Compare this post to a high school boy bragging "hey dudes!! you know stephanie … | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 07:31 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is going on with this sub!?It's an open sub, a public subreddit, meaning; nice guy turned fake alphas sharing lame pickup lines without any inner game, calling everyone else "betas", insulting and belittling each other AND WOMEN with obviously zero real life approaches. It's become a common thing for misogynist high school students coming here: "hey this whore dumped me, but according to text game she must have been fucking me, how do I deal with such flakes? Also fuck you betas, I m the grandmaster of seduction and owner… | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 07:04 AM |
| 7 | I walked up to a girl at McDonaldsI cringed when I read this and the follow up comments. Anything will work IF YOU BELIEVE that it will work. Please don't waste your time memorizing pickup lines and techniques if you don't have the basics and haven't reached the realization of what's really going on about attraction. It is all about your confidence, internal state, body language, eye contact, non verbal communication as you approach a woman. You could say "May I pee in your butt?" and it could have worked if said in a high statu… | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Confidence. What has helped me.(Lowest beginner level)You got it I had different songs and internal states that I would remember and get in, but this is the way to go. Congratulations. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you transition from getting a drink to "more serious" stuff?My (girl) friends have all been telling different things. For some, going for the kiss on the first date shows what are your intentions. Others told me that they never sleep with the guy on the first date. Others told me that a second date can be interpreted like you want something more than a FWB Look man, I will quote something from Nick Savoy's book for you that will change your mind about ever asking women for relationship advice If you’re a man, the odds are that you know very little about … | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 03:55 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with romantic introvert type of girl? +[FR]I believe she is the investor, idealist and denier type from Vin DiCarlo's Pandora's Box system. But if she already likes you, she WILL make you her boyfriend. Believe me. She will find something to fix about you, and be with you as long as that thing is not fixed. Please don't break her heart, sleep with her only to land a new girl. That will destroy her self esteem. You should leave every girl better than you have found her. On the other hand, when she says "no" to any sexual escalation; she m… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl is not ready for new relationshipNo, it is over for her. One month no attempt of setting up something? She lost whatever attraction she had. But let me tell you.. In the rest of your life you will meet such beautiful, amazing, charming, incredible women that; you will facepalm and kick yourself in the butt when you think back to these times and how you felt about this girl. Do you want to act the same way with them and waste those opportunities, or do you want to have them fall in love with you shortly after approaching them an… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | "gay" backfire?You insult a woman (flake) a woman you found on the internet and call her names (probably because you are too afraid of rejection when you approach women in real life) ; try to play PUA games you picked off the internet without having inner game, congruence or any idea how woman's psychology works. You are a piece of work. What you did wrong: - You did not build any comfort at all. You matched a stranger on tinder when you were swiping everything right. She seemed attracted based on your perceiv… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl is not ready for new relationshipOh she is ready. Just not for you.. Why does your confidence depend on one woman wanting to be your girlfriend or not? That is just needy behaviour. Confidence and congruence can not co-exist with neediness. You should stop idealizing particular women, learn to be happy and content by yourself and improving yourself. Then you can really be confident, and you won't care if a particular girl does or does not want you. She was fresh out of a relationship, she needed validation and attention. But sh… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 02:03 PM |
| 2 | My story and a few suggestions for "intelligent" beginnersYou should get hold of all Dave De audio series on the topic, and keep them playing on your mp3 player as you walk around and sarge. It also helps to talk to everyone you can, call up a good friend or two and chat before you start interactions. You just need to "get in state"; it's not about techniques or exercises :) The audio series will help by continuous listening. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 09:11 PM |
| 3 | My story and a few suggestions for "intelligent" beginners"I am thinking to resign from my job and start a new one" "what type of job?" "i am planning to create a kebab shop, i will take you to prepare the meat but only if you are good at it" I am planning to create a kebab shop. I could give you a job.. Really? You could be the kebab You should go and talk to all hot girls you see, daytime. Clubs are noisy and girls are so drunk that they don't get the jokes. Pisses me off. One alternative is to go online, a dating site (we have kuvake.net , irc-galle… | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 03:23 PM |
| 8 | My story and a few suggestions for "intelligent" beginnersWhat do you suggest I read next? I feel like David DeAngelos cocky/comedy would add some more ammo to my game. Hello David DeAngelo's book is a short read but it gives you the valuable conversational technique of cocky comedy. It doesn't conflict with any other way of approaching and being successful with women but when mastered, it is fun for both you and all female parties involved with nothing to memorize. The basic cocky comedy tips and what you should do is featured in the book but you shou… | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 08:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you, personally, qualify girls?I always get her to talk to me about her family or I screen for any tattoos or behavior patterns that might suggest she has "daddy issues"; in other words she grew up in a separated family. I tend to not get along with 95% of those women in the long term. This saves us both time and effort. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I neg too much. How do I stop?You should think "Is this mean spirited?" before saying things. You can and should be mean but never mean spirited. You won't believe how simple negs like "you look too cute for a 30 years old" on a 20 years old girl, or "let's go to gym together, I would be done in 30 minutes but you check out her butt and body need 3 hours at least" work. You should be just mean enough to draw a laugh and a "heyyy!!" But not "you are fat bitch, I wouldn't fuck you had 3 pussies" . That's mean spirited. Think "… | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 07:43 PM |
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