Your Experience & Learning

hunterpua · 2024-10-19T06:35:42+00:00

-Being opinionated

-Being in their feelings about important issues

-Unwillingness to openly and calmly talk about important things, whether that has to do with our beliefs, the world today, or simply our relationship with each other

-Immediately wanting to be the center of my world and constantly top priority even though we just started seeing each other or assuming they should be that for any guy they're seeing

-Expecting things from me that she's unwilling to give herself

-Saying all her exes were assholes or if the majority of her dating experiences have been shitty (odds are she's the problem)

-Generally talking smack about men

-Trying to spin everything I do negatively as if she's trying to make me admit that I'm gonna treat her badly

-Being too clingy and possessive early on and wanting to progress the relationship too fast (I once had a girl say she loved me after the first date)

-Having a bad relationship with her family or a bad attitude towards how her family turned out

-Not taking accountability for her life and blaming circumstances and other external things

-Caring too much about what others think of her

-And of course the obvious things like being rude to people they have power over, like waiters and whatnot.

Just a few random things off the top of my head.

Going_to_hell123 · 2024-10-24T05:00:14+00:00

Red flags

not being able to hold your end of a conversation:

in my opinion most people are capable of having a two way conversation, so if I have to carry the conversation then I will simply assume that you don't value me or my time.

Not being able to take criticism:

If she gets angry any time someone corrects her on something then that's a pretty good sign that she's a narcissist which is a big no for me.

Constantly talking about exes or previous partners:

I'm not a jealous guy but like, why are you telling me this? Unless we're specifically having a conversation about our exes, there's no reason to randomly bring them up. Like if we're eating at a restaurant and she's like "oh my ex boyfriend really used to like this place"... Okay and?

Title	Your Experience & Learning
Author	Small_Pool_6604
Upvotes	5
Comments	2
Date	October 19, 2024 5:50 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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