You're probably not a nice guy. I thought this was a pretty cool video on getting rid of a "pitiable me" attitude.

AlkarinValkari · 2012-11-03T08:20:14+00:00

This a billion times. I remember I always moped to myself about being a nice guy but then I just said fuck that and decided to not try and be anything. Definitely got more attention from girls that way, even without having to use any sort of game. Hence why people beat the dead horse of "Just be yourself" This is what they are talking about. Don't put on a front as a nice guy or an asshole, be genuine. Girls want genuine.

TsumeAlphaWolf · 2012-11-03T10:28:21+00:00

This was posted yesterday. Don't know why it's already off the front page of /r/seddit

Reign66 · 2012-11-03T13:51:57+00:00

Thank you for posting this.

JakalDX · 2012-11-03T12:36:38+00:00

I feel like this is becoming somewhat trite. While it's true these guys exist, I think there are legitimately nice people who think it is a trait that should help them with women (In the same way someone could say "I'm handsome, why don't I have any luck) but it doesn't because they lack confidence.

Calling out the "nice guys" as being secretly scheming dicks generalizes a bit much for my taste.

Title	You're probably not a nice guy. I thought this was a pretty cool video on getting rid of a "pitiable me" attitude.
Author	TG_Ambro
Upvotes	26
Comments	5
Date	November 3, 2012 7:10 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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