Last night, I had ranted to my best friend about how I felt about seduction as a whole. He told me that what I ranted about had potential, and that I should post how I felt in seddit, so that everyone can benefit. So here it goes...

Let's imagine your "game" as an onion. An onion has many layers, and if you keep peeling one layer at a time, eventually you'll hit the core. So the outside layers represent your outer game. One layer could represent your eye contact, the next could be your exterior looks, your body language and so forth. (OUTER GAME) As you keep peeling the onion, you get closer to the core. One layer could represent how confident you are, your attitude, your beliefs, how "alpha" you are, and so forth. (INNER GAME) Now... we are finally at the core. The ONE thing that will bring out your success, is your MINDSET.

I recently had a talk with my father, and he had told me a quote that had COMPLETELY changed my outlook on not only seduction, but life as well: In order for people to love you, you need to love yourself.

This is my philosophy: if we spend SO much time focusing on what we can change to be better with girls, you're going to forget the good things that you bring to the table. It's kind of like in Models, if you need to use stupid pick up lines or routines to open a girl, you're displaying your neediness. And quite frankly, it's because you simply don't love yourself to be that confident person to just go up to that gorgeous woman and be like: Hi, I just wanted to say you look cute today. My name's __, and yours?

What I've noticed about seddit ever since my best friend had introduced this to me, was that I'd say 95% of the men in this subreddit do NOT love themselves 100% to the fullest. If you all did, you would not be in this subreddit to begin with. You would not be maticulously searching for things like "how to be more confident" or "how to portray the image of an alpha male". And that mind frame you have by constantly going on reddit and the internet to look for more "techniques" and "inner game guides" just shows that you can't accept who you REALLY are. Cut this shit out, you are better than that. I hate how as a group of men, we act like women are fucking aliens. We act like they're an unknown creature that are impossible to figure out. We are all clones if we decide to just use the same techniques and guides that everyones using, and following it like its your personal bible. We are allowing a subreddit to change how we think, how we act, and who we are. Don't allow seddit to change your personality, but instead, use seddit to ENHANCE your personality.

For example, throughout my self-development career, I've always wanted to change how I am the typical introverted, shy asian when it comes to social situations. I've ALWAYS wanted to be that one outgoing guy who would be the centre of attention. So I searched for books and guides on how to be charismatic, how to be funny, how to be outgoing, how to build tons of social proof and more. I was SO focused on changing what I didn't like, that I had thrown out my good qualities out the fucking window. Long story short, I had gone out with my buddy for a whole semester to practice this, and I had never experienced so much rejection in my entire life. And I can honestly say, it's because I was NOT showing my true self. Listen, if you're an introvert and heart, EMBRACE IT. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. THATS WHO YOU ARE. Don't let society change who you really are as a person. If a certain technique or a certain guide doesn't click well with you, and you're following it just because some fool decides to post how it worked for him, DON'T USE IT.

Embrace what you have, every little thing that makes YOU. Literally 100% of it. Write down 10 things that you LOVE about yourself, and don't be embarrassed about it. If you can't do this, you really need to look deeper into yourself and FIND THEM. When writing this list, it should be flowing from fingers with ease.

Honestly guys, it saddens me to see people not see their success because of silly subconscious insecurities. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. And once you put that into you're brain, that you ARE something that these women have never seen before, I can GUARANTEE you that 90% of the articles shown on reddit and the internet that everyone is trying to "learn", will come naturally. Man OR woman, learn to love yourself, and I promise you TRUE happiness. Wealth, health, success at work, friendships, women are all merely a side effect of this mindset. Change your mindset, and watch everything fall into place.

RECOMMENDED READINGS/VIDEOS AND PROGRAMS

  1. All RSD videos
  2. Models by Mark Manson
  3. No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover
  4. The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane
  5. Strength Anatomy Training by Frederic Delavier
  6. Hypnosis Downloads located at www.hypnosisdownloads.com
  7. Mindhacker (works exceptionally well if you're always on the computer)

And that's it, there's my rant. Hopefully everyone can pick something out from what I had said. I feel relieved that I had gotten that off my chest. It's a new day for you tomorrow, go out and live the new life you deserve. Go kill it champ, you know you fucking earned it.