The reason for widespread misogyny doesn’t have anything to do with a backlash to feminism. It’s just women aren’t really likable when there’s nothing to save them from. A female domestic abuse victim is a lot more likable than if she was a liberal sociology major with all apple products with BLM stickers, starbucks frappuccinos, and dozens of cosmetic products on. This is because females are in their nature wired to want investment from others, and when they’re oppressed their demands are a lot more reasonable than when they’re liberated and only want chads with six figures and tons of different programs like universal healthcare, student loan forgiveness, etc

For men it’s the opposite. A successful man is a lot more likable than a disenfranchised man. Most incels would be very chill people if you just give them what they want.